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Let's be honest. Your parents are afraid that you will not be happy...

Who doesn't want their children to live happily...

Hold on. In the end, I would generally agree ...

But the problem is that in the future, even if the two of you make it. As long as you quarrel, I guess your parents will say it. You see. Tell you not to talk to him in the first place... = -！It's a headache ...

I advise you to think it through. Marriage is not a matter of two people. It's a matter of two families. Your boyfriend is also under a lot of pressure. Are you sure you both have a future? Sometimes it's not all about love ...

There is no house to rent first. The key is the future. The days ahead are long ...

You'd better talk to your parents. In addition to being poor in the countryside, what other reasons are there?

Be prepared to fight. If you are together, you don't want to be looked down upon by your parents...

Understand the feelings of your parents. They also just want you to live well in the future!

Personally, I think the key is for your boyfriend to show his hard work.

Let your parents see the excellent aspects of your boyfriend and feel free to hand you over to him!

You're wrong. If your parents don't care about you, why don't you say anything bad about your boyfriend?

Who do you love to marry, love to have a house or not.

You're having a good time with your boyfriend right now and some of the problems are simply not visible.

Your mom and dad just want you to be more secure, marry a rich man, and have a room to live in.

Although they did it the wrong way, it was well-intentioned.

So try to solve it with gentle means.

It's good to get married.

Came! Vulgar!!! There is only one time in life, so why care about gains and losses!! Have a good time!

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<>Dear, hello, I've been waiting for a long time, I personally think that you deceived the man's parents to buy a house in the county before Wu, but in fact, the family is very poor, and you still have to talk to your boyfriend about it, and you will still be known after concealing it, and you will not get along well at that time.

1. When you fall in love, you must first be sincere, don't deceive the other party, which will lead to his distrust of you. 2. If you consider whether your boyfriend is sincere, you can actually find a time to confess to him, although he will also be angry, but it will be better than finding out by himself.

It is recommended that you don't hide it in this kind of thing I pretend to be a servant and my boyfriend is not fancy you to buy a house before arguing with you in the hall, and the frank relationship between couples will last a long time [Little Red Flower].

It is recommended that you don't hide it in this kind of thing I pretend to be a servant and my boyfriend is not fancy you to buy a house before arguing with you in the hall, and the frank relationship between couples will last a long time [Little Red Flower].

Hope mine is helpful to you<>

Little Red Flower].

It's not bad to save 100,000 for you to die; But you still need to judge rationally and recognize him as a person; Sometimes, no matter how much the two love each other to die and live, but the human heart is always flesh and blood, and there will always be a time for accidents.

Your parents are also doing this for your own good, think about why they have to buy a house to agree to your marriage, and you didn't live with him when you bought a house.

Think about it again, how much energy your parents spent on raising you up, and never asked for anything; Do you want to watch your daughter suffer with your man?

It's just that some men who don't understand the word filial piety and have no sense of responsibility will think, why do men have to fund to buy a house? Why do you have to give the woman a gift money?

The answer is that when a woman gives up her home for decades for a man to take care of his home, take care of his life, and give birth to children for him, her parents will help him take care of the elderly when they are old; And what did the man or the man's parents do for the woman? What did you pay for a woman's parents?

Marriage is a matter of three families, don't wait until you are also a parent to understand the hardships of your parents; Discuss it with your parents and listen to their opinions to synthesize.

From your story, I feel the hard work of your parents and the sincerity of your boyfriend. It seems that you are a lucky girl who lives surrounded by the love of her loved ones.

However, they have a conflict with each other's love for you, as you said, "If you want a boyfriend, you don't want your parents."

Indeed, in the current Chinese marriage and love market, "the son-in-law must buy a house in order to win the heart of the mother-in-law". This can be seen from the hit TV series in the past two years. However, the reality is that the conditions are difficult. I'm sure your boyfriend has worked really hard!

A happy marriage, first of all, is that the two people really love each other, and at the same time can get the recognition and blessing of the old people on both sides. It seems that you have the first element, and the other is embarrassing you!

I don't know if you have a firm belief that this man will not marry? When a marriage is thwarted by the forces around it, it is of utmost importance that both parties unite and encourage them more closely. At the same time, the old man does not approve of your boyfriend, and the root cause is still worried that you are not doing well or being happy; If you are sure that through the efforts of both parties, you will live a happy life and have no worries about material things, they will definitely approve of you in the end!

So, I hope you will calm down and ask yourself: Do I really love him? Am I ready? What will your married life be like in the future? Maybe after a period of financial constraints and family discord, will we be able to persevere?

Bless you!

Anyone who does business will have a time when the capital cannot be turned. Since your boyfriend can let you put 100,000 yuan in your name for the death period, then first of all, congratulations! You don't have a good place in his heart.

Since you have a house in the county, you will settle for it first. You also exhort your parents not to have a single tendon. The 100,000 yuan is deposited in the bank in your name, which is a fixed asset, and the house is also a fixed asset, both of which are fixed assets.

It's just that the two manifest themselves in different ways. If your parents blindly oppose it, and you must see the room before you let go, I estimate that you will hate your parents for the rest of your life in the future.

It's all about you and him, and it has nothing to do with your parents.

Why do men have to buy houses, and do women have to rely on men to live in this era? If you think that's the case, then you can't put too much pressure on him. Your parents don't agree because they love you, and if you want your boyfriend to reassure you more, you have to work hard with him, you know?

You can offer a house with him. Your parents are mainly afraid that you will suffer, in addition to having a firm belief in front of your parents, you must also let your parents see that you are working hard for your future, so it is right.

Don't get married until your boyfriend buys a house.

Yes, be firm in your choice. I wish a lover a family member!

1All your lives are your own. The future is also your own. This position should be held.

Have the two old men met?

There are generally several reasons for the opposition of the elderly:

1. Dissatisfied with the child's ta, so unwilling to accommodate.

2. I don't know much about my children's TA and lack an emotional foundation, so I am not willing to accommodate 3. The old people on both sides have not met, and there are only simple regional stereotypes, so they are unwilling to give in to anything.

It's good to find the cause, but it's up to the two of you to do it. Again, the words at the beginning: "Your future is your own, and you must stand firm." ”

First of all, communicate well, dark guessing is definitely not good, how to negotiate how to solve it if you can't communicate, parents must want their children to be around, and you also want to buy it at your house, isn't it the same reason, you let your boyfriend buy it at your house, and you want him to go back to borrow money by himself, no one will definitely agree, unless your family is good, your father helps you buy a set here, then they must have nothing to say, little sister, want to open a point, good feelings are the most important, nothing else matters.

After all, it's my own parents, so I suggest more communication, and I should understand.

This one can't be rushed, you have to take your time.