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Right! My friend on the 1st floor was right! Parents should find out the reason and reflect on it!
Ask yourself a little more and ask what! Do you give your child enough respect and treat your child as your bosom friend? Do you often yell, yell, and scold your child!
The child lies for fear of being scolded and beaten! It is normal for children to make mistakes, and parents should guide them patiently and encourage praise ......Remember that children are equal to you! Every child's mind is a blank slate, it depends on what your parents draw on it!
It is recommended that you buy some books on children's education! Guide your child correctly1
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The reason why children lie is often because of their parents, so if you want your child not to speak, you must constantly guide them, and parents must lead by example.
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The reason why children lie is often because parents often scold and scold their children loudly, and children lie for fear of being scolded and beaten, and they should guide their children correctly!
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When a child has an ego, he will lie. Parents often use beating and scolding to preach, but in fact, it is useless. We should ask the child why he lies and teach him how to solve it.
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Adults will lie in many situations of necessity, not to mention these immature children, what parents should do is to give their children more understanding, do not neglect to communicate with children because of the fast pace of life, busy work, etc.
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Recently, I found out that my baby is starting to learn to lie!! For example, when I went to kindergarten and didn't want to eat breakfast, I said at home that I would go to the garden to eat again, and when I arrived in the kindergarten, I told the teacher that she had eaten at home! In the garden, it was obvious that she was robbing other people's things to play with and making others cry, but she said that others robbed her things first, and she also cried ......Sometimes I was really deceived by her, but even if I found out, I told her not to lie in the future and to be an honest child, she promised to be good at the time, but next time it will be the same.
I don't even know what to do anymore...
I saw an interesting study that found that 2 two-year-olds can lie, 50 three-year-olds are dishonest, and the proportion of four-year-olds who can cheat is as high as nearly 90, and the older the child, the higher the percentage, and when the child reaches the age of 12, the curve peaks, and almost every child lies. At the age of 16, the proportion of people who lie falls back to 70.
MM, have your babies ever lied? What do you think about children lying? What do you do when your child lies?
Will lying as a child make a child grow up to be a **?
It has been said that children with high lying skills tend to have higher cognitive abilities so that they can make their lies sound believable. Does that mean that children who say they can lie grow up to be smarter and more promising?
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When a child has an ego, he will lie. Parents often use beating and scolding to preach, but in fact, it is useless. We should ask the child why he lies and teach him how to solve it.
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What causes children to lie? Star Awareness Project
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Change two thoughts, the first is yours, he lied for a reason! Probably because of you. Second, teach him what the so-called righteous values are, that is, the kind that everyone accepts!
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1. Understand the reason why the child is lying.
Some children may not give pocket money or give little money in order to buy snacks to eat, so they say that the school wants to buy materials or donate, and they have to pay money and ask their parents for money. Some children failed the exam for fear of being scolded by their parents, so they didn't dare to tell the truth, saying that they scored 80 points in the exam.
There are also children who are lazy and lie to their parents that they don't have homework. If it is true, it must be done, and if it is false, it must be educated. Tell your child: If you don't do well in the exam, you should tell the truth, and you can't lie to your parents.
2. Tell your child about the dangers of lying through storytelling.
The child is relatively young, and when you are educating, you may not be able to accept it if you talk to him about it, so you can tell a story to reason, such as the story of the wolf, which is very educational.
Tell children to be honest and get used to lying, which will develop into cheating people and embark on the road of breaking the law. No matter what profession you engage in in the future, you can't lie, if others don't believe you anymore, and they don't do business with you, you will still harm yourself in the end.
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When parents encounter their children lying, the first thing is to accept that all kinds of problems encountered by children in their growth are meaningful, and the sooner the problems are exposed and solved, the better it will be for the child's growth, and then calm down to find the reason.
Whether it is habitual lying or occasional lying, if you only lie occasionally, you should recall or reflect on whether you have some problems in dealing with something with your child, appropriately relax your requirements, lower your standards, and lower your own high psychological expectations.
If it is a frequent lie, then parents should reflect on it, and find the reason from themselves, including the living environment created for their children, and adjust and grow up with their children.
Allow children to make mistakes, children at different stages of growth, growth speed and mental development are not the same, do not overreact in the face of mistakes, this will further make children more vigilant, take your time, faster.
There are too many truths, too many constraints, and shirking responsibility Adults talk too much truth every time, and children can't understand it, and they don't realize what the consequences of what they do, and they don't have the actual ability to bear the blame. Tell the story of what happened and the possible consequences, and let the child suffer the consequences of lying directly or indirectly, but not ridicule or ridicule.
White lies"The child deliberately conceals it does not mean that he does not love you, on the contrary, he cares about your performance. They don't want to accept that they are the "bad boy who doesn't do homework", "playful" and "lying", and telling the truth will make both themselves and adults uncomfortable, but they want to be a "perfect baby" in front of you.
What needs to be communicated is that no matter what the reason, communication should be maintained and nothing should be hidden. Mom and Dad understood the truth of the matter and expressed understanding. But if something is wrong, it is wrong, and if it can be remedied, try to remedy it, and if it can't be remedied, you will calmly bear the consequences.
Mom and Dad can accept any aspect of you and will help you transition and move towards a better version of yourself.
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What should I do if my child lies a lot? Mom, you know what? This can be misleading.
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Expose him when he is sure that he is lying, and teach him a hard lesson so that he will never dare again.
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Be sure to teach patiently, tell him not to be afraid if he does something wrong, to be brave enough to speak out, and brave children are the best.
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Educate him patiently, make him aware of the mistake of lying, and guide him correctly.
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We must let him understand that it is important to grow wise, and at the same time care about him, let him say what he is most worried about, and solve it together.
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Tell him that lying is wrong, and make him pay a price for lying, so that he learns to admit his mistake and correct his mistake instead of lying.
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It's time to teach a lesson, lying is not a small problem, it needs to be corrected thoroughly.
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He must be punished so that he knows that he has done something wrong and that he should not lie.
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Criticize him every time he lies, so that he realizes that lying is wrong.
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Correct him in time and tell him how serious it is.
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Teach him, tell him that this is not right.
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Sit down, talk about what he needs, parents must communicate with their children, otherwise there will be a diaphragm when they grow up, many parents do not pay attention to this, and respect the opinions of children, children will be sensible one day, he needs the understanding and understanding of parents, sometimes children will understand the disappointed expressions of parents, and use this method more.
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Tell him about the dangers of lying, for example: losing the trust of others, not getting help from others, caring. No friends....
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When the child has a problem, don't give excessive treatment, the child is afraid of lying, so you know.
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Educate slowly, don't lose your temper, and be with your children often!
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You can tell him the story of the child who is herding the sheep.
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Do you care if the child lives with you?
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There is a problem with the method of educating yourself, and you should educate in a different way.
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When a child has an ego, he will lie. Parents often use beating and scolding to preach, but in fact, it is useless. We should ask the child why he lies and teach him how to solve it.
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Educate him well, and only after education can children know that lying is wrong.
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Personally, I think that parents should guide their children correctly, let them communicate with others normally, let them realize that lying is wrong behavior, and let them slowly correct their own problems.
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Once a child is found to be lying, it is necessary to educate the child strictly, and to a certain extent, the child can be given some punishment to let him know the harm of lying.
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