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Use more snacks to understand this person, like some of the things she likes, sales girls are generally more extroverted, but it does not mean that the heart is also extroverted, when you go home alone, you can feel very lonely, very lonely, so after understanding her, you can go to her heart, you can succeed, otherwise it is not accurate to look at the outside, some people seem to talk and laugh with you, but the heart may be very annoying to you, just to cope, so take more time to understand her, into her heart, so as to capture the heart, as for the book, read more books she likes, Hehe, that's part of what you need to know.
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100 humor skills, one on the ship.
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The background received a lot of feedback from brothers who would not chat with girls, and most of the questions were "I don't know what to talk about" and "how to reply to the next sentence". Today, I will make a detailed analysis of these: When I was chasing girls before, every time I chatted with girls, I was forced to have an embarrassing conversation, and as a result, I fell deeper and deeper into straight male cancer.
Later, since one day I suddenly saw a job called "Zhang Lewen", and then I learned some skills of falling in love and chasing girls, but I didn't expect it to be very helpful for a relationship, everyone who wants to learn can go to Weixin to search.
1. Is it that the girl is not interested in your person, or is there a problem with your chat?
Many brothers who have not been in contact with or are new to love science basically have no social intuition, and they can't judge how interested the girls you chat with are. Even if a girl has an interest indicator released to you, you can't identify it.
If a girl has been ignoring you from beginning to end, and you can't change the problem after many attempts, it means that the girl is not interested in you. If the girl doesn't reply to you because of your person, it doesn't matter much about your chat, and it's time for you to improve your attractiveness.
There is also a situation where the girl is not uninterested in your person, but there is a problem with your chat operation, and the boring chat makes the girl's interest in you continue to decline. Brother, it's time for you to put some effort into chatting and learn how to chat.
2. Don't dare to chat with girls, or can't think of what to talk about?
If you are afraid of losing a girl and dare not chat with a girl, it means that you have a psychological problem, extreme low self-esteem, gains and losses, and a manifestation of extreme lack of female resources. This problem can be alleviated to a certain extent by expanding your girl resources.
If you can't think of any topic to talk about, it means that you don't know much about girls' lives, which means that you have been out of the crowd for too long, and you don't know what shows, movies, and jokes are popular at the moment. Because your life is too monotonous, and you don't know what girls like to talk about nowadays.
3. Do you not know how to ask questions, or do you not know how to ask?
The simplest chat model is "Q&A feedback", a model where you ask me and I answer. Of course you can't do it mechanically. If you only know how to ask girls questions, girls have your questions, but you can't give a feedback to girls to extend the topic.
For example, girls say that they like food, but you can't expand and extend the topic through food. After these rounds of chatting, the girl will feel very embarrassed, and when she gets impatient, the chat will end. It's because you didn't do the most basic Q&A feedback.
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Women are more emotional, so don't be too rational when chatting, and sometimes go along with it. Find out what the other person is interested in. Let's talk.
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Studying psychology, falling in love is very effective, I used him to be a royal maid countless times, although I talked about it less, but it was the essence.
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When you're in control of her heart, you're in the palm of your hand.
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Read more books, read some interpersonal books, be confident, the biggest reason why you don't dare to talk to girls is not confident enough.