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Personal advice, or don't be born as well. After all, life is not very rich now. Need to make money. In time you give birth, who will take the child. No one will care about you. You still bring it yourself, but there is one less person to make money.
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I really wouldn't recommend you to have another one.
You listen to me slowly.
It's expensive to have a child now, you've had children before so you should understand, but that's not the point, the point is your income.
You may say that the current income is just right, but the question is whether you can keep taking this income?
There are four elderly people in the family, is the old man in good health now? What about the future? At least 60% of your monthly income is now to be saved or used, right? The remainder of the deposit may not be left in the future, and it is very likely that it will cope with the unexpected.
Seventy-five percent of difficult families in China start with a serious illness in a family member, and if you and your husband suddenly fall ill, it will also cost a fortune.
And if you are a professional driver, you have some physical diseases, and it is very likely that you will lose your job, so you will have no income.
Don't always assume that it's impossible.
No one knows until it happens, but if you count the lost income, your economy may be set back by several years, and what will you do with your children at that time?
Without further ado, I hope it helps.
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Yes, don't give birth, your husband didn't take into account the hardships of you and the family, calm down and talk to your husband, my husband is also based on wanting a child, but if the family situation is not good, don't ask for it, after all, you still have to live.
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Don't be raw. Having a child is a matter of considering your family's financial situation, your expected future income, and your child's tuition fees.
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Think of your daughter. Now that the two of you are supporting four old people, how many will they have to support if your children are also only children? You know, people are getting more active now.
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Allow yourself to suffer, do you feel that your family is worth it for you to pay so much.
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Then don't give birth, since the family is not rich, you can't give good conditions for giving birth to a child.
The in-laws need your husband to communicate and explain the stakes, and I think they will accept it.
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The existing population is not well cared for, and rebirth is one more person to suffer, so why bother? I won't give birth, and my wife won't let me give birth if she wants to.
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Do what you can, the global economy will be sluggish in the next five years, think more about economic problems.
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This is a very personal question that depends on each person's family and personal circumstances. For some families, a monthly childcare allowance of 500 yuan is very useful to help them better afford the cost of childcare and improve their quality of life.
In addition, the decision of whether or not to have another child also depends on individual circumstances, such as family finances, work situation, number of children, age difference, and other factors. Every family's situation is unique, so you need to decide whether to have another child based on your actual situation.
Finally, it is important to remember that having a child is an important decision that requires careful consideration. Although childcare subsidies can provide some financial support, they should not be the only factor in deciding whether to have children. Before making this decision, a variety of factors should be taken into account, including family, professional, and personal factors, in order to make the best possible decision.
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Shouldn't. If I can't provide good living conditions for my children, I won't choose to have more children, at most one, I don't want my children to suffer with me.
We have an obligation to create good conditions for our children. If you can't reach it, you can't have more children.
When we get married and have children, we have the obligation to create good living conditions for our children and let them have a good space for development. This obligation is not only based on the relevant regulations, but also from the sense of responsibility in our hearts, because of this, we must assume the corresponding obligation for our children to create the best conditions for their children. If we can't afford more, we can't have more children.
As parents, we have a responsibility to nurture our children to become talents. Otherwise, you can't have more children.
As parents, in addition to fulfilling our own obligations to our children, we must also take on the responsibility of nurturing and educating our children. This is a great responsibility, and the future and future of the child depend on it. That's why we have to take responsibility for our children.
Having more children means that families with limited conditions cannot raise their children better. Such a family should rationally give up the idea of having more children and face this problem with a realistic attitude.
We must consider the actual situation of the family when it comes to whether or not to have more children.
Whether or not to have more children is closely related to the actual situation of your family. Specifically, if your family conditions are relatively good, you not only have enough economic conditions to create good conditions for your children, but also have enough energy to cultivate and educate your children. Then there is no problem in choosing to have more children.
However, if your own conditions are limited, choosing to have more children is not conducive to the growth of your children, and you should give up this idea rationally, so as to obtain the most ideal results, make family life harmonious, and let your children get the best development. No matter how many children I have, my greatest wish and desire is to provide my children with a rich and good life, and not let them suffer with me. Do you agree with what I said? Thank you!
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