The happiness you want, what kind of happiness do you want?

Hehe... I'm the same age as you! Nothing, huh?

There's no law that doesn't allow men to say their own psychological words.,Hehe... That's right! Troubles, everyone has a pull!

As long as you are human, you have to worry! As long as people still have desires, they will be troubled! I don't know why you're bothered!

It may be a career thing, it may be an emotional thing, it may be an ideal thing, it may be a material thing... Wait a minute! Let's pull for whatever reason, if you want to bother yourself, I've got a lot of them here:

I don't have him rich, I'm not as handsome as him, I don't have him to attract girls' likes to pull, I'm not as smart as him, I'm not as strong as him, I don't have him to have a successful career, I don't have him to be lucky, what he wants, you can get it in one fell swoop, and so on...

It's really a lot, right? You're in trouble! Don't think that only you will be troubled, then, you are really wrong, and don't think that only you will have the idea of dying!

Presumably, people of your age and I will have experienced it! So, what's it called, I think it means: puberty, right?

Hehe... That's all for life! As long as you always have to think about what I deserve, why didn't I get it?

Then, you won't have any happiness at all.

I think happiness is not the same as happiness! Happiness is: if we laugh because someone else told a joke, then we are happy!

But happiness is not the same! If we think of it this way: If we can live and see the world change, then we will not be happy?

What if we hadn't been born! After all, there are many unhappy people in this world, and there are many people who have not realized their ideals, and by the way, I have also failed to achieve my ideals, and I have also been troubled and pained by this! But I'm much more sober now!

I don't have much happiness, but I still feel that I am a happy pull, I have come to this world, I have the opportunity to pay!

In fact, as long as people can let go of their minds and feel the world, they are not as unhappy as we think, and we should not deliberately pursue anything, that is, we should do things according to our own abilities, and do what we can first. What we can't do, just let it go, do everything we can do well, and some of it will slowly become better!

My opinion, I don't know if it helps you! I hope you are happy and have a good year!

Don't feel sorry for yourself here.

Who can blame it? Don't have a friend?

Does that mean you're a failure?

Don't have a lover? Is it someone else's fault?

Does no one love you?

Is it yourself who is bad? That's why no one wants to approach you.

Think about the problem.

What do you want? Want someone to love you? Or do you want to gain sympathy from others?

Be strong, don't think about things with sick thoughts.

You are no worse than others.

Cherish yourself, you don't cherish yourself, who will cherish you?

Make your own decisions about your own life.

Seeing what you wrote is like seeing your own shadow, what we have to do is to continue to work hard, although it is very hard, but I believe that everything will be fine, go and try to contact people, find a beloved. It's hard, but we still have to be strong. And remember not to be like your elders to your beloved, we don't want to see that kind of life anymore.

No way, sometimes our fate is destined for something, but we still have to hold on, hehe. Laugh at life

Leave the future to your heart.

Don't overthink it.

Follow your heart.

Not all you don't have.

It's time to have it yourself.

You chose to forget and.

Abandon. I've always believed that the future is already planned.

Everything was predestined for a long time.

If you want it, you don't have it.

Then choose to forget.

Actually, can you really forget.

Again, that's the same sentence.

Don't overthink it.

Follow your heart.

Don't give yourself to any emotion or person.

Life is on your own, no one can help you, I say these words, it's not high-sounding, I've been through your emotions. I know what it feels like, like falling into an abyss, not being able to climb out, seeing all the darkness.

Where is the happiness? Where is the light, I even thought that the sun was the greatest, and it selflessly released its light, so that no matter the disabled, the sick, the flowers, the thieves, they could enjoy its warmth.

In fact, the light is in your own hands, you spread out your palms, look at the fingerprints, so confused and complicated, that's your fate, so bad, you can shake your hand, but he is in your hands.

Take good control of yourself and get rid of this emotion. Best wishes.

Somewhat similar. I came out of school the year before last and felt the same as you by May last year.

At home let spend 1 year.

You're a man, too.

It's only a few years old, so I'm going to die tomorrow! It's better to die than to be so sad.

To live is not to live for the sake of living.

Wishes are just wishes. As long as you keep moving towards your goal, whether you succeed or not, there will always be rewards.

What's more miserable than you.

At least you'll have enough to eat, and you'll be happy.

Now there are countless people like you, and there are not a few of them.

Just don't go to extremes.

This is how CN forces people to oppose and force good people to become prostitutes.

In fact, happiness is very simple, happiness has never been far away from us, but we have always been disturbed by this bustling world. Happiness in its simplest form is: hope, love, and work.

1. There is hope.

We often hear people say: what is the difference between no dream and salted fish. In fact, this is indeed the case, people must have ideals and hopes in life.

Because ideals and hopes are one of the necessary conditions for us to achieve happiness. A person who has no hope and no vision for life can easily lose his life goals, become blindly conformist, follow the crowd, and even become a walking dead.

2. Someone loves you.

The most haunting and empowering thing in the world is always love, love from relatives, love from lovers, and love from friends, which support us to go on in the vast life. It is a very important thing for someone to love you, if a person leaves love, his personality may become extreme, his life may become confused, and his life will become miserable.

3. There is something to do.

A happy life is bound to be a worthwhile life. Because if a person can't create value for society, if he can't realize his own value, he can't identify with his own life, and he will live a depressed life. There is no happiness at all.

If people want to be happy, they must create their own value, and if they want to create their own life value, they must have something to do, which is manifested in real life, that is, they must have their own career.

Everyone's definition of happiness is different, plain is also a kind of happiness, the more you grow up, the understanding of happiness will change, when we are young, we are very simple, if there is a beloved toy or stationery, we will be happy for a long time, feel very happy, so what do you want happiness?

In fact, happiness is very simple, it is all around us. But many people often don't feel happy in life, either because of frustration, or because of unsatisfactory results. In fact, as long as we have a good mental state, we can have happiness.

How do you want to be happy?

1. Spend more time with friends.

Friends can make life colorful, ignite the enthusiasm for life, generally speaking, lonely and lonely people, must be unhappy, happy people generally have relatives and friends around them. After everyone enters the society, the pressure will gradually increase, and at this time, friends are needed to solve problems. Harmonious interpersonal relationships are a necessary prerequisite for happiness, and if you want to have a harmonious interpersonal relationship, you need to take time to manage it.

When you encounter setbacks or difficulties, the help of friends is indispensable, and then you will receive a different touch.

2. Learn to accept failure.

As we all know, failure is the mother of success, in fact, failure is not a shameful thing, but an indispensable experience in our lives, and it can also pave the way for us in the future. Success makes people happy, but if you don't have a good attitude when you fail, you will make yourself unhappy. Therefore, when we face failure, we can laugh it off, and correctly understand and treat failure from a psychologically correct perspective.

When facing failure, you can accumulate experience from failure, and then achieve success, so that the sense of happiness in your heart becomes a little stronger.

3. Accept your own shortcomings.

As the saying goes, no one is perfect. Everyone has their own flaws and strengths, and everyone is imperfect. But when dealing with our imperfections, we must also accept them calmly and try to tolerate ourselves.

There are things you can do to improve your imperfections. Accepting your own shortcomings can give you sufficient motivation for development, and let your inferiority complex be resolved, and your negative emotions will become less and less, and your sense of happiness will be more and more. When you are dissatisfied with yourself, you can also seriously reflect on yourself, allow yourself to be occasionally lost and sad, but don't fall into low self-esteem for a long time.

4. Make life simpler.

Many people's lives are mixed with various elements, and if the relationship between various elements is not handled well, it will make the mood very low and irritable. In fact, our life can become simple and ordinary, and everything must have a degree, and once it is exceeded, even good things will not necessarily be beneficial. If your life is too complicated and too tired, you can take a vacation for yourself at this time to make your mood happy, so that happiness will follow.

If you don't always feel happy, you can try the above methods to make your life more enjoyable, because happiness is very simple, as long as you adjust your mentality, you can be happy every day.

Everyone's definition of happiness is different, plain is also a kind of happiness, the more you grow up, the understanding of happiness will change, when we are young, we are very simple, if there is a beloved toy or stationery, we will be happy for a long time, feel very happy, so what do you want happiness?

What I want to be happy is to have a happy and beautiful family, a caring husband, healthy and studious children, parents who can still accompany me, a job with a stable income, and a house where I can live in.

Happiness is to love yourself, your own reason to love, to care for others, and to let others love you, this is happiness... Savor your own life. SPREAD LOVE WHERE IT IS NEEDED AND YOU WILL BE HAPPY ...

Everyone's definition of happiness is different, plain is also a kind of happiness, the more you grow up, the understanding of happiness will change, when we are young, we are very simple, if there is a beloved toy or stationery, we will be happy for a long time, feel very happy, so what do you want happiness?

The happiness I want is to have a partner who truly loves me, and I love him at the same time, and then we work hard together for life.

I just ended my eight-year relationship, and I was still dumped, but I still think I'm still quite happy, so I guess it's still my mentality, change my perspective, and naturally survive. ‍‍

I was very happy when I was a student, and that kind of happiness was indeed relatively simple, not that I was not happy when I entered the society, but that kind of happiness was caused by a combination of factors. ‍‍

Don't worry about life, I can do what I want to do every day, I have a woman who loves me, and a happy family, this is the greatest happiness.

I think fools are probably the happiest. The happiest time is when you are most ignorant, and the more you grow up, the more sad and lonely you feel. A lifetime of happiness, I can only hope that the person I like will be happy for a lifetime. ‍‍

I think I just want to end the long-distance relationship, have a home with him in my city, and buy a small house.

If life weren't so realistic, I would want to be with my boyfriend all the time, whether in life or in life. ‍‍

One of the happiest things in the world is that after a lot of hard work, everything is slowly turning into what you want it to be. ‍‍

All family members are healthy and happy. The elderly live a long life. Money is enough to spend. I don't have to go to work, I don't have to socialize and drink. ‍‍

Just as "green ants new brew wine, red clay small stove, late day snow desire, can drink a glass of nothing." ”‍

If I become beautiful, I feel that I am ugly and not good-looking, and if I want to become not ugly, others will look at me more. ‍‍

The happiness I want is for Superman to fight monsters, and I think it's very simple.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**. If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful; Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this sense of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said: The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, I only think they are noisy. Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself is understood in the current society, and it will be explained as follows: 1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if they want to care, they may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.