Why does my boyfriend never say let me go to bed early?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-25
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It means that he may not realize that going to bed early is good for his health, he himself does not have the habit of going to bed early, or you go to bed very late, so he will not remind you, I don't know if you told your boyfriend to rest early.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because your boyfriend is reluctant to fall in love with you, and the two of you don't feel tired together, he is very attached to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe he doesn't have a good habit of going to bed early, so he won't consciously remind you to go to bed early.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It may be said in vain, so I won't say it, and I may be accustomed to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe your boyfriend really doesn't have you in his heart, just playing with you, don't guess too much, everyone has different abilities to see people, you should grasp it yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do you live with your boyfriend or?

    Everyone's thinking is different.

    He may think that going to bed early and going to bed late is your own business.

    If you want to go to bed late, then it's useless for him to say it.

    So it's up to you to decide.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Male compatriots go to bed late, and they don't care if you go to bed early or not, he must also think it's normal, if you feel bad, you can communicate with him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe he's a night owl too, or doesn't want you to be stressed.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe he doesn't have the habit of going to bed early!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because you've been working night shifts.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Fool, he's caring about your body. I have to work tomorrow! Don't think so much, wash and sleep.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think it's possible that your boyfriend Ben Xun has a good habit of working and resting, going to bed early and getting up early is in good health, and wants to tell you to go to bed early, but I don't want you to stay up late, isn't there a saying: The person who likes you is too late to urge you to go to bed quickly, but the person who wants to flirt with you will chat with you no matter how late it is. It's also possible that your boyfriend has other things to do, and you want to go to bed early because you want to end the chat with you quickly, and then pretend that he is also asleep, but in fact he is doing what he has to do.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My boyfriend is always sleeping and ignoring me, sleeping earlier than me, waking up later than me, doesn't he love me anymore.

    You are so chaotic, you can't just judge, your boyfriend doesn't love you if he has such a behavior. It may be that he has a physical problem and needs to get enough sleep, and he needs to go to bed much earlier than others. It may also be that he has other arrangements, so he needs to sleep well and sleep more; It may also be that he feels tired of communicating with you, so he wants to sleep temporarily to avoid communication; It may also be because you don't love anymore, you're tired, you want to run away or you want to get angry.

    No matter what the situation is, find a suitable opportunity to have a good talk with the other person, understand the other person's desire to fight, and then carefully analyze what you need to do, whether to change yourself to cater to the other person, or try to persuade the other person to change his behavior to cherish the relationship with you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. My dear, he may indeed be a little reluctant to talk in this situation, maybe he is too tired during the day and wants to take a break.

    Without talking to my boyfriend, he said go to bed early, whether he didn't want to talk to me.

    My dear, he may indeed be a little reluctant to talk in this situation, maybe he is too tired during the day and wants to take a break.

    Every time.

    It may also be that the relationship between you is a little indifferent, and he doesn't want to listen to or care about what you say.

    If my dear says this, my boyfriend doesn't like to listen to you very much during this time. Have you always been like this, or have you been like this recently?

    Broke up. Three more days together.

    Two days ago, he took the initiative to chat with me, and we chatted for a few words, that is, why don't you sleep, you should go to bed early.

    My dear, it turned out to be a reunion after a breakup. Maybe he is still in the sadness and dissatisfaction of breaking up, and he has not fully reunited to the way he was before.

    Well. Honey, you can give him some time to slowly return to his old self. In fact, when lovers are together, don't easily propose to break up, because breaking up is also very hurtful, and every time you break up, the relationship will break down, and it will also leave a scar in his heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Going to bed early may be a person's habit, and it has nothing to do with whether he likes you or not, he is not chatting with others behind your back, and he will not feel irritable to chat with you, it may also be that you go to bed too late, you are a night owl, but he is not, he doesn't like to stay up late at night, so he often sleeps earlier than you, and sometimes he will fall asleep quickly when he is tired, maybe he is tired.

    Take me as an example, I am also a night owl, and my first love has the habit of going to bed early, chatting with me until late when he is with me, all to accompany me, otherwise he would have slept a long time ago, and then I saw that he fell asleep when he talked to me, so I didn't let him sleep late with me. Sometimes we can't be too demanding of our boyfriend, and we can't ask of him even more when we sleep.

    If you think about it, if he chats with you until late, then you can't sleep even more, and then the time will be pushed back a little, and you go to bed later and shorter, which is not good for the health of both people, but he does not sleep with you late, but reminds you to go to sleep every time you sleep.

    After a long time, you will naturally be affected, and become as fond of going to bed as early as him, isn't it very good, two people sleep at the same time, sleep enough, and it is good for your body, you will not feel that he doesn't like you anymore, but feel that he cares about you and is willing to go to bed early with you, get rid of your bad habits, and make you healthier.

    Some people are tired from work, and they go to bed very early, whether they are students or office workers, they are all stressed, my first love is because I participated in a lot of club activities at school, so there are a lot of things to do every day, and I often participate in volunteer activities in the school, which require physical strength and spirit, and sleep is very important for him.

    But if you find out that he deliberately said good night to you, but ran over to chat with other girls, then he must have found a spare tire, or you are a spare tire, such a boyfriend must not be sincere to you, break up early, get rid of it early, don't think about it, I think he can be directly sure that he just doesn't like you.

    So as long as your boyfriend is not chatting with other girls behind your back, or going out to play games or something, then he may be his habit to go to bed early, you should also respect him, you can't ask him to go to bed late, you should accompany him to bed early, so it's good for both of you, if your boyfriend is busy with work, you don't think too much, let him rest more, give him a little space.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Even though my boyfriend always goes to bed later than I do, he still has to work even at home. Every chat is usually the last message sent by him, so it is usually good night to say many times, and the last message must be sent by him, maybe this is his habit. Because the boy is really tired, as a girlfriend, you must be considerate of him, not blindly think about it, they have to go to work, they have to work overtime, and the brain is very tired every day, so you are his girlfriend, and you can't be inconsiderate of him, because the one in my family often writes copywriting at home until more than two o'clock, although he is still young, but it is false to say that he is not distressed, too desperate....

    If he said good night to you earlier, he didn't really go to rest or work, but to play games or drink with fox friends, and sleeping was just an excuse, then he really didn't like you very much, because he felt that you were more important than his friends or games, then you had to choose, because a man who would cheat on you would not be a good man, if he was really sleepy and sleeping, then it was okay, If deception is involved, the problem is serious.

    So you still have to figure out whether he really slept or used sleeping as an excuse to make you make a choice, right? The person who truly loves you is the one who won't let yourself like it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think he doesn't like you enough. Now when the boyfriend and girlfriend are not together, at most rely on a communication tool mobile phone to contact, every day before going to bed to say good night in the morning to say good morning is also a very simple and happy thing, and now we also think that the person who can accompany you to chat all night is really like you is really love you, although this sentence is too absolute, but I think it is also very reasonable.

    During the day, we may be busy with our studies and work, and we don't have time to chat, but no matter how busy we are at night, we will definitely have time to talk to you, and sometimes we can only have a good chat at night.

    But in this case, you still need to discern whether your boyfriend is a person with a very regular schedule, and has been sleeping early since you met him, or has he recently gone to bed earlier than you, if according to your understanding, he has always been like this, then you don't have to think about it, but if he has only been like this recently, especially after being with you, it means that he doesn't care enough about you and doesn't like you enough.

    My boyfriend because he is also doing this program.,It's busy during the day.,Only talk for a while at night.,There are many times when I'm talking and talking and disappearing.,I thought people didn't talk about it, and it took a long time to send a picture and say that it took a long time to find it.。 This is the difference between liking and disliking you, people who like you spend a long time looking for a picture to tease you and talk to you, and those who don't like you enough will find reasons to perfunctory you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think it's enough to see if he likes you or not, you also have to look at how he treats you in other ways, so that the overall conclusion is more accurate.

    I'll give you some examples, you think about it. Take my boyfriend, for example.

    1.When it was time for me to go to bed at night, he didn't call me to say "good night";

    2.The number of times you call me ** a day is still very small;

    4.Never buy me gifts;

    5.Seldom go shopping with me.

    You see, I said so many questions in one breath, did I feel that he didn't love me enough? Actually, no, he loved me very much. We can't look at things too simply, we have to think in many ways.

    So, your question is the same. Your boyfriend may have slept earlier than you because he dozed off at a fixed time every time, or he may have gone to bed early and didn't take care of you because he was too busy and tired from work during the day.

    I think if a man loves you, he will definitely spend a lot of time on you and will spend a lot of money on you. In other ways, it is not difficult to see how much he loves you. So, don't worry about him going to bed earlier than you. Here, bless you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can talk to your boyfriend about this, remember not to talk about it in an arguing manner, and try to use a girl's talent to solve the problem while being coquettish.

    Maybe your boyfriend is really tired from work or study during the day? Boys aren't that complicated. I used to have trouble sleeping at night and always wanted to talk to my boyfriend, but I found that several times he said he was sleepy and told me not to call him.

    At first, I didn't understand, and even wondered several times if he didn't love me. But after having an in-depth chat with him, I found that he was just tired from school during the day, and he was afraid that the bad mood of disturbance would be passed on to me, so he didn't chat with me.

    Originally, when two people get along, they have to accommodate each other, but nothing can be judged by a complete equal sign. Everyone's habits and life routines are different, and you can't force your boyfriend to have exactly the same life and rest as yours, which is a very important point in the relationship between the sexes.

    But you can also communicate with him well, let him spend more time with you during the day, watch more movies, go shopping, tell him that you need his company, and of course try to understand him if he is busy with studies or work. After all, I believe that all the efforts he has made are a better future for both of you.

    If he goes to bed early, you can also do other things by yourself, except for having your boyfriend accompany you, there are many choices, no homework to write, no work to do, no books to read, no friends to chat with, no parents to care for, no games to play, no housework to do, no new things to learn, no problems to think about, no ability to improve ......

    I'm sure you'll find plenty of exciting things to do, so that even if your boyfriend goes to bed early, you won't feel lonely.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Communicate with your boyfriend first to see what is the reason for going to bed early, if you have to get up early to work the next day, you should also be considerate of your boyfriend, but if you just go to bed early, it depends on whether you really like you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The boyfriend goes to bed early, which proves that he is very tired from running around, I suggest you be more considerate of him, it is not easy for boys to live outside.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This may be his daily routine, you can communicate with him well, let him spend more time with you during the day, watch more movies with you, go shopping, and tell him that you need his company.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You should discuss with him and adjust his schedule so that you don't quarrel over this and can live comfortably.

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