People who disappear after chatting, how to reply to messages

You can reply to him and tell him that you ask him what he is doing or that he will talk later because he doesn't want to talk to you at all.

You can also remember when you want to reply to the person who chats about the message, because this kind of person may be a friend who does not need to reply to the message!

It's gone after chatting, what are you going to do with him back? The other party doesn't care about you so much, you should have your own life and your own friends.

Hello, the person who disappears after chatting means that in the eyes of the other party, you are not important, and if it is important, it will definitely reply to your message.

If the person who disappears after chatting, if this is often the case, then it means that this person is not interested in you, or even has no good impression of you, so it is really reluctant to get along, it is better not to get along, and if you get along, you are really tired.

When lovers get along, you must not let yourself be wronged in any way, if you find that the person you are with needs to change in some aspects, then you can say it directly.

People like this who disappear after chatting usually have no interest in you, so they won't reply to your messages quietly.

That can start a new topic, and you don't need to bring up the previous topic, maybe he's busy, or maybe he's too perfunctory to you. You can use humor to resolve embarrassment.

Then you tell him, I hope we are not the kind of people who disappear after chatting, and hope that we can both think about each other.

Someone who disappears while chatting, if this person must be very bad and very helpless.

Chatting and chatting and disappearing. It is gone, how can such a person restore him, it can be said that the great flood came, and the flood drowned you.

There's no way, he won't talk to you while chatting, he's already left, only to remind him, next time if there is something to say, don't leave me here I don't know what to do.

The more you get to such a guest officer, it's really speechless. Since he took the initiative to chat with you, whether you are happy to talk to each other, or he took the initiative to find you to consult you with any questions, whether you have already answered for him, and the rest do not need to say the one he understands, otherwise what are you talking about, half of the chat will not be, is it that you are waiting for his answer, and this kind of thing for you, or often happens, generally there are similar incidents that can not be repeated again and again, never talk to him again, otherwise you must give you a satisfactory answer.

Such a person should be very busy, disappear after chatting, and go busy, but you can say hello to him the next time he has something to do, otherwise you will still be waiting for him to reply to the message.

For those who often take the initiative to chat with you, but they don't reply every time they talk halfway, or they disappear after chatting, this kind of person may talk to you when they are bored, and forget about you when they are not bored.

If there are those who often take the initiative to chat with you. But if you don't reply after chatting, then when you talk to you next time, you don't have to reply to him when you talk to you again, you let him feel the feelings, is it better to do this?

I don't like these people when they chat, I don't like it, I don't want to be a netizen, let the other party know, otherwise I will put the party on the blacklist and never chat.

Give somebody a taste of his own medicine. The next time you chat with you, you can also not reply, hang him for a while, don't need to reply in seconds or be very eager, if the relationship is good, you can directly tell him that you don't like this.

Don't worry too much, there are many times like this, you can also talk halfway without replying, let the other party taste what it's like, and next time she will know how to respect people.

Maybe he just uses you to pass the time, and will only talk to you when he is idle, and forget you when he has something, maybe you are not an important person for him, that is, an insignificant friend.

The boy chatted with you halfway, and suddenly didn't reply to you, and after a while, he took the initiative to find you, so this means that he is likely to be busy with something during this time, so he will not reply to your message!

I really care about you, but I'm really busy! Just like in real life, sometimes two people face each other or side by side in the same place, but the other person is thinking about a problem, reading a book, thinking of a certain point of view, seeing a certain sentence, I want to share it with you, and after sharing, I continue to think and continue to read!

The boy took the initiative to chat with you, but after a few words of chatting, the person disappeared, and then after a few days, he came to me again and changed the topic again, such a situation may not be a man worthy of your trust, don't have too much contact!

Don't worry, it's possible that your friend is busy with something and he will get back to you later. Or maybe your chat is too boring, and it's possible that your friends don't want to talk to you, so what should you do to keep your chat, in fact, there are skills, such as opening the book:

1. You have to learn to let your friends speak.

Learn to listen to what the other person is saying, not only to the content, but also to observe the other person's demeanor, expressions, and gestures when they speak. Through these non-verbal messages, correctly understand what the other person really means, so that the other person feels that you respect him. You can also guide the other person to speak and give him enough time to speak.

2. Learn to be a good listener.

Listening is just as important as speaking, don't be absent-minded and misunderstand what the other person is trying to say; Don't keep your eyes sluggish and your head down. Being a loyal and interested listener will also earn you the respect, affection, and acceptance of others.

3. Chat in an orderly and emotional manner.

It's better to say more than to say it. Say something that touches the other person.

Use the word "I" well and the word "you" well.

Sometimes starting with "I" can make people feel non-aggressive, which is determined by the tone of the speech. Also, always say "What do you think?" Instead of "I want to ......."”

Fourth, don't interrupt other people's conversations.

If you really need to interrupt the conversation, you should first apologize and inform the other party of the reason to ask for the other party's understanding.

Five: Less boring words.

Avoid swearing, lying, ruthlessness, short-lining, and ugly remarks.

Six: Pay attention to praise and affirm each other.

Don't provoke the other person, be observant, talk about the camera, choose the topic according to the atmosphere around you, and avoid talking about other people's privacy.

The reason why your friend chats with you and doesn't see the destroyer halfway through is because he may suddenly have a task at work, yes, he needs to complete some intense work first, so there is no way to continue chatting with you, but it is also possible that because he chatted and went to do what he likes to do, so he forgot to chat, which is possible.

Generally, friends don't chat with each other for no reason, and suddenly they disappear in the middle of the conversation. There should be an emergency. Just because he disappears in the middle of the chat doesn't mean he doesn't want to deal with you.

In the actual chat, there are always some people, often chatting and chatting, obviously not a topic has been finished, or you reply to him, but he doesn't have any conclusion, and just disappears.

In the face of such a person, you may feel very uncomfortable, always feel that something is missing, and you will also wonder why the other party is like this. And these people who talk to you for a day and suddenly disappear, he may or may not be intentional.

When a person has something to do, sometimes he can still take care of you first and talk to you, but sometimes if the content of the chat is not so necessary and the matter is too urgent, he may not bother to talk to you first.

Then, he will only be so engrossed in his own affairs that he will forget about what he is talking to you. For such a person, if you have a good relationship and he explains it to you later, then you don't have to care so much.

It's nice to have a response to every sentence in the relationship between people, but it's actually even better if you can start a chat at any time and end the chat at any time without any concerns about each other.

As long as you know in your heart that the other party cares about you, and he cares about you with his actions on weekdays, then there are some small details, you can be more tolerant, more considerate, and more understanding.

Maybe he's not interested in your topic, or he doesn't know much about your topic and doesn't know what to say.

Summary. The first type of friend is that I have a good relationship with me, and it belongs to the type of talking about everything, and if she doesn't reply to my messages, I can roughly guess what she is doing and what she is busy with, this kind of mutual understanding type of friend.

Another point is that this kind of friends send messages to each other more frequently, and they will scold each other when they have nothing to do.

I don't care if there is an end to chatting with her, I don't have any waves in my heart, and I even feel that it doesn't matter, at most the next chat jokingly asks her why she is so "indifferent".

Talk to people who don't reply to messages for half of the conversation.

The first type of friend is that I have a good relationship with me, and it belongs to the type of talking about everything, and if she doesn't reply to my messages, I can roughly guess what she is doing and what she is busy with, this kind of mutual understanding type of friend. Another point is that this kind of friends send messages to each other more frequently, and they will scold each other when they have nothing to do. I don't care if there is an end to chatting with her, I don't have any waves in my heart, and I even feel that it doesn't matter, at most the next chat jokingly asks her why she is so "indifferent".

Second, this kind of friend will be more concerned about whether he can reply to my messages. This kind of friend who has always had a good relationship with me, but they are on one side, and they can't get together from time to time to chat, and only occasionally (for a long time) will say a few words on WeChat.

Between couples.

Either he's busy right now and there's really no way to reply.

Or your chat conveys some kind of instruction to him, and he receives it, and generally the second is that he has been talking for a long, long time, and the relationship is stable.

I talked about it for more than a year, two months and two years.

That should be pretty stable.

Do you have any thoughts in your mind? For this matter.

I don't have any ideas, there are reasons for being busy, and there are reasons why I don't want to go back.

Generally, the relationship is stable, and it is not important, basically just look at it and know.

But it will also be remembered.

My husband is like that, sometimes he is really busy and doesn't see it.

But if he sees it, even if there is no reply, something you asked for will be brought back to you.

All right. Yes, I wish you sweet love and happiness.

Clause.

1. The other party has found another chat partner.

As we all know, the relationship between two people in an ambiguous period is not stable, and it is not as absolutely loyal as a person who confirms a relationship, and finding another person proves that you have been excluded, at this time you should not continue to entangle, because you have failed.

Clause. Second, there is no more to talk about.

Although you like him, and he likes you, but you talk too much, resulting in a slow lack of topics, and the chat should be selective, not a day and night. Choose a set time each day to chat about some light-hearted and interesting topics so that the conversation can continue.

Clause. 3. Inadvertently hurt the other person while chatting.

This situation often appears in some straight men, who don't care about the details and invisibly hurt the other party without knowing it. When chatting, you must pay attention, don't say anything because the chat is high, it is very easy to appear that the other party suddenly ignores you, at this time you must reflect seriously to avoid such a situation next time.

Clause. Fourth, the other party really has something to do.

Put down the phone and don't have time to take care of you on the other end of the phone, but usually the other party will reply to a message to apologize after being busy, to show that they are very embarrassed, but most of them don't want to send a message to disturb you after watching it for too long.

A smart way is to find that the other party does not reply to the message, just send a message to tell the other party that you are worried about him, and remember to send a message to you when you are busy. In this way, you will not only know why you don't reply to messages, but your favorability will increase in the eyes of the other party, and at the same time, you can also know your status in the other person's heart from the side.

Clause. Fifth, too casual.

There is also the kind of boy who may be in order to show his sense of humor, or to show his masculine charm, often chatting with girls and starting to talk about some not very good topics, such as pornographic jokes and the like, and also post some of these fighting pictures, which looks a bit excessive.

The girl will be a little disgusted, not that she is completely resistant to this content, but that the relationship between the two of you is not familiar enough to talk about this content, if you really establish an intimate relationship, it is normal to talk about these flirtings, and girls can also accept it, the so-called man is not bad and the woman is not in love on the basis of establishing trust and intimacy.

If it's two people who have just met, and they don't know each other very well, you just talk about this kind of topic, and the girl will be very disgusted, she thinks that your purpose is not pure, and she doesn't know if you want me to be my girlfriend or if you just want to make a date.