Why am I still nothing? Why am I so tired?

Because you haven't put in enough effort, lazy! Hard work pays off!

I'm the same, I'm often so tired that I want to die, but thanks to my boyfriend's support, I've been able to survive.

It's very tiring, but I'm going to be brave enough to get tired.

You can only stand up, it is possible to live, and only when you live can you have a future, so you have to live even if you are tired and tired!!

In fact, it is not terrible to have nothing, what is terrible is that you have lost confidence, at least now you still have a strong body, as long as you work hard you will definitely be rewarded, remember: God rewards hard work!

I also have nothing, but I don't get tired of living, and I will continue to work hard.

Everyone is very tired of living, as for having nothing, I think it's a bit exaggerated, everyone has something that others don't have, at least your memories.

I only have today and tomorrow.

You have to have fun to live better!

Let's try to have fun!

It is not necessary to experience some setbacks to feel hopeless, people often have a sense of despair for no reason. No matter how many things you have to envy and praise on the outside, you will feel at some point that life is gray and bleak, and emptiness and panic are like ants, eroding the bones of your body. You will feel that everything you have is useless, that no matter how hard you try, you have nothing and nothing to do.

You will feel that happiness is someone else's family, as if you are the most unfortunate person in the world, the loneliest, most failed, most helpless, and most inferior person in the world. Then you will feel that not only do you have less, but you also have little hope. I will stare at some irreversible and irreversible factors, such as blaming myself for not working hard enough, feeling that my level is not good, and even panicking that time flies, and I am getting old, and half or a third of my life has passed, and there is not much left.

When I felt like I had nothing, two changes occurred in my heart that I didn't know about

Self-denial. Terrible.

Turning a blind eye to everything you have, such as your wealth, appearance, ability, health, relationships, etc., you can only see what you don't have or don't have, and you don't have a little bit of good. Even if reason knows that it has a lot, the feeling still says: That's nothing.

It's as if life is over, it's not worth living, it's not worth living.

If you savor your despair at that time, you will feel a trickle of voice in your heart:

It would be nice if you lay down like this and never get up again.

It would be nice if you just gave up on yourself and didn't work hard.

This state of mind is called a depressive state, and when the concentration is high, it triggers some physiological changes and is diagnosed as depression. But I don't want to talk to you about depression, I just want to talk about this feeling of emptiness, despair, and panic that I have nothing.

People can fall into a state of depression, which is a protective mechanism of the person's subconscious. When people are depressed, they will:

Attention**, less attention to the outside, begins to see one's own experience. Through depression, you see yourself that you have been neglecting.

That's what depression is all about, a physiological response to keep you focused on yourself and less struggling.

So the reason why people go into depression is because:

1.It's too much to ask of yourself. It's more than you can do.

We are accustomed to overestimating our own abilities, always feeling that we can do a lot, and blame ourselves if we can't do it. We will also habitually agree with external standards, believing that people should work hard, be motivated, and be responsible ....... In order to achieve these standards, in order to gain a sense of social identity, we will constantly force ourselves to do things that we don't like.

Being responsible itself is a good thing, but being responsible is more than caring for oneself, beyond one's own ability, and the responsibility is greater than one's own feelings, it will overdraw oneself, and the body will automatically enter a state of indifference and protection, and the experience is depression.

Actually, most people are like that.

Back then, when we rented a house, my wife said, "How nice it would be if we had our own house!" ”

After years of hard work, we finally got our own house, and when we had a few houses, my wife said, "When can I live in a villa?" ”。

In fact, people's troubles come from endless desires, and when the desire is stronger, the greater the disappointment. Therefore, people must learn to be content, so that they will be happy for a lifetime!

I was also 24 years old with nothing. I was in Beijing at the time, and it didn't matter if I didn't have a hukou, although the school was a key but not a first-class school, and it must have lacked competitiveness on the surface. I could only find a small broken company to do sales.

Poor enough to have no money for 3 meals. I once bought a large potato, which was more than 1 yuan at the time, and I actually ate it for 1 day and was not hungry. This should be the cheapest meal.

In fact, my workplace has not been good in the past few years. In the midst of displacement, I learned the hardships of making a living, and even when I received a lot of awards and developed smoothly in the subsequent career, I never put myself in a high position. Keep in awe, because I can't forget myself who was unemployed, extremely anxious, insomnia, and desperate.

It was the darkest period of my life, but it taught me a lot, especially about how to sail my ship a little farther and be cautious and patient.

I'm now one of the lucky ones in the eyes of my family and friends. I don't want to say more about what I have experienced, but I just want to tell you that at the age of 24, there is still a long way to go, and you have a lot of time to improve yourself and be a person who changes your destiny. Each stage has a different mission.

If you need to make a living and learn about an industry at the moment, start at the bottom and do your best to find opportunities.

In Zhihu's post, I mentioned that more than one manager colleague was an operator before, and many readers expressed disbelief. But that's true. The opportunity to turn around in this world is always reserved for those who are indomitable and continue to forge ahead.

There was a kid who graduated from high school and joined a company as a warehouse clerk. The young man was tall and tall, and the boss saw that he had the strength to move goods in the warehouse, and later he actually became the department manager. First enter an industry with room for development and promotion (and food delivery services and Didi drivers lack personal promotion space), familiarize yourself with the rules of the industry and continue to learn and improve, you will definitely find ways to optimize management, and then you can verify within your own control.

After the effect is determined, write it out, and find the right time to propose it to the boss for large-scale implementation. In this way, you can't be promoted without promotion.

It's good that in the face of so many difficulties, you still know what you need most at the moment!

Now that you know what you need, don't hesitate to get a job. And you know the predicament in front of you, so you don't have to ask for any good work, the key is to be able to solve your immediate needs. So you can start by looking for something like a job where you can get an advance or don't have to withhold a deposit.

Back to the point of having nothing. Hehe, the ups and downs of life are inevitable. But if you are frightened by the predicament in front of you, then you really have nothing, and the current predicament is not a stumbling block to stop you from moving forward, you have to step on it and continue to move forward.

In fact, you also understand the truth, but the key is that you have temporarily forgotten these truths when facing difficulties. So you have to stay calm. Then you can determine what you want and how you can make it happen.

I will send you a famous saying: know and then be determined, be sure and then be quiet, be quiet and then be safe, be safe and then be able to consider, and then be able to get.

Is there a familiar feeling, yes, this Lao Tzu's words, stop, is your goal, in your current situation, is your current needs.

What about nothing, everyone comes from nothing, and no one is born with everything? The important thing is that you have your own ideals, dreams, and big ambitions. Anything will be there through your own efforts, 'There is nothing difficult in the world, only willing to work hard.'

Although the saying is true, it is certainly not easy to do it, believe in yourself, and through hard work, you will have anything.

There are hands, there are feet. The heart is not dead. How can it be called nothing? I feel like there's a lot of stuff waiting for you to get it.

Discover your strengths and summarize yourself. Set goals and work hard.

First of all, don't panic.

Secondly, you have to understand that you are not alone in this world and you have nothing, in fact, many people have nothing.

Then you have to start thinking about what you're going to do, what you're going to do.

If you have nothing so much that you can't survive, then you have to think about how you should live, if you really can't do it, go to the police, it is the duty of the strong to help the weak, they will not hesitate to give you a way to survive.

If you don't have to worry about surviving for a while, then you have to think about what you want to get, money? Is it fame? Is it a loved one? Is it an achievement? ...Once you've come to the conclusion that you want something, let it go.

Anyway, there is nothing left, and it is impossible to continue to lose, so no matter what you do next, no matter how bad it is, you will not lose anything. And all it takes is a little bit of good luck, and you're on your way out of the predicament of having nothing, and you're starting to reap.

Remember, the world is not gentle at all, and too many people have nothing.

Instead of fearing the unknown tomorrow, it is better to live hard today.

After all, the present today is the cause of everything, and the present today is the result of everything.

If you do something today, whether it's good or bad, it will affect tomorrow.

If you don't do anything today, you won't have anything tomorrow.

A healthy body is the greatest asset.

In the same way, I have nothing like you. So far, you can say that you are useless, but even if you have nothing, what can you do? I believe that life is to hope, even if I have nothing, I can still be friends with myself, even if I have nothing, I can't give up, because I believe that a good life is created by my own labor.

Really having nothing is wealth, I come with nothing, I go with nothing, I don't lose anything, we just fought for a draw

There is no reward for not paying.

Because sub-health status is a free state between a healthy state and a disease state, it is difficult to define the diagnosis of sub-health status. For example, fatigue and insomnia can be corrected and overcome by healthy people with proper rest and conditioning, but if they are in a state of fatigue and insomnia for a long time, they can be regarded as sub-health.

We can compare the following symptoms, calculate the points, and test whether we are in sub-health, or how serious the sub-health is.

From time to time, I feel inexplicably depressed and emotionally depressed.

Tired of work, tired as soon as I enter the office, anxious when I think about business.

After working for more than an hour, I felt very tired and lacked energy.

I often have insomnia at night, and even if I fall asleep, I dream a lot, and the quality of sleep is very bad.

Decreased sexual performance. Even if the spouse has made it clear to him that he wants sex, he or she finds all kinds of excuses to avoid and shirk it.

When I wake up in the morning, I often find myself losing my hair.

Forgetfulness, forgetting what happened the other day, seeing someone feels familiar but can't remember his name.

Deliberately avoid the opportunity to deal with the boss, reluctant to party with colleagues, and excessively prefer to be alone.

Poor work performance, decreased work efficiency, and feeling that your boss is dissatisfied with you.

When I was working, I was in a very low mood, and I seemed to be holding a nameless fire in my heart, but I didn't even feel the mood.

Poor appetite all day, feeling like I don't have an appetite for anything.

Looking forward to getting off work, looking forward to getting out of the office early.

As soon as I sat down, I wanted to lie down and lean on.

It is very sensitive to the pollution and noise of the city, and wants to escape the hustle and bustle of the city and hide somewhere to take a good rest.

I am no longer as enthusiastic about gathering with friends as I used to, and even when I do, I often have to be happy and reluctant to socialize.

Rapid weight loss.

When I woke up in the morning, I found myself very haggard.

I feel that my immunity is constantly declining, and I often get sick with colds.

Everyone will face such a problem, face it well, there will definitely be a solution.

I think love is free giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since I choose love, support him when he is in difficulty, and encourage him when he fails, I think love is free to give, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since I have chosen love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, encourage him when he (she) fails, be happy together, and give him (her) comfort when he (she) is happy. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (she) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal silver mountain career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time at his or her disposal, and help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together!

When you have it, you don't think it's going to be like, but when you lose it, you know what heartache is. Most people get used to doing something or accepting someone's feelings for a few days, but one day when you stop what you have done and accept from people, you feel as if something is missing. Actually, nothing is missing, it's just that you're starting to get used to that life, that feeling.

Therefore, when you lose him (her), you will think that he (she) is valuable, if you cherish him (her) at the beginning, he (her) will not leave you now. Cherish what you have now, and don't wait until everything is gone from you, all you have left is regret and self-blame.