I like to be alone but I am afraid of being lonely, and I like a large group of people to revel, and

Hearing you say this, I came to mind the sentence "Loneliness is the carnival of one person, and carnival is the loneliness of a group of people." ”

I also like to be alone, and I feel that it is more convenient for me to do things on my own without worrying too much. I don't have to wander around in front of a stall that I'm not interested in when I go shopping, and I don't have to be ......embarrassed by the 'food silence' when I eat

I didn't feel like it was going to make me feel lonely, it was just a way of life. Of course, it will also make people feel very happy when they are with everyone, because the atmosphere can easily infect people, especially among people with strong aura

Being alone and integrating into the group are not two absolutely contradictory things, just learn to adjust. When you first enter college, you still think that your high school classmates are better than college, but this is not necessarily the case. It's like when we first entered high school, we always felt that our friends in middle school were more real, and when you graduated, you would still cherish them.

Therefore, I recommend that you have a good relationship with your roommate, and you will spend four years of college together, which is a rare fate, please cherish it; If you like to have a party, then you can participate in more such activities, such as dinners or class reunions organized by the hometown association, student union, etc., but there are also those who feel lonely in the crowd. At the party, it is generally people who have a good time talking together, people who are too withdrawn are easy to be ignored and isolated, making friends will make you happier and your life will be more fulfilling

There are many people who are wiser than us, as long as we keep walking, slowly enrich our hearts, and gradually deepen our emotions, we will mature

People are social animals, so of course they can feel lonely. True friends know no boundaries and are not afraid of trouble, if you feel that you can't stay, you can find something you like to do, play ball, draw, read books, and study

I also feel very depressed, because I feel very lonely, but people always have to grow up slowly I feel that loneliness is not immature, people need friends If you are not in a university, you can often use short breath, ** or other ways to contact ah

Look at some of the things that life is good and maybe you will meet the right friends while you are doing something

There is no separation, where can there be reunion Life is not all the way smoothly I can't want your thoughts to live But you should adapt to life Every setback is a valuable asset and experience You will become more and more mature No longer confused Come on Young people Make yourself better.

No, it's you who crave quiet, but there is hope to communicate, so you should find someone with a quiet personality to spend your wonderful college life with Hope you smile!

No, it means that you are mature and can think for yourself.

You will start to worry about your own mind, and you can't be considered naïve. Since you're bored, just chat online. Don't talk too often, pay attention to learning!

Like me, hehe, I'm a sophomore in high school.

Ordinary life has an extraordinary heart, and we may not even know what we are pursuing.

This phrase was uttered by Rabindranath Tagore.

Loneliness is the carnival of a group of people, and carnival is the loneliness of a person. This sentence comes from Tagore's Selected Poems, and the first half of this sentence, "Loneliness is a man's carnival", is the title of Tagore's Selected Poems. Moreover, people like Xu Zhimo and Bingxin spoke highly of Tagore himself and Tagore's poetry selections. Lift the source.

Gibran once said: Loneliness is a companion of sorrow and a close friend of spiritual activity.

Loneliness sometimes makes you feel sad, but sometimes it is your spiritual food, and a remarkable person must be a person who has learned to enjoy solitude. Goethe once said: People can learn in society, but inspiration only comes when they are lonely.

One of the most common things my friends say is, if I had to do something alone, I'd rather not go. They have to find someone to accompany them when they eat, they have to find someone to accompany them in class, they have to pull someone to go with them even when they go to the toilet, and if their "rice friends" don't go to eat, then they would rather not eat. Actually, I'm not against doing something with friends, after all, we need friends in this world.

But sometimes I don't understand why you have to have someone with you to do it.

Maybe it's because I'm afraid of being alone, I'm afraid of being alone. This is my guess, in order to confirm my guess I deliberately asked those friends around me who must be accompanied by someone, they said, "Actually, it is not necessary to find someone to accompany you, but sometimes when you go to eat alone, others will feel that this person is so unsociable, with sympathy, and look at you with strange eyes, which makes people very uncomfortable, and over time, I am a little afraid of eating alone, not afraid of a person, but afraid of the kind of pity in the eyes of others." ”

It turns out that it's not that they're afraid of loneliness, it's that our world is afraid of loneliness. Ahsan once said a sentence that I think is very suitable for today's society: "Loneliness is the carnival of one person, and carnival is the loneliness of a group of people." "Sometimes we find someone to accompany you to prove that you are not lonely, and that just means that you are lonely.

Kant never left Königsberg in his life, and lived like a day in the day, going for a walk on time every afternoon, and some people directly used him as a mobile alarm clock. He was lonely, but it was in this lonely environment that he wrote the Critique of Pure Reason, which was carefully read by philosophers all over the world, and if he had given up solitude, he would not have been able to write a masterpiece that would have influenced the whole world.

Great men are lonely, but they enjoy this loneliness and do not care about the eyes of the world, and they are accompanied by loneliness in the long nights, but they do not feel lonely. We sang and danced in the crowd every day, and it seemed that we had a lot of friends, but in fact our souls felt very lonely.

But loneliness is not the same as isolation, after all, we are members of society, so it is impossible not to deal with people. I remember our teacher saying, "Eighty percent of a person's success is due to his connections."

Even Albert Einstein, Lyurdon, and those who seem unattainable, they need to deal with people, they also need to eat, drink, and lazar, and they need all kinds of tools for experiments, all of which cannot be done by one person, and they need the help of others. A person is destined to deal with others from the moment he is born, and if you have a high emotional intelligence, it is not necessarily a reflection of your personality charm that you can get help from others.

May we no longer be alone ......