I have the love of my life, and the person who loves me all my life, how to choose

If the person you love is already married and has the crystallization of love, then I hope you will be the most faithful friend and silently bless him! Can you bear that he will not be principled for the sake of your love, and turn his back on his current official wife? If he is a person who easily says the word love, and can easily give up everything, and for the love in front of him, then such a person who talks about love is not worth pursuing, because since he will give up the first love, it is possible to give up you!

In fact, you are people living in two worlds, even if his wife's love for him is not very obvious, but only the two of them know the things and feelings between husband and wife. Maybe they are very contradictory to us as outsiders, or maybe that's the way they express their love, if your friend can't stand it, he will give up this relationship a long time ago, because they still love each other.

It can be seen that you are a serious girl, and you are also very persistent in your relationship (for the first time), but you have your life, and the other half of your life is not him, if his love for you is very, very deep, then he will not marry another woman, you must understand this truth.

Be realistic, friend, there is still a long way to go, he is just a station in your life, not the end!

I hope my words can be helpful to you, thank you!

The one you love, does he love you? Is the person you love right for you? Don't you mind if he stays with you, just takes a nap, and then still wants to leave you and go his way that has nothing to do with you?

Don't you mind having a fight with him and ending up with something that even ordinary friends can't do? If your answer is yes, then choose the one you love

Love is a kind of responsibility As long as you choose, you are responsible Unless you sign an agreement with someone else at the beginning and seal someone else's mouth, I think you really have no reason to do this to the person who loves you Have you ever told him that you don't love him? If you don't love him, you still want to be with him, why? Eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, hehe Two years, not a short period of time together, not to mention that you are still thinking about others in your heart, heh, it's really interesting I think whoever loves more will be more humble

I'm a boy, and I have had a different but similar experience than you. The same is choosing between the one who loves me and the one I love. I struggled for a long time, and then I decided that instead of choosing someone I loved to make me sad, I should choose someone who loved me to be happy.

The premise is that you do not reject the person who loves you, as long as you do not reject the psychology, it is possible to cultivate feelings!!

I don't know how you But I have a deep feeling, you will be unwilling to choose the person who loves you, you will have eternal regrets, and there are unrealized longings left behind, and there are thoughts that cannot be parted with in this life.

And if you choose the person you love, you will pay without complaints, and you may be scarred or happy. But this is your own choice, but if you hurt a heart that loves you, you will feel guilty, in fact, it is difficult to choose and have a confusion about the future that you don't want to admit.

Accept the person who loves you, then slowly love him, and at that time, you will find happiness. After all, both of them are in love. When you ask this question, I actually know that you already have the answer, just like me, the one I love so much has returned to her ex-boyfriend, leaving me with nothing but pain.

I agree to the first floor! Later on, you'll find out that you've made the right choice! Cherish it!

You want to trust your own feelings, don't be half-hearted, very annoying.

If you want to make a decision immediately, cut it quickly, don't swim between the two, it will annoy you, and your second man will feel that you can't let go of this kind of person when he knows it, I wish you happiness.

If you miss it, you'll regret it.

I've experienced it, believe me, be brave, say it to the people you love the most, no matter what the outcome, at least you won't leave a lifetime of regrets. Is that right?

It really can't be wrong to choose the one who loves you.

Ask for the one who loves you.

Then you will be happy.

Agree upstairs.

YOUR VIEW ... The first time I saw it.

But think about it, it's interesting ...

In fact, what you love most in your life should be yourself, which is the reason for the following:

1. Only if you love yourself the most, can you love others you love better and longer.

2. When you were young, you loved yourself the most and made yourself excellent in the group you were in. Then, your parents, your relatives, will be proud of you and will not worry about your studies. To put it another way, you love them with your actions.

3. When you are an adult, you love yourself the most, make yourself sunny, healthy, and deep, and make yourself strong. You are to relieve the worries of the people who love you the most, and to love, help and take care of the people you love with your efforts. Parents are proud of you, wives are proud of you, and children are proud of you, and this is the best love for them.

4. Love yourself in old age, make yourself beautiful, neat, healthy and happy. This is the greatest love you can give to your children and grandchildren. can let the children and grandchildren not worry about it and not linger on the sickbed.

Suppose you, don't love yourself so much and cherish yourself. So what capital do you have to love the Li Shuren you love? Talking about love, but the wayward living habits make you three highs at a young age, and even struggle on the line of life and death, so are you loving your family?

It's clearly a drag on the people you love and those who love you.

So, if you want to love others, you must first love yourself.

Indeed, my significant other is the person I love most in my life. My other half is also my first love, when I was about to step into the army, we were in the early stages of love, to the army for a few years, we have been in constant correspondence, mutual enhancement of feelings, often letter encouragement and comfort.

After returning to my hometown, we got married, and after getting married, we gave birth to children for me, at home, in the fields, inside and out, filial piety to my in-laws, neighborhood relations, respect for the old and love for the young, knowledge and courtesy, and a simple life, and I was truly a good wife and mother.

As a Li Tuan family, I am very satisfied, very happy, and I love her very much, so she is the person I love the most in my life.

When I was a 20-year-old teenager, she was still a 16-year-old girl, and she came to work in a coastal city because she had nothing to do at home after graduating from junior high school. Staying at a relative's house.

The first meeting was at noon in the middle of summer, due to the expansion of the production scale of the workshop, it was necessary to recruit some employees, I was a technician recruited by the company, responsible for maintenance work. It was very hot in the workshop at noon, I went to the workshop office to drink water, and saw a chubby girl sitting on the sofa with her head bowed, the student's head, and no face in sight.

I don't know if she saw me, or if she didn't dare look up at me.

After getting off work at noon, I went to the company dormitory for dinner, and when I looked up and saw a person standing on the balcony outside the window, wasn't this the girl at noon.

In the afternoon, her cousin, who everyone calls Sister Ping, asked me to take her to work in the company, and I rode a bicycle to drive her on the gymnasium road in X Town, SD City, and I got in close contact with my lover for the first time.

In marriage, not all marriages are because of love, and some are together because of various factors, so in their current marriage, is their wife the person they love the most? Coming together because of love.

If each other walks together because of love, then his wife is of course the most beloved person, because he has experienced youth with her before, witnessed the length of life, and witnessed the tempering of the years, and has seen the wind, snow, and rain together. This kind of relationship makes each other fall in love with each other, walk together because of love, get married because of love, and live for a long time because of love, and the marriage at this time is of course because of love. Such a marriage is very happy, even if there are trivial things in life, but it will not expire and will always be kept fresh, like a pot of old wine, the more mellow it becomes.

Second, they came together because of other factors.

If you go together because of other factors and finally choose to get married and have children, then even if the wife at the beginning is not your favorite, you must learn to accept and accept tolerance, don't let your little belly hurt your wife, he is not willing to marry you, willing to be with you, give birth to children for you and take care of the family, how can such a wife satisfy you? Therefore, you must be good at accepting your wife, understand your wife's hardships, and accept him in order to make your life happy.

3. Protect your lover.

The happiness of life has never been given by fate, but by oneself. If you always think that your marriage is so unfortunate and sad, then it is impossible to be happy in your life, and only when you see the beauty of your marriage and have a pair of eyes that find beauty, can you know how happy your life is. So you must protect your lover, protect everything in this marriage, so that you can find the joy of love in it.