Is it okay to give up when love is tired? Do the people who give up on you because of the tiredness

Updated on society 2024-04-24
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe you really have to bear too much, and if you don't have the pain of separation, how can you get the joy of reunion, and if you can't let go, don't let go. Love is not about age, and of course this is what some people think. Since I have met someone who is good with each other, I am holding on to it, and I can see the sun when I climb over this mountain, but if I don't turn over, the weather may always be cloudy and deep.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is only one life, but maybe you are not doing well.

    Another life, there may be no him, but at least you don't have to worry about how much money you have to take every day to buy groceries.

    Which one do you choose?

    I know that you will definitely want to say that you can have him in your future life and not worry about anything, but do you think you can do it in your current state?

    He didn't give you any promises, he was right, he didn't want to break his promises, he didn't want to make any promises and not be able to keep them, that was the biggest harm to you.

    Now it's not a question of whether you are tired of love, but if you can complete your high school education well, then you can not let go.

    I don't want to preach, I know that you don't know the future now, I understand.

    You should decide how to get there.

    What kind of life you want to live, only you know.

    Don't overcomplicate things, happiness depends on oneself to strive for (I personally regard this sentence as a classic), my mother told us to simply love (the result of life practice that no one can overthrow).

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. If it is because you are too tired to get along with each other, causing one party to give up, it is not necessarily that you don't love, and it may be that he doesn't want to let his current state "influence" you.

    Hello! We are happy to answer your questions, could you please let us know the details? This will allow for a more accurate analysis

    I can understand Lu Min's lack of mood, generally speaking, the situation you said is not necessarily not loved, we need to analyze it in combination with some details of life, which will be more accurate

    If it is because it is too tired to get along with each other quickly, and the guide brigade gives up, it is not necessarily that the town group does not love, and it may also be that he does not want to let his current state of self "influence" you.

    Love and dislove are really reflected in the small details of life, you can combine his usual attitude towards you, as well as the degree of care for you in daily life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello landlord, in fact, there is such a problem in real life, sometimes it's not that you don't love it, sometimes you have. It's really too tiring to love someone, that's why I give up.

    If loving someone makes you pay a lot and makes you feel particularly tired, will you continue? For most people, they are certainly reluctant to continue.

    In life, everyone is willing to find a person who makes them feel very comfortable and comfortable when they fall in love. And I don't want to find someone who makes me feel particularly tired, so if I find such a person who makes me feel particularly tired, I will definitely not be willing to continue.

    In love, both parties should care for each other, care for each other, and help each other, so that both parties can feel very comfortable and comfortable, and one of them is just a person blindly paying, a person blindly caring for each other, and loving and loving will feel tired. So tired, just like we work, there is a possibility of giving up.

    Therefore, in love, we must always keep love fresh, and we can't let the other party love and make ourselves a burden to the other party, so that the other party feels too tired to love themselves. If loving someone makes you feel particularly tired, then sooner or later you will not be able to hold on to letting go.

    In the group, we can't let the other party love ourselves too tired, we must give each other some care and care in time, so that the other party feels loved by you, and especially enjoys such words. so that you don't get tired of love and let go.

    But not all people in love let go when they are tired of love, and some people are easy to change their minds when they are in love, not because they are tired of love. It's because it's easy to change your mind.

    But no matter what, we still have to pay well in love, and love without paying is. It's not pure love, we have to care about each other. Can't let the other party feel tired in love, I believe that this kind of love will also last for a long time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, there are many such people at present, they are too tired and tired to love, and they have to give up, but they still love you in their hearts, so you need to take it seriously.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are such people, because love is to give, if one person has been giving and the other person has not said in return, after a long time will give up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In reality, there is, it's not that you don't love anymore, it's that you can't love anymore, two people will be together for various reasons or helpless, and they feel too tired and difficult to be together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Today, just now, I also made such a decision.,It's not that I don't love him, but I'm too tired to love.。。。 Blind efforts are not rewarded. Love should be mutual. Deleted him.,Blocked it.,I feel like the whole person is relaxed.。。。

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There will indeed be such a situation, not that he doesn't love anymore, but that he is too tired to love. I was tired, so I gave up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

    Find someone who can endure hardships together, rather than enjoy them together.

    Find someone you can bear together, not one you can run away with.

    Find someone who can be responsible for you, not for love.

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

    What do you think love is?

    A little bit of emotion, a little bit of impulse, a hug and a kiss?

    Naïve people, I have watched too many Japanese dramas, and I have read too many articles of the ruffian Cai.

    This may be part of love, but definitely not most of it.

    The subject of love is life, living together.

    Can you accompany her to be sad for a while, but can you accompany her to withstand all the pressure?

    Can you give her body temperature, but can you give her direction in life?

    Have you ever imagined that when the enthusiasm fades, hugs no longer have any attraction to you?

    How do you go along?

    Distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer.

    For the sake of the people you love, please make some sacrifices to keep your love.

    Otherwise, how can we talk about true love.

    You can forget your previous vows, but remember your true heart.

    Ask yourself, do you love so much?

    Are you willing to hurt both?

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

    Life is not a good life for one person.

    It's how two people live well together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Give up love.

    Maybe love is a sad fairy tale.

    But it's far away and real.

    But it is not to be touched and lacking.

    Only then can we achieve brilliance and sacredness.

    It is not painful to give up someone who loves you very much.

    Giving up on someone you love very much, that's the pain.

    Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is more painful.

    If there is fate, time and space are not distances.

    If you don't have a chance, you won't be able to meet when you get together.

    You don't have to worry too much about everything, and you don't need to force it.

    Just let it all be ...

    Escaping is not necessarily avoiding.

    Facing it, it is not necessarily the saddest.

    Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy.

    Get, not necessarily long.

    Losing doesn't necessarily mean not having anymore.

    It may be sad for some reason.

    But you can find a reason to be happy.

    Being in love is nothing more than being happy.

    If two people cannot be happy, it is better for one person to be happy, and if two people are miserable, it is better to be happy than to fulfill one.

    Love is a feeling that makes you feel happy even if you are in pain.

    Love is a kind of experience, even if the heart is broken, it will feel sweet.

    Love is an experience that feels beautiful even when broken.

    Some losses are predestined, and some fates will never come to fruition.

    Loving someone may not be able to have it, but I just can't erase the bits and pieces you leave in my heart...

    Love someone is not lonely, think of a person lonely.

    Quiet missing, lonely enjoyment.

    Let go of the clouds in the sky and leave behind the vows.

    Loving someone and losing it is like throwing away one's beloved belongings.

    It's a pity, but it doesn't hurt.

    If you love someone, if you lose it, you will leave a wound.

    There will always be a faint pain ...

    Don't be wrong for love because you're lonely.

    Don't be lonely for a lifetime because of wrong love.

    There is a longing called silence.

    Between us, deep inside my heart.

    That feeling, never again...

    Perhaps, only when it is rare and farthest can the days that have passed.

    See it most truly and clearly.

    If you're tired, you can also not give up, but you don't force it either, so that you won't be so tired.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Many things are always understood after they have been experienced.

    Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself;

    After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing.

    In fact, life does not need so many meaningless attachments, and there is nothing that really cannot be parted with.

    Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

    Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back;

    Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the best memories;

    Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable.

    In fact, there are some things that I knew at the beginning that there would be no result, but I still persevered until the end, and I still hurt myself, hurt others, and even hurt deeper and more painfully! Because he doesn't have the ability to change everything, that is, he doesn't want to change for you at all, as if he said that he loved someone and let him go, he would be happier and happier! Why don't you love him, let him go, he may fly higher and more freely Love is actually a shackle, tying himself and her!

    Maybe after this injury, let yourself understand love better

    Every party is very beautiful, and every trip is also intoxicating.

    It is the regret that we can't have that makes us feel more sewn;

    It is the sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night that make us feel more nostalgic.

    Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.

    Maybe a little regret, a little sadness, will make this answer more charming and long-lasting.

    Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers, and you will reap the rain;

    I met you just after missing him.

    Keep walking, and you'll end up reaping your beauty.

    Sometimes, some people have to learn to give up, because giving up is also a kind of beauty.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is much harder to forget someone than to love someone, it takes a minute to fall in love with someone, and it may take a lifetime to forget someone.

    You can ask yourself, can I really give up on him? I guess you can't find the answer yourself.

    If you really love him so much, then you can work hard, to redeem her, to pursue her hard, if you really have done everything you should do, really worked hard, you can say to yourself with a clear conscience: I really worked hard, very serious.

    But he still didn't accept your words, and I think you can let it go, because you may really be fated to be inseparable.

    The twisted melon is not sweet, it is yours after all, it is yours, and it is useless if it is not your forcible request, is it?

    If you can, go ahead, and if there's really no hope, then let it go.

    Slowly forget him, slowly accept others, and you will find that the world is still very big.

    He is not the only one who deserves your love, I hope you think about what you want to do.

    Finally, I wish you all the best to be happy and happy every day.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you feel particularly tired and have the idea of giving up, there is no need to insist anymore, it will give you the feeling of being too tired to love, which means that he may not love you so much or that he is used to asking and not paying, it also depends on what your relationship is, if you do not confirm the relationship between the couple, it may be that you are used as a spare tire, if the relationship between the couple has always been you unilaterally paying, then you are really a little humble, the above are my personal opinions, whether you are a boy or a girl, love yourself well, In the past, I also took care of that person in every detail, but later I found out that he was an octopus, first of all, be good to yourself and become excellent in order to meet the better him, love is mutual, blindly taking or giving will not last long.

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