His relatives know that you have something, but he just doesn t ask you, what does this belong to?

This belongs to relatives who are not as good as neighbors, so you don't have to take it to heart, and you don't have to ask him if he has something in the future.

It can only be said that the emotional relationship between relatives is not very close. It's also possible to feel like you can figure it out on your own.

It may be that you don't usually walk around with these relatives, and when you encounter something, you think of them, they don't care about you, you can't be too selfish, and now that you have something, how do you treat others, you have to find a way to solve the problem yourself, don't count on your relatives.

I think this happens because your relative doesn't want to tell you and cause you discomfort, or he doesn't want to care about it, just two possibilities.

It must be that you don't usually associate with your relatives, so people don't greet you, if you usually get along well with them, people will definitely come to greet you.

Your relatives know that you have something, but he just doesn't ask you, which is a kind of protection for you, afraid of hurting you, afraid of you. When it comes to sadness, it is about caring for you, it is about hurting you, so how to do it.

My relatives know that you have something to do with them, but they just don't ask you what this belongs to, I think. It's up to you to decide your own business, don't care, it's useless to be close to your family and ask.

As much as possible, you can do things independently on your own, and there is no guarantee of relying on relatives or friends. There's nothing wrong with helping or not helping others, and you shouldn't ask too much of them.

As a wife, you have to have a good talk with him, for his family, but you also have to take care of your own small family.

If he pretends to be stupid, you just accompany him to finish this scene. When nothing happens, that's the best way to fight back. Confess to him afterwards, and then carefully observe his performance before making countermeasures.

If he continues to play dumb with you. Then you don't have to waste too much time on him. Go and spend time with the friends who are really right to you.

If not, play stupid again. Then let's laugh it off.

You're not going to tell him not to pretend to be fine.

Rebuttal! Just say you don't know this, and ask, it's not that you haven't seen it.

When your relatives say this, they think that you take the initiative to find things to do, but it is not that you go to do things for them when they ask them to do things, who let you take the initiative to do them and find those things that they want you to do and let you do them, not that if you see people do it, you listen to it and see how happy they are.

He owes you a favor for fear of trouble.

My husband used to be in the same situation as your family, and he may be better off than you. The friction that just came together was very uncomfortable, and it really took a long time to get used to it. He was always thinking about his family, and he was good to his family...

Actually, don't worry too much about it. If he is a person with no family responsibilities, it will be troublesome. He needs you to communicate with him often, and there is, you don't do the little work at home, leave it to him to do, before he does it, you have to pay attention to your tone, you say gently:

Husband, I can't do this well, or you are the most powerful and want you to do it. Regardless of whether he did a good job or not, you must praise him when you are done and say in a very surprised tone: Wow!

Husband, you're so powerful, give him another deep kiss! I don't know about your family, I don't know how you treat your husband, but from now on, you have to change. That's how I cleaned up my husband, and now, he's a lot better, and he doesn't want to come to his house all the time to do things.

When he gets your affirmation, he will love you more and love your home more. If he's still like this, then he's selfish and thinks only of himself.

Hello, husband and wife are originally coming together from strange karma, and they need to run in and understand each other, women can't completely rely on men's thoughts, once they have, they are destined to be disappointed. The concept of husband and wife of the current couple and parents is completely different, the current husband and wife are more like the concept of partners, love is not abandoned, that is a fairy tale, not reality, but love, to two people work together to maintain and operate, not a matter of how much to pay unilaterally, your husband thinks less for your family, you don't have to mind, after all, he is not your parents' own son, as the saying goes, "love the house and Wu", it is about loving a person will love all of him, it can only show that what they have done is not enough, think more about your husband, Love him more, let him find out that his wife is the best for him, and at that time, can he not love your family? Don't say some things, even if he does it, it may not be sincere, that is, he has to do it first, he doesn't care about your family, you care more about his family, then he will be embarrassed, compare his heart to his heart, that's the truth.

Finally, I wish you a happy and sweet life as a couple.

He should pay in his own home, but if he doesn't pay anything in your house, he will give me a feeling that your house is his air-raid shelter, and he has something to hide and nothing to rest.

Maybe your man cares too much about his friends.

In fact, in real life, I am a homeless person. It is correct to say that I don't have a home, and sometimes, especially when I'm in a bad mood, I feel like it's superfluous to live in this world. I longed to have a home, but I didn't, when a woman gets married, because her in-laws' family is home, but when things happen, it's not, I feel that this family will treat you as an outsider, but when I go back to my parents' house, I also feel like an outsider, so I often have this feeling of homelessness.

I feel very helpless, and my mother's home is not the warmest place for me. I used to like to escape, and I always felt that I had parents and a home for everything. After marriage, my mother's home is a haven for me, as long as there is some wind and grass will live for two days to avoid the limelight, I don't know when I have been redundant to that, I can't find my own sense of existence, sense of belonging, I feel that I am alone, I am very lonely.

I was alone in the face of everything.

When I get to work, it's still like this, and I have to find me for big things, whether I'm at work or not, I can hit if I want, and I can't be bothered. Here I want to talk about my father, sometimes I think that this kind of person should not have a family, harmful, always only think of himself, will not think about his family, is lazy to do, would rather call his children to school to get a 1500 a year stipend, will not think about making money well, don't smoke so much, smoke so well! ‍‍

Right now. I told my mother that I wanted to go back during the summer vacation and didn't want to stay in Tianjin, and my mother asked me: What are you doing when you come back?

Play? I really couldn't find any words to go to her for a while, and tears came out of my eyes. My heart felt like I had been cut a big hole, and I felt very uncomfortable.

I thought my mom wanted me to come home.

I'm the one who can't go back to my home, because I can't stand my mother's yelling and chattering every day. The point is that she is worthless, making trouble for the sake of making trouble. I ignored her, and she scolded me more than 530 times in a row, so much so that I couldn't cry.

Of course, she won't make trouble because I'm crying, how to make trouble, of course it's still like this. I am also thanks to my pregnancy, and after so many months, my mother basically didn't dare to beat me if she wanted to. When I give birth, I don't have this treatment.

From the beginning of my sensibility, I spent it in the quarrel of my parents, 365 days a year, the days of quarrels are far more than the days of reconciliation, junior high school and high school, thinking about college, leaving home, and finally out of sight, the result will still receive my mother's **, count my father's not, lament the unfairness of life, by the way, I also mentioned my suffering over the years, I really think enough!

I feel the same way at this moment, the atmosphere at home is too bad and I don't want to go home, my boyfriend is not very good, I have everything but nothing goes well. There is nowhere to go.

Sometimes it really feels like God is playing with me and making my family feel fucked. Father: Selfish, irresponsible, Mother: God chatters, endlessly, Brother: never grows up, naïve and ignorant!

I worked with him in a second-tier city in a free shipping province, his family helped a little, and then we bought a house and decorated it ourselves, and I never asked the family to ask for a dime, before my mother was sick, I gave all the 60,000 I saved to the family, and then I bought a house, my mother paid back 40,000 to me, my dad ignored it from beginning to end, and would not ask me if the house was renovated, whether the money was enough, never asked, as if this can be regarded as not knowing!

Dad, he's too lazy to eat, I'd rather call my children to get a bursary of 1500, play cards and mahjong by himself, and smoke a pack of cigarettes, I feel that he never loves his wife and children, only himself.

I'm angry with my father, but I miss my mother very much, I want to eat my mother's dishes, and I cry silently on holidays.

I'm numb. But now that I have a husband, my mind is on him, and my heart is not so uncomfortable. I got married for less than half a year, and it took me less than five days to go back to my parents' house.

Even if I usually go home, my mother can follow me and nag about the partner, marriage, children and whatever!! Disturbing.

Today I bought something for the New Year and went to my parents, and when my dad came back, my mother didn't talk and put on a face! I don't know what's going on and don't want to ask, my dad yelled two sentences and didn't eat and left, scared my baby, I didn't want to eat and left directly, you don't care about my feelings and I don't care about you, you deserve to be good in the future!

Translation of modern Chinese and classical Chinese: I don't know: I don't know.

Fact: Facts. It's just:

Only. Listen to outsiders: Smell people.

Say: Words. Just:

Namely. To blame: blame.

Own relatives: own relatives. "I don't know the truth of the matter, but I just listen to outsiders, so I come to question my relatives" can be said in classical Chinese

I don't know the facts, I only hear what people say, that is, I blame my relatives.

Three things: not too to show off, but to ask about other people's privacy, not to be ungrateful; Four accounts: economic account, digging round people's wisdom and slippery love account, responsibility account, and time account, so that the relatives can get along more harmoniously.

I'm also helpless about this! This is the case with me too! Born self-motivated, strong and hard work in all aspects! But there are also various frustrations and stresses. Alas, it's only a bad fate that I didn't meet good parents. Don't think about it.

Have a good mentality, your family is very delicate in their hearts, and they have such a sensible child as you.

It still feels so strong, oh, it's not bad to show the weak side properly.