Are contemporary young people too self interested in their concept of marriage?

It is true that young people today are too self-interested in their concept of marriage.

This phenomenon is very obvious in big cities, no matter how much an individual yearns for love, parents will think about their children, once the object involves marriage, all people become egoistsIt's like it's a matter of course.

When this phenomenon appears, we have long been accustomed to its existence, and even take the condition of self-interest as a condition for finding a partner, and it seems that the two sides have a common topic, which also involves factors such as respecting personal hobbies and habits.

The title emphasizes the word "marriage", which explains the concept of marriage between men and women, and emphasizes the existence of the concept of self-interested marriage among contemporary young people. I think the emergence of this phenomenon has a lot to do with the economic environment of today's society, where everyone expresses their desire to live a good life through the Internet, but in reality they want to be opportunistic, hoping that the other party can help them, thus ignoring the meaning of marriage. Coupled with the impact of Western marriage, we quickly integrated into our own concept of marriage, resulting in a vague understanding of marriage.

Even many young people have fallen in love and marriage because of their strong self-interest, which affects the unmarried people's perception of marriage, and gradually loses confidence in the marriage of "marrying", and only wants to be lonely for the rest of their lives, and their desire to treat anything is extremely lowBut those who excessively pursue the concept of self-interested marriage have actually forgotten the concept of traditional marriage.

On the contrary, in the face of the choice of love and bread, most people will choose bread, and only a very small number of people still have a longing for love, which is also the consequence of the integration of domestic marriage concepts with Western marriage concepts. Westerners are relatively open to the concept of marriage, believing that divorce, marriage, and cohabitation are all normal things, and some people who accept the traditional concept of marriage are prone to "rebellious" psychology.

In fact, in the face of the Chinese and Western views on marriage, young people should take the essence and remove the dross, rather than allowing the modern concept of marriage to develop into refined egoistsIf everyone thinks about their own interests, the marriage rate will only be lower, and with the impact of the cooling-off period for divorce, modern young people are more afraid to touch marriage easily, and it is only a matter of time before they become egoists after being beaten by society.

Finally, I hope that everyone should learn to treat the concept of self-interest in marriage, and appropriately withdraw their own concept of self-interest marriage according to the attitude of the other party. If the other party is a scumbag or a scumbag, it will be better to stay away naturally.

No, I think it's a kind of ideological upliftment. Contemporary young people do not care about marriage, but attach more importance to it, and they also understand that marriage is not the only way to go in life.

You can't say that, you can only go on by supporting each other. If you only think about the profit, such a marriage will soon become a bubble.

No, many of the ideas of marriage are influenced by local customs, and only some young people are too self-interested about the concept of marriage.

Contemporary young people are promising young people, we should think about ourselves, there is nothing wrong with the emergence of the concept of self-interest, and only when we think well about ourselves will we consider others.