On the question of love and betrayal

The key is how much you love him. If it is so painful to leave him that you can't breathe, or you want to return to him, then your actions have already made the answer. If you feel that you can bear it without him, and the sky is not as broken as you imagined, then follow your actions, and your actions will guide you.

Let me make my own observation: judging by what you say, he was trying to hide it. 2 possibilities.

1. He regrets it and wants to save his relationship with you, so he doesn't say it. Then he's still very good to you. There is no shame in making mistakes, but it is shameful not to admit mistakes.

After you broke him, he also honestly admitted that people are not sages, who can be without fault? If you do it, you will change it, and it will be good. Although this sentence does not apply well to emotional ......But I personally hope that you can give him a chance, and give yourself a chance.

Sometimes, men lie just to be better for you. Because you will only be sad if you know, it is better not to know. Women should not be too discerning, for example, this time, you know that he is truly repentant, don't break him, it's rare to be confused, he will also be grateful to you, and then do his best more.

2, he deliberately concealed it, and used this means to get out of the wall again and again. Then this kind of man must not want. When to find out and when to throw.

But according to you, I personally feel that it belongs to the former. And you still like him. Try to accept it, but if you can't accept it, it's never too late to divide it.

You add and I also add: The so-called women are good at knowing how to advance and retreat, that's what it means. Everyone is flawed, if you only grasp one or two shortcomings and don't let go, you will only end up with a broken net.

Why bother? The right to retreat and retreat may be able to achieve the effect of retreating as advance. But he and the woman twice.,It's a bit of a problem.。。

You made a decision right away, maybe he used that woman as a substitute. If you still love him, let him make a military warrant and swear to sever contact with that woman.

Let's get your relationship with him clear. If you still want to be together, of course, it's best.,If you really can't get by, just divide it.,Don't just endure it because of the child.,In that case, maybe you won't wait for the child to grow up.。 All decisions still depend on your relationship with him, and whether you still have the need and possibility to live together.

Men are animals that think with their lower bodies.

If he's good enough for you.

Imagine how disgusting it would be to think about these things later.

If you can accept it, forgive it, and don't think about it.

Give up on him if you can't stand it, and if you really love him deeply, I'm sure you can endure it!

If he hadn't told you frankly. That's the ko class. Divide it.

Since you can't do without forgiveness! As long as he loves you ...

In fact, I now wonder more and more about whether there really is love, really, love can actually happen in an instant and disappear without a trace in an instant.

It's up to you. Do you love him?

I have a buddy who is like this, and his girlfriend forgives him, but you're in trouble.

It is easy for two people who have known each other since childhood to develop a relationship, but you have to think clearly whether you know her There must be a reason for her divorce From your words, it feels like you are used to each other in your life You don't want to give up, then take this step Let each other know each other again to see if it is really suitable As you get older, the more difficult it is to meet someone who wants to be with each other Don't regret yourself.

Seriously, if you want to play with a woman, call him back, if you really want to fall in love and get married, such a woman is not suitable.

Women are sensitive animals and will feel uneasy about some small things She has always wanted to be with you passionately But you keep pushing it off again and again She will feel that you are perfunctory to her You have to know that women are never short of men You know? If it's true love, go to her and make it clear.

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It's speechless, you don't really care about her, look at yourself.

I usually just pretend I don't care! Let them think I don't care! The more you care, the more you hurt!

Since they have betrayed, it means that they are not worth your trouble for them! I met them, but I ignored them! Keep up having fun with me!

lest they laugh at me! If they are unhappy with you, then you can happily [live better than them] and show them! Make them regret it.

Pain is pain, and pain is suffering. The pain should be resolved happily. Don't let yourself get into misery. To laugh at life!!

She won't come back, she should have thought of this when she left you, maybe you love her very much, and always wait for her to come back to you, but what's the point of coming back like this.

The essence of betrayal is: from your point of view, you give your heart to the other party, you think the other party will take good care, but the other party does not, and even knows that if you pinch it hard, it will hurt, he She still did not hesitate to pick up the knife and pierce it, and then walked away. In other words, it is the cruelty of betraying you when it really hurts you, the indifference of inaction after betraying you, and the strong gap with the sweet time together.

To you, that kind of picture is like unarmed people who don't have the ability to resist the soldiers, but they still shoot at them, and the picture is very cruel, right, to those who watch, yes. But for the person concerned, it's okay, because he has passed away. But the biggest difference between emotional and psychological damage is that you are not dead, you are alive, and you will experience the feeling of watching your heart pierced from time to time, and feel the cruelty and indifference again and again.

Therefore, we need to realize that other people's experiences are not yours, and other people's feelings are naturally different from yours. Feelings are not a competition, you can't find it before me, it is a variety of competitions from birth, but I don't want to be like this, I don't want to put feelings into a strange circle of competition, I have a choice, I can come at my own pace, because feelings are not faster than slow to win or lose, feelings are you want to feel happy and satisfied in your own heart, in your own way, at your own pace.

Acknowledging that this is not indulgence, acknowledging that this is not indulgence. admit that I have fallen, and lie there without moving, waiting for someone to help me and others to save me; I noticed that my leg was broken, but I got up and bandaged it, and I was able to continue walking. Admitting does not mean cowardice, but rather the courage to accept reality and be true to one's heart, which is the beginning of facing harm, after all, we are not living in the second dimension.

Personally, I think that betrayal in love refers to the fact that one or both parties have actually done something that damages the bond of love, and I don't think it counts ideologically. Love is like maintaining the bond between two people, and betrayal is to take scissors or something to damage this bond, and if you want to damage it but don't take action, I don't think it's betrayal.

There are two kinds of betrayal in love. One is a spiritual betrayal and the other is a physical betrayal. But any kind of betrayal is a blasphemy against love. So there was a betrayal, and this love should not continue.

Once there is betrayal in love, it means that no matter how hard the other party begs, you must make a decision, even if it is possible that the other party will regret it. It's not that he's ruthless, it's that he doesn't allow himself to take risks in the future.

When one party betrays, it means that he no longer loves you, and then you have come to an end. After all, feelings require two people to manage each other. Since one party can't hold on, it's better to get together and disperse, and there is no need to hang yourself on a tree.

The betrayal in love is often not a sudden event, there may be seeds planted in various things before, and in the later years after some factors broke the ground, the betrayal in love is undoubtedly very infuriating, but since it has been betrayed, the two people should not be entangled anymore, when it is broken.

Love is an important bond between the two. But after all, the two are not alone, and sometimes it is possible that they cannot understand each other, and estrangement will arise, and they will become extremely cold to each other, and then people will look for new warmth according to their instincts. Hence the word "betrayal".

I think that if there is no other person in my heart, it is a betrayal of love. In my opinion, it is not only that falling in love with someone else is a betrayal, as long as you don't love it, it is a betrayal of love.