Why do you like to be alone? Why do you like the feeling of loneliness?

Being is lonely, don't be afraid of being alone, this is the pure enlightenment that life gives us, it doesn't carry any meaning. If you mend the relationship with yourself, learn tolerance, and know how to respect each other's freedom, there is not much difference between two people and one person, and one person can live better than two people. If you believe it, it will be a little better, and understand that the biggest knot in the heart of a self-sufficient person is to only see the fault of others and identify himself as a victim, but the unfortunate poor person cannot see through, the victim is often self-harming, using the existence of others to harm himself, crankily thinking about the relationship is ruined, I don't know what to do.

Can you take love seriously? Let go of yourself a little bit and love yourself a little more? A person who loves himself does not allow himself to live in the shadow of self-pity and hurt is a sign of cowardice.

It is necessary to distinguish the difference between love and harm. This is true for loved ones, for lovers, and even more so for self. When you are still you and I am still me, you know how to respect and love each other, and we walk together for a period of care, which is the gift of fate, and it is too late to thank you.

When there is no fear of loneliness, one and two, women and men, gentleness and violence, loyalty and betrayal, love and hate, there is no need to divide it anymore. The human energy is such that when you internalize the feelings and emotions that have gone bad and let yourself bear and bear it alone, sooner or later you will break down. Theoretically, people are bound to be lonely, and no one can live for you, but emotionally, if you can't find a point to rely on, you will easily collapse if you are helpless.

When the energy is exhausted, the strongest man in the world will fall. When we are tired, our energy falls to the bottom, our emotions are traumatic, we encourage negative imagination, and everything suddenly becomes gray and meaningless. You have to remind yourself:

This feeling is just an inertial circulatory circuit of cranial nerves that tend to negative reactions, not a reflection of life, don't identify with it. When the energy declines, don't hold on to it, people are lonely animals, but don't be attached to loneliness. Find an emotional point to rely on, such as a lover, such as a pet, such as yourself, like God, put it in your heart, love him, and then smile at yourself and say thank you.

Don't care whether this reliance point is real or not, people are people, and you have to rely on emotional pillars that are stronger than yourself to live. Don't mind relying on it, don't care about saving face or anything, people are originally group animals, and there is no reason and need to cling to loneliness. Grasp a point of reliance that allows you to be centered, calm yourself, and then surpass yourself, and if you can improve, you can realize the meaning of life.

Because you are used to being lonely, so you love and hate loneliness, you can't help it, you like loneliness maybe it's an excuse, maybe it's to escape something.

Being alone can make us feel lonely and lonely, so we often want to have friends and family by our side. ......But if you taste it carefully, you will find that there are many joys and benefits of being single. Specifically, in daily life, the beautiful moments that allow you to experience the joy of being alone include enjoying the quiet time when you are alone, you can decide what you want in your life, and you can spend all your money on yourself.

1. You can enjoy a quiet time by yourself without being disturbed.

One of the best things about being single is that you can fully enjoy the quiet time when you are undisturbed. ......When you are with your family, friends or other people, you can get their support and help, but your life will inevitably be affected by them. And when you live a single life, you are in a state of no one to disturb you, and you can fully enjoy the time of command, which makes you feel happy and comfortable.

2. Living single allows you to decide anything in your life for yourself.

When you are single, you can decide what to do in your life without anyone else influencing you. ......This feeling will be very comfortable, you will feel happy from the bottom of your heart, and at this time, you will fully feel that the single life is also full of good feelings.

3. You can spend all your money on yourself.

For the vast majority of people, their income is insufficient compared to their living needs, which will make them feel unsatisfactory in life. But in the case of singleness, this can change. ......The reason why I say this is because in the state of single life, I can spend all my money on myself, and this feeling will make me very happy, and produce a sense of satisfaction and happiness for the single life.