Whose problem is it, and whose problem is it?

Have a good talk with your mom and tell her what you think, but fully.

You can tell her that you are interested in learning, but you don't like your mother to control it in this way, and if you are in this state for a long time, you will feel that you are nothing because of blame, and you say that you want to get support and encouragement instead of scolding.

Your mother is strict with you because she hopes that you will have a great future, is your sister better than you are more accustomed to it, so your mother is more assured, you think more about your own shortcomings.

It's because your mother is too strict, but your mother loves you, doesn't it mean that beating is kissing and scolding, and it is love.

Don't take those questions to heart and think about it.

She said that she was annoyed, so she naturally stopped talking.

She obviously likes you, but she thinks cranky, and if you're not interested in her, just make it clear to her.

Your question, she obviously likes you, hurry up and date her to talk to the watch.

People with unmet needs, have problems.

Whoever owns the emotion owns the problem.

Whoever feels that someone else has a problem, has a problem.

Today I will talk about the third basis.

Everything has a reason for its existence, and in the same way, all opinions have a background for their existence.

What kind of behavior or opinion a person has, there is naturally a reason for its existence, and the key is how the person who sees or hears it understands.

In a child's tiny head, a dog is a horse. Parents don't know what their neighbors teach their children and think it's amazing because they don't teach their children that. If parents think that there is something wrong with their child, is there a problem with the parents?

Because they draw conclusions without knowing the facts, and they are wrong.

When the child comes home, he sometimes tells his parents: Teacher XX is very annoying in class, and he always only asks questions about the classmates in the class, and never asks me questions. In the eyes of children, the teacher is problematic and the teacher is unfair.

If parents agree with their children without asking, then you are missing an opportunity to help your child.

If the teacher does not ask the child questions, the child may not raise his hand; It may also have raised its hand, but not as high or positive as other students; It is also possible to raise your hand again and again and be ignored by the teacher (this is more common in elementary school).

At this time, you can tell your child: if no one in the class raises their hand, they are all waiting for the teacher to call their name, and you can boldly raise your hand if you want to speak. If the majority of the class raises their hands, you raise them higher; If everyone is holding high, you will ask the teacher to call you to speak. If you speak up and the teacher still doesn't call you, you should think more about your own opinions, and when the other students have finished speaking, you can also get the opportunity to add to the speech.

These practices make people have no me, people have me, and people have me. So you see, the child has a complaint about this, and the child has a problem: he doesn't know how to get the opportunity to speak smoothly and boldly.

If parents teach their children in this way, they will turn their children's problems into opportunities, an opportunity to teach children not to complain when they encounter difficulties, and to find ways to solve them.

In life, when we encounter conflict, we often think that there is something wrong with others.

All problems are opportunities.

Let's work together!

I think it's because he has low emotional intelligence, maybe he didn't realize the problem at this level, you should talk to him well, my boyfriend is like this Actually, get along well, together is fate.

Divide !! Are you stupid??? I think you're stupid???

It feels like either he doesn't care much about you, or he just doesn't know how to be considerate, but no matter what the reason, the girl doesn't want to accept it, you still talk to him directly, and you should find another good match if you don't know it.

I believe that he is not real, but selfish. Deeper, I don't love you, so I don't feel sorry for you.

The sugar that is coming is not sweet.

It's time to think about what your relationship is. Think about where he puts you.

If there is anything, I think you should still make it clear to him, because after all, he is not a saint, he can't guess what you want, men are generally very careless, maybe it's his personality problem, he doesn't think so thoughtfully.

Sigh with emotion: After reading the story of the two of you, I feel that you are very happy with him.

First of all, the two of you will quarrel over this because neither side understands the other person's mind (or idea).

He thinks that you interfere too much in his life and behavior, and he thinks that you are taking care of him, making him feel faceless;

And you are Tian Tian because of concern, out of instinct. Although you may know that the car will not hit him, when you see him behind the car, you will pull him to the side without thinking. This is a kind of motherly love that women are born with.

I can see that you are a very considerate and caring girl; In fact, this matter (if you describe it truthfully) is clearly the man's misinterpretation of your good intentions, in other words, even if you are out of charge with his intentions, as a man, he should have the stomach to tolerate.

At this point, you can try to communicate with him more so that he understands your intentions and believes that he will accept it. If so, you let yourself learn not to take an example, which is the next way to make compromises;

Otherwise, you can try to switch roles with him. For example, when walking, you walk on his left, and you don't hide when you come to the car (of course, first of all, to ensure your own safety), let the driver honk the horn. At that point, he should be able to do something, and your problems will be solved.

Remember a sentence Distance produces beauty First separate for a while, you will find each other's good when you are together, if you still can't do it, I advise you to divide it up, and regret it when it's late.

Your boyfriend belongs to the family who has been heavily cared for by his mother, and he now feels like a marionette in the extreme. He felt that he was an independent individual, and he could no longer distinguish between care and love. His heart also narrowed.

You should just say this kind of fool, why are you so grumpy when you chase me.

Of course it's his problem, you're worried about him like this, and he still says this about you

On the one hand, it may be that he feels very tired from work and has to help you make pictures during the rest time after work, or maybe he thinks that he is tired for a day This kind of small thing should be within his ability, and he doesn't need to help you and you don't understand him, so he will feel wronged.

On the other hand. You think he's willing to help you with even this little thing, and you think he's a little selfish.

In fact, couples think about each other for each other, and many things can be resolved, but both parties may not be able to let go of their bodies, and in this regard, it is generally the girl who speaks softly first, but does not say anything apologic.

Trust that he will understand you A man is generally not married to the one he loves the most, but to the woman who understands him best. So that he will belong to you.

In fact, it's nothing, there is no one right and who is wrong, couples, it is inevitable to have a little quarrel, sometimes, you need to give him some space, coquettish in front of him, and the relationship will naturally get better :)

As a boyfriend, you should help your girlfriend for such a small thing.

A very famous professor always wrote the numbers "2" and "4" on the blackboard every time he gave his first lecture to a new student, then turned around and asked the student, "What's the answer?" ”

Some students said it was "6", some said it was "2", and some said it was "8". Some others got bored and sat there without saying a word. While everyone was talking, the professor sighed and said to the students

It's useless for you to argue because none of you notice a key question: what exactly is this question asking? Is it addition or subtraction, multiplication or division?

Or something else? I don't know what the problem is, how can I get the right answer? ”