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has become the person I don't like the most, and unconsciously, I hate such things and such people, but I can't become like this. On the surface, he looks cheerful and generous, but in private, he is selfish and unreasonable, stubborn and sensitive, dark and stingy. It's like two personalities.,Never show your dark side.,I can't believe I'm so annoying.。
In this process, what you have to understand is what is the reasonable way and what is the bottom line that you have to stick to.
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From a long time ago, he became the person he liked the most. It was a tragic story, when the girl I liked said to herself, even if I don't have someone I like, I won't choose you, because I don't want to settle. This sentence may just be a rejection of me, but this sentence makes me very sad and feels worthless, that is, from that time on, I hated myself and complained to myself, why did you live the way I liked, and I failed to live the way you like, this is the so-called providence to make people.
Now I still live in dreams, I still think you are flawless, I still think you are gentle and kind. Fortunately, with you, I have a good memory, and because of you, I recognize the world more clearly and recognize myself.
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Many people will be like this, and slowly become what they hate. When I was young, I hated the fact that adults were pushing glasses and changing lamps in the wine field, and they were flattering. Now I've become like this.
When I was a child, I hated my parents for urging me to do my homework. Now I chase my disobedient son with a broom every day. Sometimes it's not that you want to change, but you are forced to do it.
Had to change. If you don't want to become what you hate, then work hard.
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Because there are many factors that affect the formation of a person, such as the strong environmental forces, the culture you are exposed to, the ideas you come into contact with, all of which can change you, and the innate nature of human beings. Those people we don't like have also become like that because of a certain upbringing and environment. Growing up and environment are determined to a certain extent by us, but not to a large extent.
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When you choose to escape or do something wrong, and when emotions such as guilt make you feel that your behavior is at odds with morality, you will subconsciously find reasons for yourself to make yourself feel at ease, so you become accustomed to making excuses over time.
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In life, he has become more and more aggressive, and his kindness to strangers has become more and more bad. I know it's not good, but there's nothing I can do about it. I can't change, I was told in my head that this was the right thing.
That's how I was when I was a kid, the person I hated. But it's helpless, growing up seems to be such a process.
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When the persistence of youth is worn out by time, the ideals of youth are shattered by reality, and you suddenly find that your ambition is actually just too high, and you no longer have the courage to take risks and fight again, the game is over, and you are finally defeated by yourself.
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I just want to get back to my original self, and I find that I have been lost in sadness. swore not to forget his original intention, but he had to surrender to reality after all. It may be a bit difficult to understand, but it is a very sad thing.
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I became the kind of person I didn't like the mostThere is no turning back from the bow, and it should be understood that once a person changes, then no matter whether he changes in a good direction or a bad direction, it is impossible to return to the original appearance.
1. If you want to grow and harvest, you are destined to lose your former self. In order to live, step by step I turned myself into the kind of person I didn't like the most.
2. Life is like a play, we are all the protagonists in the play, but everyone's time and script are different. Unconsciously, the past years have invisibly added pressure to life - work, life, and the concern of parents.
3. We must constantly improve our quality and enrich our life experience and knowledge. The ancients said that "learning is endless", which shows that people should continue to learn in order to continue to become stronger and better.
4. To become stronger and more successful, then you must learn to change yourself and strive to improve yourself. Don't always find any excuse to refuse to change, the world is changing every second, why don't we know how to change?
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Many people will change due to various reasons in reality, which is normal, as long as they still keep their original intentions.
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Then change back again. It doesn't matter if you get your shoes wet, if you do it with all your heart, then it's a big problem. Now that you recognize this problem, it means that you want to change, go ahead, and try to become what you want to be.
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Only with goals, plans, dedication, self-awareness, patience, and persistence can we go far. If you want to live a better life, you have to make more money, and you start to work numbly, and you will feel that life is hard and powerless, but if you stop there, you won't be able to go to the end anyway, and the main thing is that you don't have a good understanding of the price you pay, and you don't have much patience.
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Everyone changes. It's just that you're not positive and sunny. Societal pressures. Emotional stress. Stress of substances. It's numbing. It's all about the opening point. Don't think about it so much. Be sunny and optimistic.
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Everyone will live as they hated the most, life is not easy, do it and cherish it!
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Since it is the kind of person you hate the most, and you realize it, then change yourself, saying that you hate it, and you have a lot of pressure in your heart, and you must find a way to change. First of all, understand the characteristics of the kind of person you hate, and secondly, think about how you can change it.
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Don't forget the original intention, we can't change the world, I just hope that we can all not be changed by the world.
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You correct your shortcomings and soon become a person who is liked by others.
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If you find it in time, correct it in time, and be a person you like, and others will like it.
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Everyone's growth experience is different, it is life, work changes a person's life. I sometimes ask myself why I am like this!
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This society is very realistic, and it is good for everyone to become accustomed to what they did not want to be when they first went over time
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When you grow up, no one wants to be like this, it's a cannibalistic society.
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This is life, in order to survive, most people have no choice, and find their own little luck in the red dust.
Or break all the shackles and be true to yourself, and then take the consequences of doing so, everything has a price, think twice before doing anything, and then do it with indomitable momentum!
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In fact, people will always change, you today are different from tomorrow's you, as long as you don't give up your bottom line, it's OK
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Many people are like this, and forgiving people who hate them is also forgiving their own hearts.
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A change of environment, a change of lifestyle, a fresh start,
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People have to go through it all their lives.
Many tests, as long as you don't forget the original intention, you can always be done.
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It's called growth, it's just that the previous ideas were immature.
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Okay, so about how it feels when you're not happy with someone you don't like, I'm going to level it down as follows:
1.Feeling embarrassed and uncomfortable.
We tend to feel embarrassed and uncomfortable when we don't like a Terran round, but the person expresses his or her liking to us. We may feel like we don't know how to respond to the person's emotions or worry about hurting his or her feelings.
2.Feeling confused and helpless.
Probably in some cases, we feel confused and helpless. We may not know how to respond to the person's liking, or be unsure if our feelings are true dislikes. This sense of confusion and helplessness can cause us some stress and anxiety.
3.Feel respect and empathy.
Even though we don't like the person, he or she has developed affection for us, and we should still give him or her respect and sympathy. We should not have an attitude of disrespect or ridicule towards this person, but should treat him or her with a gentle and understanding attitude.
4.Feel grateful and self-reflective.
We can be grateful to the person for expressing his or her emotions to us because it shows that the person is brave and sincere. We can also reflect on our own feelings and attitudes through this person's liking, and see if we have done enough to express the feelings of others or whether there are certain prejudices and stereotypes.
5.Feel responsible and an opportunity to grow.
When we are liked by people we don't like, we can see that this is an opportunity for us to grow and improve ourselves. Through this experience, we can better understand our own thoughts and attitudes, learn to respect and appreciate other people's emotions more, and better handle and respond to such emotional expressions.
In conclusion, when you are liked by someone you don't like, you may feel embarrassed and uncomfortable, confused and helpless, respectful and compassionate, grateful and self-reflective, responsible and opportunities to grow, etc. At the same time, it is also an opportunity for us to grow and improve ourselves, and we should face and deal with this situation with openness, respect, and gentleness.
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Yes. After so many things, I know that marriage is never a matter of two people, and the so-called suitability that I don't like is reality, there are too many such marriages in real life, but there are still many who have a happy family.
When you quarrel with your mother in order to be with someone you particularly like but are not suitable for marriage, you quarrel with your mother, say hurtful words, and hurt your mother's heart every sentence, obviously your wish when you were a child is not to make your mother sad. In the end, it turned out that what my mother said was right, what is the use of liking, and the other party clearly knows that liking and fitting are two different things. She's a person from the past, much more sober about marriage than I am, and I've always been confused.
If it is suitable, it will not be funny and hateful, and if you don't hate it, it may become liked, after all, people will change. It's too difficult to find someone I like and fit to be with, I didn't give up looking for someone I liked, but in the end, I would be forced to marry the right person. I once said proudly, I can't find someone I like, I'd rather not get married, the older I get, the more I feel that I am superficial, whether I like it or it is suitable, it is a great fate to be together and get married, and I must cherish it!
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Summary. Hello, it is true that there is such a situation as you said, the person you like will also become the person you don't like, and as you grow older and more time, your perception of people and things is like this, that is, it will change.
Hello, it is true that there is such a situation as you said, the person you like will also become the person you don't like, and as you grow older and more time, your perception of people and things is like this, that is, it will change.
If you happen to encounter this situation, don't panic, it's part of your upbringing, it's normal.
Hello, the teacher broke up with the girl, and she said that since you said those words, she liked and became disliked, and she said a lot of things that hurt his heart.
The meaning of this sentence is that you have hurt her, and she refuses to be in a relationship with you because she feels that you do not respect her. If you regret the breakup, it may be too late to sincerely apologize. But it's clear that you've hurt this girl.
And I said can I start over, and he said let's talk about it, I don't want to think about it right now.
There is still no chance of recovery.
I think there is a chance to redeem it, but it is helpful to calm down for a few days, preferably two days, not too short and not too long, and then apologize, to explain face-to-face, to change the other person's opinion.
What I bought for him today he refused.
You have to persevere, you can't give up when you encounter some difficulties, if you give up, there is no hope.
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I don't know when I became what I didn't like or even hated, whether I lost myself, or I couldn't find my original self in confusion.
I hope that I am brave, strong, and decisive, but I am timid and indecisive in reality. I thought of it but didn't do it for the first time, and I thought about it but didn't do it, which is equal to zero.
I don't want to be in a passive state all the time, I always don't dare to take the first step bravely, and I always regret being cowardly.
When did you become what you don't like, you don't like it, let alone others?
It's not that I want to please anyone, I just don't want to be dissatisfied with myself, I don't want to be self-explanatory, and I always spend it in regret. Whose youth is not confused, who is perfect.
It's not scary to be what you don't like, it's scary to lose yourself in the crowd.
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Is everything black and white? Maybe you think that you are now scheming, you have a city, and in the eyes of others, you are smart, witty, and sensible, and few things are absolute and single, just as there is no absolute villain, and there is no absolute decency, but the position is different. This is the case with things, and so should the way we look at things.
Most of the past cognition is one-sided and immature, and there is no need to stick to the previous view, people's cognition is enriched little by little from point to face, from face to body, so it is not impossible for the immature self at the beginning to hate the mature self compared to the mature self, and it is reasonable for the current self to become the self that he longed for at the beginning. Therefore, it is not absolutely true that people become people they don't like, so self-examination should also be combined with personal actual conditions.
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