My husband excused himself that he didn t have time and didn t want to talk about divorce. What does

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe you really disappointed him and was very sad, so he has no confidence in your marriage, if you really don't want to leave, don't talk about divorce at every turn, it's very hurtful, and some people can't accept it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I feel that your husband is very stubborn, such a thing must be talked about by everyone, but the people in their family may think that now is the time for you to ask them, so they put on a shelf, but I didn't expect your father to apologize to them, if you still don't accept it, you don't have to wronged yourself, forget about the divorce, so that you don't have to suspect what he thinks, so that he knows that he can't be bullied like this, and he can do whatever he wants, and support you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Alas, heaven is evil, especially allowed; and thou shalt not live. You have nothing to do with the divorce Now that you have brought it up, don't regret it The most despised person is people like you And your dad made something out of nothing The character is simply bad at home If your husband has to pump you, hurry up and go where to go There is no understanding at all Really! I know what I always talk about with our children, and what it means to not sell regret medicine

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Whoever started the trouble should end it. Or the heart is dead. Are you sitting together? I mean, the whole family, including your parents, if that's the case, maybe, it's a little bit hard to get him back.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's important for men to have things, I hope you can understand! But you can't talk about divorce casually, and threaten your husband with divorce if you break a big deal! Men's self-esteem has taken a big hit.

    You are coaxing him, he has already been broken by you, and it depends on your ability to reconcile or not. In this case, the average man has already thought it through, and he can basically be sure that 80% of the marriage between the two of you is divorced! Shape up or ship out.

    Your own path is your own!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Eighty percent is that he has long wanted to divorce, so let's divorce, depending on who the child is awarded to.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The two are not at odds, and it is certain that it should be the cause of the two people. As yourself, you can find your own reasons first. If you want to divorce, it is just your personal judgment, not necessarily your husband's sincere thoughts.

    As yourself, it's best not to have the idea of divorce first, because once this kind of thought arises, the dispute between you and your husband will involuntarily lead to divorce, and after a long time, divorce will really become a reality.

    On the other hand, if it is really a divorce, there is no need to be too sad, maybe it is true that the two personalities are incompatible. Objective and calm analysis of the relationship between the two is the most fundamental thing, if there is really no relationship, marriage is an empty shell, a grave, it is better to leave, both parties are free, can live again.

    The two had an in-depth conversation and had a calm conversation. You can ask your husband to speak now, let him express his inner thoughts, don't argue, don't refute him, and preferably not have outsiders present. It's important that you can live together, and there must be an emotional foundation.

    The point of the conversation is to find out if your relationship is still there, and if so, how deep it is, rather than pleading for a reunion. The relationship is spontaneous on both sides, there is no need to force it, this attitude is very important. If you can communicate calmly and deeply, you will find out where the problem is, and then take appropriate solutions according to the problem.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you can be independent, especially financially independent, I suggest you divorce, it is useless for a person who does not love you to stay around, you will only feel tired and aggrieved when you are with him, you have to learn to live for yourself, don't always revolve around him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If this attitude of the husband appears suddenly, then it is very likely that there is a situation, so you should communicate with your husband well, and if necessary, call the family members of both parties together to communicate.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you care about your husband, you can sit down with him and communicate about the problems between the two of you, if your husband doesn't want to communicate with you, then you don't have to force it, the twisted melon is not sweet. Make yourself independent.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If your husband is already in this state, then you might as well divorce him. Because there is no point in your life with him. Therefore, instead of this forcible relationship, it is better for two people to separate themselves.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think your husband has a bad attitude towards you and wants to divorce you, it should be that there is a communication problem between the two people, so you should sit down and talk about it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If the relationship is broken and there is no room for recovery, then divorce is the best option, and if you stick to being together, it will only be mutual torture.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the relationship with your husband is broken and irreparable, then there is no other way but divorce! Divorce is also normal.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you don't have feelings, just leave.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you care about your husband, sit down, and communicate between the two. If your husband doesn't want to communicate with him, then you don't have to be reluctant. Melons are not sweet. Be independent on your own.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think if my husband feels annoyed when he hears you, it may be because there must be some problems between the two of you, so what he says to you is disgusting. And the two of you disagree, so she will be particularly annoying, it's not that she has no feelings, then you should actually sit down and talk, so that it is conducive to the real happiness of the two people together. Get along.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If the two do not have a common language, they need to communicate actively, otherwise the divorce will be sooner or later.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In this case, as you said, you have to figure out, why is the relationship with your husband bad? Is it that he doesn't love you? Or are you tired of him? So the reason is important.

    If he doesn't love you anymore, but he doesn't want to divorce you, it means that he still loves you, and he is reluctant to give up this marriage, so it seems that he has you in his heart.

    If you are tired of him, I think you must think twice, in this life, it is not easy to meet a man who loves him, maybe he is not good-looking, maybe he doesn't have much money, but it is enough for him to have a true heart.

    You know, if a man is rich and good-looking, will he look for you? So no one is perfect, you must think about it more, marriage is not easy, life is not easy, even if you are divorced, can you find someone who truly loves you? Especially halfway couples are even more insecure.

    There are a lot of such things around us, two people reorganize their families, quarrel over money every day, intrigues, neither of them pays sincerely, they are very tired, and they are very insecure.

    I have a friend who thinks that her husband is not good or good, and then she divorced and found a man, she felt that this man loved her very much, and felt that she was very happy, and soon after, she was going to divorce this man again, the reason is that this man hid from her to give money to his ex-wife, and that money was child support, and finally divorced again, because that man would rather be single than be with her, because she didn't let that man love his children, so she is now single again, and every day is muddy, is not motivated, and the whole person is decadent and old, and he has ...... a lot

    There are too many such examples, it is recommended to think about your marriage, take a break if you are tired, and make some romantic atmosphere if you are tired, such as traveling together, talking together, and telling each other what is in your heart.

    Marriage needs to be maintained and kept fresh at all times, if you don't know how to take care of it, you will get tired of it, so grasp the person who loves you in front of you and live a good life is the most important thing.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If the woman wants a divorce and the man does not agree to the divorce, then the woman can go to the court to file a lawsuit for divorce. This situation applies when one party does not agree to the divorce. The standard for the court to decide the divorce is that the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, and the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down according to the situation between the man and the woman, mainly to determine whether there is domestic violence, abandonment, abuse, drug abuse, gambling, bigamy, imprisonment, emotional discord and separation for more than two years, physical defects or diseases that are difficult to **, etc., the court will judge according to the circumstances of both parties.

    First, another way of divorce is divorce by mutual agreement.

    In fact, there are two ways to divorce, the first is that one of the husband and wife sues for divorce mentioned above, which is applicable to the fact that the husband and wife cannot reach an agreement. The other is that both husband and wife agree to divorce, that is, the two agree to divorce, and negotiate that both parties go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the relevant divorce procedures, which is easier to handle, and the two people will not have any disputes.

    Second, there is now a cooling-off period for divorce.

    Now divorce is not as easy as before, just go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a divorce certificate. In 2021, the Ministry of Civil Affairs adjusted the marriage registration procedure to add a cooling-off period to divorce proceedings. The newly adjusted divorce registration procedures include application, acceptance, cooling-off period, examination, registration (issuance), etc.

    If both parties fail to apply for a divorce certificate at the marriage registration authority within 30 days after the expiration of the cooling-off period for divorce, the divorce application shall be deemed to be automatically revoked.

    Third, women should not be afraid of divorce.

    I didn't mean to advocate for divorce. Rather, I want to warn those women who are suffering in marriage that sometimes it is better to stop the loss in time if you blindly forbear, because your blind forbearance will make the other party worse, if a marriage is really hopeless, then you are worried or not, and you will eventually divorce. In fact, as a woman, there is no need to live in fear, you just need to play the role you should play in the marriage, do what you should do, don't let yourself make mistakes, and don't break up the marriage because of your own problems, and that's enough.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your relationship with your husband is not very good, and you want to divorce, but your husband does not want to divorce, which means that there is something wrong with your relationship.

    If this problem can be solved, it can be solved by solving the problem first, after all, it is unfair to the other party if you want to divorce.

    If the marriage is not going to last due to the other party's obvious fault, you can go to the court to apply for divorce.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If your husband doesn't want to leave, you sit down with him and communicate calmly, what are you dissatisfied with him, or what he has to say to you Wait for each other to make concessions and tolerate each other, so that the relationship will gradually get better.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If one of the spouses does not want to divorce, they can achieve your goal through litigation divorce. If your husband wants to keep you and prove that he still has feelings for you, there is no need to always think about divorce, and actively improving your relationship between husband and wife is the right way.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You communicate well with him, you have no feelings, and you are also guilty of being together, and the twisted melon is not sweet, how bad it is to have different dreams in the same bed. Divorce is your best choice, no one will delay anyone, each is a sunny day, falling red is not a ruthless thing, turning into spring mud is more protective of flowers.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If the relationship with your husband is not very good, I suggest that you can go and reorganize your relationship. It's not that the relationship is bad, but there is less communication.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you have a bad relationship with your husband and want to divorce, then you need to find evidence that is favorable to your divorce, and then you can apply for legal arbitration.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you really want to get a divorce, your husband can't stop it. If you two agree, you can get a divorce by agreement, and if you don't, you can go directly to the court to sue for divorce.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you have a very bad relationship with your husband, I want to divorce, and my husband doesn't want to divorce, then you can apply to the court for divorce after you decide to divorce, then after half a year, the court will naturally defect.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If your husband doesn't want to divorce, it proves that your husband still cares about you very much, so I think it's best for the two of you to sit down and talk about it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hello, although the relationship with my husband is not very good, if both of them have no principled problems, it is not recommended to divorce if there are children in this situation, communicate well. If there is a serious problem of principle and you want to divorce, and the other party does not agree, you can sue for divorce.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    My husband doesn't want to divorce, which means that he still has nostalgia for you. It is recommended that you take the initiative to communicate with your husband at this time to solve the problem, and if it really can't be solved, it is recommended that you consider divorce again.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I still want to divorce, but my husband doesn't want to divorce, since this is the case, then give him a chance, and give himself a chance, it's really not easy for two people to get married together You can separate But don't divorce first, calm down with each other for a while, give it a try, there is really no way to divorce again.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If your husband doesn't want to divorce, you should be separated from him for a year, because after one year of separation, the court will naturally grant you a divorce, or there is no other way, so the next one is to sue in court.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If your husband doesn't want to divorce and you must divorce, then you can sue, and you can be sentenced to divorce by suing in court.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you have a bad relationship with your husband, there is no point in maintaining this situation all the time, so it is better to break it off as soon as possible.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    This thing is that if the emotional foundation is not good, it is better to divorce early, after all, you have to live together for a lifetime, and that kind of marriage without feelings will only affect your happiness, so you still choose to give up without dragging.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you have an emotional foundation.

    There is no reason why a divorce is necessary.

    Then you have to communicate more with your husband.

    Let's see if he can make a difference.

    Let you get back to the way you used to feel.

    Not really. I can't go on anymore.

    If you want to get a divorce.

    You can find a lawyer to go to the lawsuit.

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