A 22 year old young man no longer believes in love after being hurt by his first girlfriend. How to

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because you've been hurt, you hate love. Rest assured, this is just a process, every emotional injury needs a recovery period, it is normal to ask for and not believe in love, sometimes it will take you months or even years to recover, however, time will erase all wounds, although there are still scars, but you will not be as uncomfortable as now, I believe that you will eventually meet someone who can give you happiness and security. Just like me now, I've been through a lot, but I'm very happy now!

    You will too!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What an infatuated person, huh? Single-minded in love? But you can't hurt yourself, right?

    Then he can only come to another relationship when he is put into another relationship? He could only wait for time to heal the wounds in his heart. In fact, introverted men are very simple, and their feelings can't be traumatized a little.

    And it's his first love again, of course he cherishes it! You can't help but find his first girlfriend. Tell him that you want him to die, right?

    That's the only way!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Two months is a hair, brother's first love for more than a year, just divide it, say that you will go with others, think more about how you are doing during this time, think about whether you two are really suitable, is she really that good, summing up, there will be a feeling of losing a horse.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forehead... Love is unforgettable. Otherwise, whoever is full will have nothing to do.

    Then pour out your heart and lungs to love someone. People like him. Forehead...

    It's hard to be honest with others. Even if you really find a partner, it won't last long. Unless he meets another person again who makes him give his life to love.

    It's unfortunate. I'm one of those people ... Forehead... No matter how long it takes, the scars hurt at the touch. Let it be. He also had no choice. Let him go.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I had the same experience, and I was hungry at the time, and I was not convinced! Why? I'm so good to you, why did you break up with me?

    Have I ever been sorry for you? Why would you want to break up? Don't you have a conscience?

    I'm just going to keep paying for you, see if you'll come back.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Alas, there is nothing I can do about it. Because it's not easy to find another girlfriend in this society, they only know money.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's because the heart is broken, and it's no longer a complete heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, it hurts a little bit of a shadow that may affect your mentality of having a girlfriend in the future In the future, it may be that you don't meet anyone who really wants to pay Either you don't love enough or don't dare to love People's hearts are ever-changing! If you don't know the answer, it's up to you to see if it's what you think.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because your emotional wounds have been hurt.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    That's because you didn't come out

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Once bitten by a snake for ten years, I was afraid of the well rope.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Like you, I work hard to live, pick up the handsome, and my self-confidence will come up

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The broken mirror can't be reunited, and so are the feelings. If you treat others as fools, you are actually the biggest fool.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't regret everything I've ever done, including being blindfolded and believing in someone. In the future, even if it is hurt by ten thousand arrows piercing the heart. I admit it, but you have to remember. After hurting, after me, there is no way to forgive you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Meaning, no matter what I choose and pay, I won't regret it, if you hurt him, then you can only be strangers

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The general idea is that he will trust a person unconditionally, but if he is hurt by that person, there is no room for return, and he is a stranger.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It should be that a person has given a lot, and once he is hurt or betrayed, he has no way to forgive others.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Meaning to say if you hurt him. He won't forgive you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then don't believe in love, there is no love in the world, but feelings, but emotions, no love. Cherish what is in front of you, have fate, really like you, will come to you, and still lack him? Isn't it?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Believe in love. Because you are a woman, because you live. Live well. There will be people who will love you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Love is fate, love is moving, love is habit, love is tolerance, love is promotion, love is understanding, love is a lifetime of sincerity.

    Love is an indescribable feeling, I miss you every day in my life, I would like to accompany you for the rest of my life, and I have decided to love you for 10,000 years from now on.

    I miss your laughter, I miss your coat, I miss your white socks and the smell of you, I miss your kisses and fingers with the faint smell of tobacco, I miss the taste of being loved in my memory.

    It's a beautiful feeling to be in love, and you know and love each other to make this beautiful, I love you deeply and thank you!

    Loving you is the most important thing in my day, thinking about you is the happiest thing in my day, seeing you is the most enjoyable thing in my day, loving you, thinking of you, and seeing you is what I have to do all my life.

    It was true that I loved you once, it is true that I still love you, it was true that I was in pain, it is true that I still suffer now, come back, I still love you.

    I only care about you, just like a bird needs wings, a fish can't do without water, and I can't do without spring flowers, cherish every day with you, and care about every year with you.

    Life is endless, love you more than once, I believe that this sincere love will permeate every corner of you and me in this century, every air, chasing the tenderness of the moonlight, the heat of the sun, forever and ever.

    a love is not a love until someone recieve it

    i"-inject -- invest.

    l"-loyal.

    o"-observant -- attentively.

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  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't know how to spend my whole day, it's like being in a dream, confused, and trying to see flowers in the fog when I do everything.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    First of all, I would like to tell you that it is completely wrong not to believe in love. You just didn't meet the right person and didn't let yourself lose her because of love. I'm also a girl, I know that if a girl really loves you, she can't miss you after separating from you, but if she has other plans, it means that there is nothing worthy of your love and worth thinking about in this kind of person.

    Look for it slowly, find the one you really deserve to love, your wounds will slowly heal, forget yourself, including the past.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Brothers. Let's do more or less the same thing. In the end, it's yourself who hurts, isn't it?

    Why is it so painful to love someone. Give so much and you can't get it in return. You know.

    There are many meanings of love. For example, Mo has to support her. Just keep an eye on her.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Chongqing, France, Japan Just these few places, I wish you happiness!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you are not sincere, the person you are friends with will definitely be sad once, then you accidentally bite your tongue once while eating, will you not eat in the future?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Could it be internally? Because there is always a hint of fantasy or luxury, people will still look for their feelings

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Do you have something you haven't said yet?

    For example, if you want to say: I don't regret everything I've done.

    The full sentence is this: I don't regret everything I've done, and I believe that soon, I will encounter a miracle?

    You say: including blindfolding to believe in a person. If he is pierced through the heart by ten thousand arrows, I admit it.

    The whole thing is this: blindfolded to believe in a person. If he is pierced through the heart by ten thousand arrows, I admit it. I think I'm going to move the heavens and the earth like this.

    。。Let's not talk about the rest of it.

    If that's your case... I want to ask you, when do you think you will have an 'ending'? When will there be a 'miracle'?

    I'm sending you a sentence: Is it a lie to yourself that there will always be a miracle?

    What was said above. It's a song: moving the heavens and the earth.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    People are meant to grow, which means that you and he have grown, you know? It's really not easy to be together, it's even more difficult to love each other, cherish each other well, don't let pain and hurt surround you, there's no need, right, don't let yourself be so tired.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think you're so inconsistent. I said I minded her or something. Later, he said that he loved her very much.

    Love you understand. If you love her. The meaning of love is to be all-encompassing. It's called love.

    I'm starting to wonder if you love her or not. If you really love her, then there is a mind or something in front of you. If only I loved her. What's wrong with being married. What's wrong with being more than 20 years older than me. I have only one word. Because I love her. Satisfied?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I've hurt my GF many times, and of course she is, but we still love each other. Because the two of them get along, they are running in, and there will definitely be noisy and noisy, the question is how to deal with it later.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Learn to give up! If you really understand this sentence, I hope you will understand the beauty before! Don't extrapolate your relationship by combining malignant and benign, just be good in the past.

    There won't be just one book for everyone's story, there will be another storyline! Have a good time!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    A relationship requires two people to maintain.

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