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Man is born free. Therefore, loving others, being loved, not loving, and not being loved are all independent choices. Marriage is an agreement entered into on an equal and voluntary basis between men and women, which is binding but not compulsory.
When we were young, we all thought that marriage was the grave of love, the ultimate goal, the last chance, but it was not.
Then one may ask: what is the ultimate goal? Theoretically, death. Hehe, just kidding, in layman's terms, get along.
It's hard to get along, it's easy to fall in love. Getting along is the ultimate meaning. In fact, the so-called marriage partner you approve of should not be the person you love or love you superficially, but the object that you can get along well with and support each other for at least the next 20 years, possibly more than 60 years.
Between the lines, you have revealed the idea of abandoning your ex-girlfriend, and together, the thoughts will be like a flood bursting the embankment, unstoppable. In fact, from my personal judgment of you, you are not trying to choose one of the two, but you are asking for the fastest way to pursue the latter. When you pursue the latter, it is inevitable, and it seems natural, to abandon the former.
In the same way, if the pursuit fails, you still want to have the idea of the former guarantee, after all, people are also very good to you.
It can only be said that you are a person with a fairly mature investment philosophy, not a mature emotional operator. I can only suggest that you should deal with or deal with a girl at the same time, otherwise it will be easy to draw water with a bamboo basket, hehe.
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Alas, the world is crazy.
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Originally, for 100 points, I wanted to make up some good words. But I really can't tell.
I want to say that people like you who see things differently will only end up with a bamboo basket and a wasted water.
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I see you let go and chase after what you love.
Even if you can barely be with the people who love you.
But you won't understand true happiness.
You have to do something that touches the person you love, and she will accept you.
Then love her with all your life.
There is no greater love than this.
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Don't know if you want to play or love? Seriously, if you want to play, hehe, then it's all casual, just playing. If you really want to find a love, please cherish your current girlfriend, but from your words, you can feel that you just want to have fun now, even if you catch up with that girl, maybe after getting along for a while, your feelings for her and your current girlfriend will be the same, you don't know how to fall in love.
For you now, you just want to find a girlfriend who can take a shot, right? Huh .Just to show off one in front of the friends around you.
If you know how to fall in love, please cherish what you have, and don't look at one mountain to another. Do it yourself. Good luck.
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I still choose to love you. It's true, when you get married, you choose someone who loves you, I choose the person I love, and in the end we break up. She doesn't love you, and there's no need to give up someone who loves you for someone who doesn't love you.
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People like you are not fit to get married.
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You go after it, and if you can't catch it, go back to your girlfriend! Anyway, she loves you and doesn't give you a sense of security, and you are angry with her.
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The girl is a real man, she must be familiar with the art of war and know the reason for retreating in the art of war. You have a good idea, you can give it a try. Good luck.
Take courage and happiness will come your way.
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That's right, if the person you love doesn't love you, it's better to accept the person who loves you, in fact, you are very wise, boldly confess, even if you fail, there are people who love you by your side to protect you, sometimes choosing to be loved is far happier than love, of course, I really like you to confess success.
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