-
It is certainly very difficult to give up the person you like. But since you have decided to give up, you have to make up your mind to do it. Time is good medicine, and it is destined that this period of time will also be very difficult, and it requires a strong heart to bear it.
Learn to forget, don't talk about him, make new friends of the opposite sex, make yourself happy, and naturally drive away the haze in your heart, not afraid of losing someone, but afraid of not meeting a better one, as long as you find someone who can play a role in his place, you will naturally not take him to heart. People, there is always a problem of liking the new and hating the old, which is nothing, after all, it is summarized by psychology, and it is better to believe it.
Keep yourself busy while you're still enthusiastic. Don't let a favorite person be at the mercy of your own life, you should love life and live for yourself. To do something you like, to put in one thing, you will concentrate on thinking about it, and emotional problems will naturally gradually fade away.
You can also go to listen to a ** meeting, a drama, divert your attention, and discover the funny sense that life brings you. Writing down your life is also one of the ways to calm your mind. Find a faith and use prayer to decompress and share your worries.
Why not get in touch with nature, learn how to shoot, and maybe even tap into your potential.
Don't look for shared memories, which will only add to your pain. If you decide to give up, you have to deliberately avoid it, and over time it will form a habit. Slowly fade, it will fade from life.
Value the friendship of friends, go shopping and play together, eat hot pot and go to the playground, dress yourself up beautifully, and live with another mentality.
-
Are you really going to give up? You don't need a reason to like someone, but you don't need a reason to dislike someone. I really found that it was not suitable, and if I made up my mind to give up, I must give up completely.
Even if it will be sad and heart-wrenching to let go of this feeling, it is still necessary to be decisive. Feelings are the most taboo and indecisive. If he or she knows what you want, then go and explain it to him or her, and put things clearly under the sun, so that there will be no more misunderstandings between the two people.
If you can, go to a new place. Give yourself a change of mood, a change of environment, and then start your own life. It's a bit of an escape, but that's okay, we just need a buffer period when the most intense and difficult period of emotion is over and everything will get back on track.
Time will ** everything. Don't underestimate the invisible and powerful thing of time, it is like sand in your hand, no matter how tightly you hold it, it will be lost. The things, people, or things around you will gradually disappear with the passage of time.
Give yourself some time, don't be too anxious, the deeper the scar, the longer it will take to heal. Hurriedly pulling seedlings to help them grow will leave a legacy of trouble. It depends on how deep the love is, it can be as little as three or five months, and as much as a few years.
The feelings that are really mentioned cannot be easily let go. Especially when liking a person becomes a habit or an obsession, it will take longer.
Keep yourself busy, live a little more every day, and have less time to miss. Go to events, go out with friends, develop a hobby ......Find something to do, even if it's chasing dramas and playing with your phone.
-
Sometimes the pursuit of a person of the opposite sex wants to pursue, but it is impossible, then we can only give up. In fact, sometimes it is very simple for us to give up pursuing someone, as long as we divert your attention, then it will be easy. It's not so easy to divert attention.
In fact, time is a very magical thing, and many things will fade after a long time. If you like it very much, but you can't pursue it, as time goes by, then your liking for him will slowly be diluted. If you are a student in school, you can focus all your energy on studying, find fun in learning, and slowly the feelings of the opposite sex that you like will slowly fade.
If you're a worker, focus on your work and hang out with your friends. Don't calm your brain and don't be in the blank space. If you are not in the mood to miss you and like the opposite sex, then you won't think too much about him.
Gradually, as time goes on, you will give up on the opposite sex you like.
You can also transfer targets. Transfer to another person. This can't be said to be your heart of flowers, although you like him, but you want to pursue another, it does seem to be quite hearty, but you know that you can't pursue it, but you pursue it hard, that's a helpless result.
So you can shift the target appropriately, so that you may find in another person that the opposite sex you originally wanted to pursue is not as good as you think. <>
It's also pretty simple to give up on someone, as long as you want. Especially when I'm concentrating on one thing, I forget about the other. So it's very simple to pursue a person of the opposite sex, concentrate on another thing, and time will draw an end for you.
-
It must be difficult for everyone to forget someone they have loved, but time is a good medicine, and no matter what it is, it will pass with the passage of time.
There are always some things in real life that can't have the best of both worlds, how difficult it is for two people to like each other, most people are you like me, and I like him, but in the end, there will be someone who will stay with us in the end, and those things that we once couldn't let go of will become less important with the passage of time. Sometimes it's important to learn to give up, because for a person who doesn't like himself, his love will only become pressure on others, so when it's time to let go, you should let go and let yourself be a person who can afford to take it and let it go.
If you decide to give up on someone, it may be that you are very disappointed in him, so don't think about him, and when you have saved up enough disappointments, it will not be so difficult to give up. Don't force yourself to forget a person, because if you do force yourself to forget, the easier it is to remember, you can let yourself relax, go with the flow, do what you have to do, you can listen to some brisk **, you can also exercise, go running, climb mountains and ......Do all kinds of things that you can do to vent your feelings. You can cry when you hurt, you should be strong after crying, don't just slump, life is short, you have to do something quick to make yourself happy.
You can go to some art classes, learn to learn, art, play piano ......Go to listen to the ** meeting, go to the movies, travel with friends, and talk to friends about their hearts, these things, can make your vision more long-term, more open-minded, in short, is to keep yourself busy, when you are busy, there is no time to think about other things, with the passage of time, the person or thing you cared about before may not be so important, you may look back, you will feel that you were too stupid at that time, know that you have been in pain, but have long forgotten the feeling of heartache.
-
You're already brave enough to say something like that.
You should already have this kind of thought in your heart, maybe you were still in love with him in the past, but slowly some factor causes you to want to give up, which is normal because you can't see hope, or one of his actions makes you sad or something.
It's not very easy to give up a person you like, you have to convince yourself first, this can be done overnight, the psychological barrier is the biggest, maybe in a certain period of time you will inadvertently think of him, which is more affecting you.
It's better to go out for a walk, take a walk, and let yourself out of this matter, because after a long time, you won't have the feeling of being so persistent at the beginning.
It takes a lot of courage to give up a person, and to be able to do this shows that the heart is already very strong, and in addition, you still have to do more = things that can distract yourself to relax and relax, and slowly come out of the middle, time will wear everything, and you will meet a better one in the near future.
-
found that the person he liked was with the opposite sex he liked, and at this time he really should give up liking this person, because this crush has no end in sight. <>
Some people don't say it explicitly when they meet someone they like, but choose a crush, thinking that a crush will be more romantic and can give themselves enough time to think about it. But not all crushes have a good outcome, some people suddenly find out that the person they like is already with someone else after the crush, then you should consider giving up this crush at this time. Having a crush is not a bad thing, after all, it can make you better and make yourself a better person, but since this person already likes someone else, then don't let this crush become a stumbling block on your love path.
In fact, most of the love does not have a good ending, only a small number of people can really be with the person they like, but you should also know that you will like different people at each stage, so the object of the crush may only be the person you like at this stage, but after a long time, you will find that you will like other people, so it is easier to let go of this relationship. <>
It should also be noted that since this person is with the opposite sex he likes, it means that he will not break up casually, if he is still waiting for this person, in fact, this kind of crush will not have a good result, and it will also make him have too much psychological pressure, and even become a magic barrier in his heart. I think you should learn to let go, after all, there are many regrets in life, but regrets are good as long as they pass, and there is nothing that you can't let go, especially this kind of secret love that you haven't gotten. In addition, the other party will not be moved by his own waiting, but will feel that this kind of person is particularly unreasonable, and even look forward to breaking up, so you don't want to do this kind of thing that is harmful to your body and mind, just go with the flow over time, and give up liking each other is the most correct thing.
Finally, I hope that everyone can be with the person they like, but I also hope that you can give up directly when you see the inconclusive love.
-
I think you should give up liking him in this situation, because since he can be with the opposite sex he likes, it means that he doesn't have much feelings for you, and you are wishful thinking like this, so you should give up this relationship.
-
At this time, you have to choose to give up, because there is no trust and affection between him and you, maybe he just used you as a spare tire at first.
-
3 allI don't think I should give up, haven't tried, how do you know he won't concentrate on you?
It's a blessing to like someone, don't miss out on the luck in your life easily. It is actually a matter of luck to meet someone you like in the vast sea of people. Some people may meet that person at the age of 18, and some people may still live in a mess at the age of 28 and still haven't met the person they like.
When this luck has befallen you, don't miss it so easily. Although his relationship with the opposite sex is better, maybe he can keep a proper distance from everyone, and maybe he can still concentrate on his lover. You don't know enough about him until the two of you get together.
Try to pursue the other person, and you may not succeed. There is no relationship that says that you can be together together, you like each other, and the other party may not like you.
It's pointless for you to talk about whether you should give up now, because the two of you haven't come together, whether you like it, pursue it or give up, it's all unilateral to you, and the other party doesn't know who you are.
Even if the love of your heart is dead and alive now, even if you have now thought of your child's name, the problem is that you haven't even held each other's hands, you haven't integrated into each other's lives at all, what do you think?
The two of them try to get in touch first, and if they have the opportunity, they come together and get to know each other better in the process of getting along. If it's really not suitable, it's not too late to give up when that day comes. Don't take your own things for granted.
Try to pursue the person you like and believe that you will be the only one for him.
-
It depends on whether he is suitable for you, if you feel that you can control him, and then you can change him, you can not give up.
-
It still depends on what kind of person the man is. If he is a person who knows how to measure himself and knows how to keep his distance from the opposite sex, then he can continue to like it. If he is not such a person, then it is better to give up, after all, if they are really together, it will become a problem if the opposite sex is too good.
I really went through this experience, only to find that I gave up a person who didn't love me, not by trying my best to find the next person, nor by time to erase all the memories, but because I didn't see each other anymore and missed it incomparably, although I missed it but understood that I had to let go, and finally understood little by little in life why it was really impossible between us, and then slowly relieved, and finally figured it out. >>>More
In fact, love is a very unpredictable thing, every time you fall in love with someone, fate is always playing tricks, sometimes you think that when you fall in love with a wrong love, you can forget a real pain, but this will really make us miserable. Don't worry, face it right. Sometimes look at the starry sky, and maybe you'll suddenly be enlightened!
It shows that you still love him, and it is painful to like someone, especially when he doesn't like you, and he deliberately wants to forget him, and the person who can't forget, the more he wants to forget, the more he remembers, which is more uncomfortable.
Don't wronged yourself, but you have fulfilled others, it's over, go and do other things seriously, let yourself become better than she imagined, in short, you can't fall into yourself because of this, you will be sad, everyone understands this, but after the grief, let yourself slowly let go, that's it, love is the most reliable word in the world, but it is also the most unreliable word, there are a lot of things in the world that make you moved, start from changing your life, slowly change, little by little, every day is a little better than yesterday.
How to chase a girl? It's a technical job! Next, I'm going to teach you to take different approaches in three different stages. >>>More