As long as you are not embarrassed, it is someone else who is embarrassed? 30

This topic brought me back to the memories of many years ago, I depicted an extremely embarrassing scene in my mind, before depicting this scene, I would like to introduce the background at that time, I am a migrant worker, I am very tired from work every day, and I use most of my energy to work, so I have no time to accompany my children, I have always been indebted to the children's education, and I am deeply aware of this, I decided to use the limited time to make up for my educational mistakes, and also to interact with the children, I took the initiative to ask Ying, and when the child had a parent-teacher conference again, I went in person, and my wife was very happy to hear it, and her hands and feet agreed.

I remember that day there was a parent-teacher conference, I made sufficient preparations at home and even wrote a speech by myself just in case, and after memorizing the content of the speech fluently, I went to the child's parent-teacher conference with confidence, the purpose was to win glory for the child, so that everyone thought that the child had a decent father who would look up to him, and then I could go home and ask my son for credit, but the ideal is always plump, the reality is always skinny, I think this thing is too simple, and I think about myself too beautifully, The plot in reality didn't follow the script I designed.

The parent-teacher meeting began, I didn't expect the parent-teacher meeting to be such a boring process, first the principal spoke, after the principal finished speaking, the teacher arranged the learning content of the next semester, etc., after listening for a while, I was sleepy because of the night shift, so I don't know when I had fallen asleep with my chin on my hand, and then I was awakened by my own snoring, when I woke up, I found that all the eyes around me were looking at me, everyone was surprised, and the teacher also looked at me, The teacher named and said that if you don't want to have a parent-teacher conference, you can go home and sleep, this is not a place to sleep, isn't it embarrassing enough to snore in front of everyone?

It was self-defeating, and then the child came home and complained to me, and the teacher told him that if there is a son, there must be a father, and they are all sleepy insects.

It feels like this, I feel that there is nothing, no matter the attitude, then the others who say this will feel that it is too much, very embarrassing.

I don't mind anymore, so I don't care about other people's eyes.

You are not embarrassed, it is others who are embarrassed, yes, just be yourself, and you don't have to care about the eyes of others. Don't live in someone else's mouth, live yourself.

As long as you are not embarrassed, the embarrassing thing is that what others say is right, you don't care, then even if others want to harm you, they will not succeed.

The meaning of this sentence is that as long as you balance your mentality in everything and don't have to worry too much about other people's eyes to discuss and evaluate, then you will not have a feeling of embarrassment, and the embarrassment can only be those who feel embarrassed by you.

As long as you are not embarrassed yourself, you feel embarrassed things, you feel that what you have given way to is indeed embarrassing, it is indeed someone else.

The meaning of this sentence is that as long as you have strong beliefs, there will be no embarrassing situations. I don't take it seriously, so I won't feel embarrassed, the embarrassed thing is just that others are different, as long as I don't regret it, then it proves that I am firm in dealing with it and the result, and even willing to bear the result, then the regret must be someone else. The whole sentence emphasizes a strong conviction.

The importance of a strong will:A strong will is the surest guarantee for overcoming setbacks. Cultivating a strong will helps people overcome difficulties, endure setbacks and adapt to the environment, which is of great significance to people's learning, life and future life development.

A strong will is very important for success, in the process of success will encounter many difficulties and setbacks, if there is no strong will will will be easy to give up, only with a strong will, never give up, in order to overcome many difficulties, to success.

Summary. Kiss, as long as you are not embarrassed and embarrassed, it is someone else This sentence means that when an embarrassing moment occurs, as long as you are thick-skinned and don't care, then the embarrassment is someone else. It is often found in ** hot comments, and some people use this stalk to write jokes or ridicule celebrities.

To be honest, embarrassing this kind of thing, it's basically like this, as long as you don't dare to pick it up, or think it's not an embarrassing thing, then he's not embarrassed, and others will feel that she is very embarrassed, embarrassed, very embarrassing, just like for example, if a person is not dressed, a large group of people surround him, but she walks freely, with a smile on her face, and if you talk to you, others look at him is very embarrassed, if she says him, she feels embarrassed, But if you talk to someone, you and the person you're talking to will feel more awkward.

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Kiss, as long as you are not embarrassed and embarrassed, it is someone else This sentence means that when an embarrassing moment occurs, as long as you are thick-skinned and don't care, then the embarrassment is someone else. It is often found in ** hot comments, and some people use this stalk to write jokes or ridicule celebrities. To be honest, embarrassing this kind of thing, it's basically like this, as long as you don't dare to pick it up, or think it's not an embarrassing thing, then he's not embarrassed, and others will feel that she is very embarrassed, embarrassed, very embarrassing, just like for example, if a person is not dressed, a large group of people surround him, but she walks freely, with a smile on her face, and if you talk to you, others look at him is very embarrassed, if she says him, she feels embarrassed, But if you talk to someone, you and the person you're talking to will feel more awkward.

Forget to see such a sentence in **: As long as you are not embarrassed, it is others who are embarrassed.

To explain the meaning of this sentence in the vernacular, it is estimated that as long as you are thick-skinned enough, no matter what happens to you, no matter what happens to you, as long as you are not embarrassed, as long as you don't feel embarrassed, the embarrassed person will not be you.

For example, in a large shopping mall, there is a woman who wears a pair of light-colored pants with super transparent pants and a pair of super brightly colored pants.

At this time, many people may feel a little embarrassed, after all, Chinese people still think that it is better not to let others see the clothes and pants they wear.

But this lady never felt that there was anything wrong, and when she saw someone staring at her in a daze, the lady greeted with a smile and said, "Hey, do we know each other?" ”

So, the staring man was embarrassed, smiled, and turned away.

This is a good indication that Wu is cautious, as long as your heart is strong enough and you can face anything calmly no matter what you encounter, it will definitely be a good way to resolve some things that ordinary people feel embarrassed or embarrassed about.

In real life, there is no way for ordinary people to do everything. If we are not careful, we will put ourselves in a particularly awkward atmosphere and environment, and the vast majority of young people will be able to resolve the embarrassment smoothly and make their embarrassment seem natural. But when you are embarrassed, and someone happens to be staring at you, you will have a state of shame, and at this time, it is difficult for us to perfectly resolve the embarrassment into a natural thing.

So how do we ease the awkward atmosphere in our lives? And how to make your behavior no longer look so embarrassing, today I will introduce you to three ways to alleviate embarrassment.

The first way: be confident.

Most people who are embarrassed will have an extremely low self-esteem, even if everyone has embarrassment, we must be confident in the process of embarrassment. With a youthful smile on our faces, then we can perfectly resolve the embarrassment. Although we all know that the perfect way to deal with embarrassment is to be confident, some people are born with low self-esteem and have no way to relieve embarrassment in embarrassing situations.

I advise these people to try to develop a confident mindset!

The second way: try not to embarrass yourself.

I think the awkward atmosphere is created by yourself, and when you don't think it's embarrassing, you don't have embarrassing thoughts. For example, when you are chatting with others, you suddenly enter an inexplicable awkward atmosphere, when you are immersed in your own game, the only person who is embarrassed is the other person, and you yourself do not feel embarrassed at all. This method works well in less awkward situations, and if you make the situation very confusing, then this method is not quite for you.

The third way: the two are embarrassed together.

Since it is difficult for a person to fall into an awkward atmosphere, then you find someone who accompanies you into an awkward atmosphere. When two people are embarrassed together, you will have less embarrassment in your heart, and you can also use the embarrassment of the other person to alleviate and set off your own embarrassment.

As long as you don't show embarrassment, deal with it calmly, and there are no ups and downs in your appearance, you are not embarrassed. As long as you can show such an appearance, others will not feel embarrassed.

My way to avoid embarrassment is to pretend that I don't know anything and then wait for things to pass, such as when I accidentally fart, so that people don't suspect me.

Don't panic when you encounter things, and face them indifferently and elegantly. Because something happened and you can't change it, then you won't feel embarrassed if you deal with it calmly.

When you're embarrassed, don't look around, focus on something that has nothing to do with me, or quickly change the subject, and then put on headphones or play with your phone, pretending it's none of my business, and others won't focus on you.

Ignore the embarrassment and pretend that nothing happened, so that not only the embarrassed person will not be me, but even the person who feels embarrassed will not feel embarrassed.

The last one, as long as you are not embarrassed, the embarrassment is someone else, right.

In the next sentence, unless others are not angry, they are not good for themselves.

Couplet requirements.

The couplet text varies in length, and the short one is only.

One or two words; It can be up to a few hundred words long. There are various forms of couplets, including positive pairs, opposing pairs, flowing water pairs, joint ball pairs, and sentence pairs. But no matter what kind of couplet is used, and what form is used, it must have the following characteristics:

1.The number of words should be equal and the sentences should be consistent. Except for deliberately vacating the space of a certain word to achieve a certain effect, the number of words in the upper and lower conjunctions must be the same, no more, no less.

2.It should be in harmony with each other and harmonious in tone. The traditional habit is to "rise and fall", that is, the last word of the last sentence of the upper couplet is used in the sound of the voice, and the last word of the last sentence of the lower couplet is used in the flat sound.

3.The parts of speech should be relative and the position should be the same. It is generally called virtual to imaginary, real to real , that is, noun to noun, verb to verb, adjective to adjective, quantifier to quantifier, adverb to adverb, and the relative words must be in the same position.

4.The content should be relevant and cohesive. The meanings of the upper and lower links must be connected to each other, but they must not be repeated.

First, the words are equivalent.

A couplet, consisting of two parts: the upper and lower couplets. The number of upper and lower sentences is equal, and the number of words in the corresponding sentence is also equal.

Second, the part of speech pair.

Words in the same position in the syntactic structure of the upper and lower couplets have the same class of speech attributes, or conform to the traditional type of confrontation.

3. Structural correspondence.

The composition of the upper and lower words, the coordination of word meanings, the arrangement of word order, the use of imaginary words, and the use of rhetoric conform to laws or habits, and correspond to each other.

Fourth, rhythmic beats.

The rhythm of the flow of speech in the upper and lower sentences is the same. The determination of rhythm can be based on the rhythm of the sound rhythm "two words and sections", the rhythm point is in the even number of words used in the sentence, and the appearance of a single word accounts for one section; It can also be according to the semantic rhythm, that is, there are similarities and differences with the rhythm of the voice, and there are three words or longer words that should not be split, and the rhythm point is in the last word.

Fifth, the opposition between the two sides.

In the sentence, the words are arranged in rhythm alternately, and the words in the upper and lower couplets are reversed in the corresponding rhythm points. Unilateral two sentences or more than multiple sentence couplets, each sentence foot is connected in order, and the flat specification generally requires the formation of a sound step replacement, which is traditionally called "flat top flat, flat top flat". If Article 10 of these General Principles is violated to avoid taboos, or if it affects the harmony in the sentence, it will be lenient.

The upper link is closed in the voice, and the lower link is closed in the flat voice.

Sixth, the shape of the couplet.

The form is opposed, and the meaning is related. The content expressed in the upper and lower links is unified in the theme.

As long as you are not embarrassed, then the embarrassment is that others can reply to him at this time. Sometimes so, but I do feel embarrassed. This kind of is not easy to do.

As long as you are not embarrassed, it is someone else who is embarrassed? As long as you are entangled in yourself, you will not be troubled. Or you can follow your own ideas, there is no need to rhyme, it is actually just a topic.

I think it's quite right, hahaha, what's embarrassing, there's nothing that can't be passed, just open it yourself.

As long as you are not embarrassed, it is others who are embarrassed, and we don't know others anyway if others don't know us.