What do you want to say to your ex?

If you meet your ex by chance, how will you behave, I think most people are a little overwhelmed by such a scene, to treat like an ordinary friend, definitely can't do it, like a stranger? There will definitely be a little awkwardness in my heart, so that I will not be a stranger, and there will be such a voice in my heart telling you. So, for the ex, even whether you want to talk or not is a hurdle in most people's hearts, let alone what to say.

I am a person who attaches great importance to feelings, even if I am with a person, from strangers to acquaintances for only a few days, I will leave memories in my heart, but the length of memories is long and short, but every passerby is at least a little episode in my life at that time.

My love may not have come yet, I think God doesn't want me to enter a relationship so early, so I haven't been given a suitable partner, I talked about two serious loves, most of them broke up after more than half a year, I don't rule out my own reasons, because, emotional things are the things of both parties, there is no right or wrong, only two people get along with each other.

If I really meet my ex, the last person, I will say hello as usual, maybe because I feel a little more guilty, because I don't pay him half as much as he pays me, the root cause is me, I don't like him, and I don't want to hide this dislike, because I don't want to be in a relationship, I'm not a person who can make do with material conditions, I can't live without feelings, and I don't want to live like that. So after he repeatedly gave unilaterally, he felt tired and couldn't see hope, so he naturally chose to let go. To be honest, even if I didn't like it, I felt bad for a few days and cried for a few days, but I didn't understand why I was sad, but fortunately it was back to normal after a few days.

So for this kind of ex I don't love, there is not a lot of love in it, I must treat it like an ordinary friend of mine, even if I see each other, I will smile and say hello, how are you doing? That's all, I can do it.

There are a lot of things that I want to say but haven't said yet.,In fact, I don't know why after the breakup, I don't seem to take those previous grievances and grievances so seriously.,As time goes by.,Slowly you will see everything about yourself very lightly.。

But sometimes you really miss him at a certain moment, the experience and feelings he brings you are different from what anyone gives you, everyone is a unique existence, and the existence of the ex will be three points heavier than others.

If nothing else, I would like to say to him: I really miss you very much. Especially on rainy days, I always think back to the days when I was waiting for you to give you an umbrella after school, and those good memories when I was with you.

Even though we were much more unhappy with each other than ever pleasant, all I can really think of are happy times.

After breaking up for so long, I have never said anything bad about you in front of others, although you are really too bad for me, too bad, I always can't bear to destroy your image in my heart, maybe liking this thing itself is unreasonable. Now you have a new life, a new beginning, and a lot of girlfriends that I know or don't know. My heart doesn't hurt as much as it used to be, and I can calmly accept that you and I have become strangers.

I know that you always wanted to get rid of me before, and now that you really get rid of me, you must be happier and happier than before, and continue to be your dashing boy. You used to think that I was holding you back too much, so now you must live without scruples, otherwise I will feel sad.

Sometimes I really don't know why I can't let go of you so persistently, maybe it's because you're so good, I don't know if I still like you, but in the days to come, I hope I can completely forget you and no longer be influenced by you.

I sincerely wish you happiness and happiness, everyone has a new beginning, I am going to slowly look for my beginning, goodbye, cherish.

To my ex:

Although we are now separated, I feel very bad to meet you in my best years. Although we couldn't be together in the end, thinking that I didn't plant it in your hands in the end, I still feel that the sky has treated me as a kind person.

You also know that I used to study hard and play with mobile phones and computers, so my eyes were short-sighted and my eyes were not good, so I would like you. You don't have to feel grateful to Dade and cry out loud to express your inner excitement and gratitude, because I feel that it is a stain that I can't erase in my life. I have been comforting myself that anyone's success must go through tribulations, and you are sent by God to test me, but unfortunately, it is the beautiful king of the daughter country who tests Tang Xuanzang, and it is indeed you black bear spirit like carbon who tests me.

Sorry, I didn't mean to laugh at you.

Later, after separating from you, I also thought, how could I, a girl with an IQ of 18, lose my mind in you? Later, I also wanted to open it, just like God opened the door for you and had to close the window for you, God is fair to everyone, and he has to give you the good and the bad. God has given me a high IQ and good looks, so in order to balance it out, he gave me a you.

Sorry, I don't mean to look down on you in any way.

Finally, we haven't seen each other for a long time, and I wonder if you're still as reserved as you were back then. I hope that the next time I see you, I can see the bright smile on your black and white **, I will put a beautiful chrysanthemum in front of you, and gently remove the weeds from your body for you. I'm sorry, but I didn't mean to curse you.

From: That pretty beautiful girl.

I would say, "I wish you happiness, but I don't wish you happiness with the man now!" ”

My ex and I met after the college entrance examination, and then we broke up in the second semester of my freshman year, and after the breakup, I had a girlfriend until now, and she has been with me all the time, but every time in the dead of night, I still occasionally think of my ex, because after all, it was my first love, I don't think I will forget it in my life, and of course I don't want to forget this relationship that made me learn a lot.

But at the beginning of the long-distance relationship, both of us were fearless, and we both believed that each other's love for us was the greatest, so we never thought about the day of separation, but when the real long-distance relationship arrived, we realized how painful the long-distance relationship was and how huge the ordeal of distance brought us. Although we were still understanding and tolerant of each other in the beginning, I would occasionally take the train to find her, so our relationship was fairly stable at first.

But when it came to the second semester of freshman year, one day she told me in ** that she might have fallen in love with another man, and I felt five thunderbolts at that time, I thought I knew that the relationship might not be able to be saved, and I was very resentful at the beginning, because I believed in the love between us so much, but in the end it was such a result, which made me very unacceptable.

But after we really broke up, I thought for a moment that I would be glad if someone could take care of her there, after all, she was afraid of living alone, and I couldn't give it to her.

Until now, there has been no contact between us, but I have been silently trying to say that sentence to her in my heart, I know that there can be no more relationship between us, I just hope that she can be happy and safe in the future, this is my greatest wish.

I especially want to say, Mr. Zhang, how are you doing now? Do you have a baby now? I am very good now, the baby is eight months old and my husband loves me very much.

My ex and I weren't together because when our parents met, his parents told my mom that if two people got married, they would be fine, but they would have to prepare their own money for the down payment and buy a house by themselves, and not want to take a penny out of their family. Their money was to be kept for their younger brother to use when he went to college.

So later, due to the lack of fate, and the parents of both parties did not know that they were not optimistic about us, so they eventually broke up.

After the breakup, I got my wish and found my heart husband, he was really very good to me, including my in-laws, before I got married, I still knew how to cook, but after getting married, my in-laws were so good to me, this responsibility fell on them, my daily work is very simple, except that work is work. My husband is also very good to me, and he will give me all his salary truthfully every month, and then ask me for his monthly living expenses from my hands. My mother was very much in favor of my husband, and his parents were very happy with me and respected my mother, so we lived very happily.

But at the beginning, I still paid more attention to my ex, at first I knew that after she broke up with me, she was more depressed for a long time, and basically broke up with her family, and for about a year, she didn't talk to anyone. Two years after I got married, I learned from my friend's mouth that she was also married, but my friend also showed me his object's, **, I took a look at what this girl looked like, to be honest, she was really ugly, with big teeth, very thin, I don't know if you have ever seen aliens. It's not that I deliberately slander him, but it's really a situation where his lover is two years older than her, and the two of them got married, but as far as I know, the money they got married was also taken out by their parents, and the two of them lived a hard life, and they never got pregnant.

If I have the chance, I must give you a good greeting.

Let's let each other go, okay.

In fact, I think I'm not a charismatic person, with a weird temper, I'm also very irritable, and I'm not very responsible for feelings, but I don't know why except for the first one, everyone who comes after will look for me, I really don't know what the point of looking for me is.

I'm still a person who is very reluctant to face the past, I feel that the past emotional experience is a failure, and I don't want to face it anymore, whether it's looking for me to get back together or whatever, I really don't want to pay attention to it, why can't we let each other go?

During this time, I didn't notice that there was an ex who was still in QQ, he looked for me twice, each time he told me to contact me often, and this time he also told me to go out to dinner together, I really think that since I broke up, don't do anything so-called friends, you are not embarrassed I am embarrassed, why toss so much? But I can't delete people all at once, making myself look very inexplicable.

If anyone can help spread the word, I'd really like to pass it on.

1. Love is not to change each other, but to grow together.

2. Have the greatest hope, do your best, plan for the worst, have the best attitude, remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed, accept what is true, the sun is always new, and every day is a beautiful day.

3. In fact, every ferry port can be docked or ferried, and it is warm and always by your side. Life is a journey with no beginning and no end. All the stories will come to an end, vigorous, after all, it is a passing cloud.

The way of Zen enlightenment lies in the clear heart, forgive the time, remember the good, delete the complicated and simplified, freeze the fragments of the years, let the tide of life surge, and my heart is at peace.

4. In a short life, everyone is a foreign traveler on the journey. This is neither your permanent home nor your final home, it is only a temporary visit for you.

5. If a person sees clearly how tortuous the course of life is, it is best for him to rely on his conscience as a navigator. As long as people who know how to control themselves automatically at the right time, they can achieve true balance of mind and have a happy life.

6. The years are in a hurry, life is short, beautiful things can't be kept, and there will not be too many happy moments, knowing how to cherish, live to the fullest, and live happily is the wisest choice.

7. The journey of life has a journey of scenery. Looking back at the picture scroll of life, the fragments of the past, there are always some encounters that will stay in the bottom of my heart; There are always some people who have given us warm company. Who will carve the pure beauty of time into a heart flower, and warm the color of life with traceless pen and ink?

Who is the soul of the soul, in the world of a drop of water, nourishing the feelings between the flowers, in the rush of time, together and separated?

8. There are many things in life that are enough to knock you down, but what really knocks you down is your own mentality.

9. On the road of life, please cherish the people who watch the scenery together, maybe at the next corner, they will wave goodbye. All the stories, one day will be yellowed on the plain paper of the years, chanting a small poem, the book a touch of affection, not for the rendering of the heart, nor for who to remember, just in the light of the passing years, learn to be tolerant and grateful, until the green silk is full of frost, suddenly look back, if there is still warmth, it is the brightness of time.

10. How many bumps can be walked on a road; How much joy and sorrow can a heart hold; How much separation can a love endure, how many reincarnations can a story deduce, how much time can tolerate, and the journey of life will always be divided and merged; There will always be comings and goings in the corners of time, time, stumbling, life, ups and downs, how much of the past can be taken away by a turn, and how many vicissitudes can be written at a glance. ‍