Why is society so complicated? Isn t it good to be sincere?

Everyone has a protective line, you can't step into it, and of course how can other people's hearts open it to you. What's more, the current society is so complex, how can others easily trust others. It's not that people can't be honest with each other, I can only say that it takes time and you need to get to know each other.

Can't you be sincere with your family and friends, I don't think it's possible, otherwise I can only feel sad for you......Besides, there are people in this society who can never be sincere, and I think you should understand why......

Follow-up question: You are sincere with every friend, why are they not sincere with you? ：

Maybe I don't like you, maybe you get in the way of them, maybe I don't think you can be trusted, and I can't tell you for sure. My friends have grown up, not to mention my family, and everyone is very sincere. But I don't trust others casually, even if there is someone who is sincere to me, I will have an attitude of protecting myself and will not believe casually.

I've been cheated on quite a few times, and I think it's good for everyone to trust each other. But in fact, most of the time this is self-inflicted. Society is really complicated, even if you sincerely pay, how much trust can you get?

You're not wrong, it's just that there are people in this society who can't be easily sincere with each other......

Learn to adapt yourself to this society. Don't let society adapt to you. The latter is also impossible.

First of all, let's be clear"Too sincere"The meaning of Sakura. If"Too sincere"It refers to the lack of necessary self-protection awareness in interpersonal communication, too much trust and dependence on others, and unthinking giving of feelings, time, money and other resources, then this practice may bring negative results to the spine, such as being deceived, hurt, used, etc. Therefore, it is necessary to maintain a certain degree of vigilance and self-protection awareness in interpersonal communication to avoid unnecessary harm.

But if"Too sincere"It refers to the attitude of being sincere, kind, empathetic, and helpful when dealing with people, so this practice is worth advocating and admiring, and can bring positive impact. In interpersonal communication, sincerity and kindness can establish a relationship of mutual trust, mutual respect and reciprocity, increase mutual communication and understanding, and promote the harmonious development of society.

In short, in interpersonal communication, we should properly express our emotions and attitudes according to different situations and people, maintain the necessary sense of early self-protection, and at the same time actively carry forward the qualities of sincerity and kindness, and establish harmonious, equal and mutually beneficial interpersonal relationships.

In the real world, people are becoming more and more hypocritical, and almost everyone wears a veil and acts as an insincere self.

The word "friend" has become more and more abstract. The meaning of friend has different concepts in the eyes of different people.

Friends, no matter how long they have known each other, no matter how many times they have met, as long as they treat them with sincerity, they are friends. Some people, when they use friends, try to compliment them, and when they achieve their goals, they scoff at them, and even ridicule and ridicule you in front of other friends, and belittle you in front of others, in fact, this is not a friend. It's just a tool he wants to use when he's having a hard time.

Friends, not every day to contact, although the sky is all over the world, but when the other party will not lose contact with you will not forget your mobile phone number to ask who you are, maybe because of each other's busy work estranged from the relationship, but the holiday text message is also a warm thought, friend, not everything has to be reported to you, friend, the longer the more true, the more plain and pure, the more sincere the longer.

This is because they are afraid of being hurt, so they have wrapped themselves in their own fortresses. This is a very normal reaction. So don't feel strange, social development is too fast, can't keep up with the will be eliminated, so every social person in order not to be eliminated and pay more energy into work, naturally, with the people around you are less, communication is also reduced, but people are social animals, it is impossible to endure a person's loneliness for a long time, so it is still necessary to communicate.

This goes back to what I said at the beginning, when communicating, I am afraid of being hurt by the other party, so I will not remove the defense line ten out of ten. Just give a tenth to communicate. The relationship is normal, the nodding friendship is normal, and the distance is normal Therefore, if you want others to communicate with you, you must first pay your sincerity.

Because everyone is selfish!

If people all over the world are sincere, there is no point in living in this world.

Some people are good to him, and he is still wondering if you are plotting against him again. Split Chun's reckless intriguing you treat him as a friend, and you can't even get into his address book. It's not about people, it's about society that has to make people become careful with the city, how can a kind and pure Yinkong person survive in today's society, and now there are too many people who cheat more and more, and there are only a few people who can treat each other sincerely.

This is due to the social climate.

The king of Chu has a thin waist, and he starves to death in the palace. What kind of social atmosphere is the guide, what kind of social citizens will be produced. In today's society, sincere, kind, and honest people often suffer, while treacherous, sleek, and hypocritical people can always take advantage, so hypocrisy is prevalent, and everyone is vying to follow suit, and sincere people gradually become sleek and lose their original good conduct.

In this tragic world, you can't be too naïve, you can't be too sincere to people, otherwise you really have no place to die. It is commendable to be able to keep a kind heart, not to hurt others, not to hurt others, and to stick to the bottom line of conscience.

Because we have to learn to look at ourselves, only if we participate in more positive activities in our lives, and start from a positive point of view in the process of contact with others, so that we will feel confident and calm in our hearts, and believe that we will always be a sunny person and have a sunny heart.

Understood... Because it's so realistic. And look at your own mentality. As long as we are sincere ourselves. Be yourself. Worthy of the heart.

Because they have learned the bad habit of being irresponsible.