What if I fell out of love, I lost a lot of friends for her and now I have nothing

If you fall out of love, there are several options, you can try to renew your friendship with her, and if you still love him or her, try to find the sweetness of the past. If you feel so broken that you don't want to get it back, just be alone and look for your next relationship. Don't wait for yourself to let go of the past, you can't let go of it, you can only forget, and it's not a good idea to cover up the past with a new relationship, although it may not be fair to some people.

Don't be disappointed in everything because you give up too much, you will be miserable, look at the point.

In fact, no matter what, love is by no means the whole of life, in addition to love, you will find that you have other things, such as family and friendship, and even, there are enthusiastic netizens, like me like the one upstairs is not all comforting you? If you fall out of love, if you really can't go back, then you should learn to enjoy the state of being single, and when you didn't have a girlfriend before, you also felt sorry for yourself every day? I don't think so!

Maybe a good cup of coffee and a good movie will make you feel better! Also, remember that some people live with it, and some people use it to grow. Because of this lovelorn, you will cherish your relationship more next time, and you will meet a better girl, believe this, absolutely yes, come on!!

Friend, I'm about the same as you, I couldn't figure it out at the time, she was angry because I was chatting with other girls, I cut off all the contact with all the girls around me, it's nothing, now it's broken up, she is very happy, found a new boyfriend, when I still send her a message every day, she found someone else, there is nothing right or wrong, if you don't like it, just divide it, endure the heartache yourself, slowly adapt to it, think about him every day, just bear the heartbreaking pain yourself, it will be good if you feel uncomfortable for a while, there is no other way, Heartache to get used to it.

Let's re-establish a friendship, start to work harder, but it will be fine later, don't lose your life trajectory for her when you fall in love, a good relationship is to integrate into each other's social circle rather than estrangement. Come on.

I'm worse than you, I really 、、、 repeat the quarrel for four years, and finally it came to this point, let it go, work hard, live well, and make your future wife happier than her, just think like this every day, I think so, although I can dream, but the dream will be blurred day by day.

Cheer up, better, just the most devastating means of revenge!

It doesn't matter, because you're still young.

After falling in love, I lost a lot of friends, what happened?

In our daily life, we have always been covered by the dust of love, friendship and true love. When we focus on love, falling in love seems to have become all of our daily life, and the time and energy to maintain friendship are getting lower and lower, and of course there are fewer and fewer good friends, and I think the main reason is that people tend to regard feelings as very important, so they will unconsciously regard feelings as very important in life. Therefore, they will spend a lot of time with their other half, and they will also want to share their joy with their other half.

The responsibility of the other half is sometimes higher than that of the friend. This is because we regard love too seriously, and it is easy to fail to balance the scales in our hearts in love.

Everyone's energy is relatively limited, and in a certain stage of growth, there will always be some focus in life. I have always attached great importance to communication with my friends during my studies, and even if I have been studying and working in a big city that is not talking about it, I still keep in touch with these people from time to time, and sometimes continue to meet them. But when we really entered the society, after I met the person who made my heart move, and the two of them stepped into a relationship hand in hand, I put more time on making my girlfriend happy.

I look forward to her experiencing my thoughts, and I look forward to our relationship going further. Daily life has always been moving forward in abundance, and the experience of maintaining friendship has already been put into the relationship.

The word "heavy color and light friends" is actually not just talking, the main role of good friends in everyone's life is to wait, and when you have the person you love the most, the main characteristic of good friends has been replaced, and it is not so essential. Everyone subconsciously spends the time spent on the body of a good friend on the person who is in love with them, and the feelings of two people may continue to be deposited in the time, but the former friendship is still being constantly entertained in the time. Love is always a blind follower, and when there is only affection left in our eyes, friendship is likely to have been left behind.

Your relationship wants you to invest time and energy to operate, and your friendship wants you to invest time and energy to maintain. But everyone's energy is relatively limited, and you always have to choose a key point. Cherish falling in love, maybe this will be the most important thing in your life path.

I think it's because you didn't deal with the problems of friendship and love with Hengkai after you fell in love, and after you fell in love, you will definitely ignore the love and care for your friends, and you won't have more time to get along with your friends, which makes your friends very sad, so they will gradually stay away from you, which will cause you to lose a lot of friends.

Because it is easy for people to fall in love, they will want to think more about where to play with the object, what to do, they will ignore the existence of friends, and what they share with their friends will be shared with the object, and they will always unconsciously turn off the file in their minds, and they will consider him in everything, so they will lose a lot of friends.

After falling in love, we will focus on falling in love, and when we encounter things, we will share them with each other at the first time, and over time, we will have less contact with friends, and the friendship will slowly fade into the friendship hall.

It may be because in the process of falling in love, you ignore the existence of your friends and often snub them, so you will lose a lot of people who you had a good relationship with before.

Losing a best friend.

It's the feeling of losing one of the best things. Or the feeling of breaking a vase, you want to throw away a vase, I think it's a pity, because this has brought you happiness for so many years. But keep it, it's broken, and even if it sticks up, it won't get back to its original shape, and there will always be traces.

Yes, that's how it feels, I can't keep it if I want to, I can't let it go if I want to. Friends are our blood relatives in addition to.

Friends are the most noble titles. Friends transcend any relationship, I value friends very seriously, I have very few friends, I am stricter about making friends than looking for lovers. Sounds funny.

It depends on the essence of the loss. If it's a farewell, it's a heart-wrenching thing. If it is lost because of misunderstanding or cognitive conflict, it is normal, so you don't need to care.

A true friend must stand the test of history, otherwise, he is just a playmate. We have a common hobby of fishing, and we meet every weekend to fish, and when we fish together, I can forget all the troubles in life and talk and laugh with him. Slowly I became dependent on him, and he seemed to be my dependence and sustenance in my work and life.

I even said to myself that I would always be on his side no matter what happened. At the end of last month, when I went to work on a Monday, he suddenly seemed to be a different person, and he never took the initiative to talk to me again, and all his previous behaviors never appeared again, and when I took the initiative to find him, he was only perfunctory.

It feels like it's disgusting to see you. I asked him why, and he said it was fine. But the truth is that he's getting farther and farther away from me.

I suddenly felt that my life and work were missing sustenance, and my whole person was empty. When I go to bed at night, I can only sleep for three hours, and I have no appetite for food. Seeing him talking happily to others, I felt even more uncomfortable.

I would still choose to take the initiative to talk to him, but he still ignored him. I'm really good to him and give sincerely, but why is he doing this to me? I think I'm like a licking dog later, I actually want to make it clear to him, hanging here like this makes people half immortal, fight with him alive, and let go completely.

I don't know when I'll ever recover, but I know it's never going to be again.

The reason why you feel this way is because the relationship between you and your friend is really deep, and he has always been by your side, so he has already regarded him as his own family and an indispensable part, so when he suddenly leaves, it will feel like a broken love.

This is because I attach great importance to my friend, and this friend is very important in my heart, and I have given a lot of affection, so losing a friend is like falling out of love.

It's because this friend is very important in your mind, and because the relationship between the two of you is very good, so after losing him, it will feel like a broken love.

Because friends are very important to themselves, they are no worse than lovers, so they also feel like they have lost something very serious, so they will be like falling out of love.

I also experienced the same experience, I think it was a misunderstanding and then spent two years on the Internet to find his traces, in fact, it is also through this stupid and stupid way to know more about him, two days before the Mid-Autumn Festival this year, I was applying for a friend message box blessings, he actually replied, extremely cold, he said three words, the last sentence is to let me cancel all the attention on the Internet, and delete friends. I said I just thought that I had a misunderstanding before because I didn't know him because I did this, and he said that you only disgusted me even more. “。

I'm speechless... I shut down many platforms on the Internet, including Douyin, the account he just closed to each other, I left a message for him, and finally left a message "cut the robe and break the righteousness". I was really sad without this friend I particularly liked, but this time the level of sadness was reduced compared to the last time, maybe after time washed, the sadness of those lost friends has weakened, and the wound has healed to the point of hardening.

"Farewell in this life, I think, it's not worth it and it's gone, break it off, no matter how good it was before, it's useless garbage now."

I won't let his disgusted expressions and words hurt me again, I don't lack friends, I don't lack friends who like me, why do you have to be friends with him, let's go, some are far away, for you to observe me, go, I don't mind how to observe love...

Both parties in a relationship put their minds on each other, and they don't pay attention to the friends around them and don't communicate, so as the couple is like glue, they may find that they don't seem to have other good friends. Because friends are mutual, sincere to each other, and the other party returns affection, friendship can be maintained. In the process of falling in love, if you don't pay attention to the communication with your surrounding friends, you will be prone to the situation of the landlord.

Now you still need to be sincere to find your friends, and you need to exchange sincerity for friends, but this may be a process from scratch.