Troubled I don t know what to do, what to do when I am troubled?

You can see that you have that kind of affection for him. Because you've spent the whole time talking about how he's been nice to you, and how guilty you feel about what you've done. In fact, you care about him very much, but you just have a psychological barrier that you can't get over.

That's your age gap. You don't let him make your relationship public, because you are afraid that the people around you will have opinions about you. Seriously, the age gap between you is not very big, as long as he is good to you and can bring you happiness.

He respects you and considers your feelings. And considerate people, where to find such a man? Friends, take advantage of your own happiness.

There is so much age difference, your parents, and even his parents have a hard time agreeing that it is not easy for you to get along after you are together (of course, there are individuals), he does not dare to show that your relationship is not ordinary in front of others, indicating that he is afraid that others will know about your relationship, the first may be that he is with other girls, and the second is that he may also know that you are so much different, it is difficult to be together, and he is not sure that you will get married together in the future, so he doesn't want others to know.

Love is not just a matter of the two of you, including your parents, relatives, including a lot of things, I'm afraid you don't understand it now, it's not two people who like it, you can do anything, it's not that simple, I hope you think about it more.

Isn't it because you said you shouldn't make it public? Have you forgotten?

Tell him that you love him very much, and if you want to make it public, he won't be like this, he has long wanted to make it public, but because of your permission, he will be so sad.

Although I had previously insisted on not letting him make our relationship public'', but when I see ).

Love is not a child's "play" together, and maturity is not a pretending ......Marriage is not as simple as imagined, and there are many factors ...... in itThe parents of both parties ......Previously ......Now ............ in the futureHave you thought about it? Calm down and think about it, little girl......!

If you don't love, you leave, and if you love, you have an open relationship! And then look at his attitude.

Principles are not ropes that bind themselves.

Let yourself sink your heart, your heart will be at ease, you can give birth to lotus step by step, your heart will be clear, everything will be clear, so let go of these unpleasant things, let go of your troubles, let go of your troubles, and become Bodhi, and change your mind, that is, a sunny day.

What do you do when you're upset? I think you can go out for a walk when you are worried, find a friend to chat, drink tea, relieve the depression in your heart, you can also go out to travel, the beautiful scenery, will forget your troubles, you can also find a few friends to drink and eat together, help you break down your sorrows, forget your troubles quickly, just live every day, the past is gone, don't think about it anymore.

People have different temperaments, everyone will have irritability, at this time you should take a deep breath, try to think about happy things, you can do housework and other things, and divert your attention. Usually insist on exercising, to ensure adequate rest, the combination of work and rest, exercise is the most magical medicine, as long as step by step, perseverance, will be able to enhance the physique, pleasure body and mind, irritable do not let yourself be full of troubles, leave some time to let yourself completely forget the unpleasant. Do something that interests you, such as watching movies, listening to songs, going shopping, playing games, and trying to distract yourself; Or on weekends climbing, rock climbing, swimming, playing ball, hiking.

Sweating profusely and exercising can promote the secretion of a pleasant substance in the brain.

In fact, maybe everyone has a time when they are troubled and depressed! I have always felt that our inner emotions are in waves, sometimes it is good, sometimes it is bad, maybe people have too many desires! It is often said that:

If there is no desire, there is no desire", so we must look at the gains and losses in life with a plain mentality.

It's not a blessing. There are many unsatisfactory things in life that are unpredictable, and some of them are beyond human effort.

When you are upset and depressed, learn to look at what you have and what you have in yourself, so that your mood may be better. There is also the enrichment of yourself by doing what you love. Take the seemingly dull and monotonous life seriously and listen more.

See more, do more, make more friends, and communicate more. Find good friends to chat, listen to **, watch movies, fall in love or go out to exercise to feel the freshness and tranquility of nature, and release your depressed mood. Hehe.

Life is like a relay race, and there is no smooth sailing.

But you have to have faith in yourself and everything will pass!

I hope you'll be happy.

*Giggle. *Giggle.

Let yourself sink your heart, your heart will be at ease, you can give birth to lotus step by step, your heart will be clear, everything will be clear, so let go of these unpleasant things, let go of your troubles, let go of your troubles, and become Bodhi, and change your mind, that is, a sunny day.

Principles are not ropes that bind themselves.

Find a friend, talk to someone who is better with you about your troubles, and ask them to help enlighten you, so that you can say it in your heart, and with the guidance of your friends, it can generally be solved quickly.

This, in general, is because what you think is too different from reality, you will be anxious, and there is something you think in your heart that you can't achieve, treat this kind of problem, first of all, stay optimistic and confident, so that you can achieve what you want, don't be anxious, life is very beautiful.

I used to be troubled, just find a way to let yourself forget, but this is temporary, I think, first of all, you know why you are troubled, if it is because of something trouble, then try to find a solution, this is the best way to solve the troubles, if you don't want to pay attention to it, things accumulate more and more, to one day, the heart will not be able to stand it, I hope to help you, come on!

It's that your life isn't fulfilling.

There is no purpose in life.

So it's always annoying to encounter something unhappy.

Worry about setting a goal for yourself.

I have been working hard to make it happen.

Don't give up. People who will look good have no troubles, and it is already the most difficult for people to live, this is all solved, what are the troubles. The key is the mentality, if you have a good mentality, you are the one who has no troubles.

Specific actions to adjust your mindset.

1. Be optimistic. The pursuit of desire is less.

2. Spiritual transfer. Less of a comparison mentality.

3. Do more physical exercise. Balance of mindset.

4. Get rid of psychological pressure, stabilize emotions, and be content and happy.

5. Relax, there are unpleasant things to say to avoid psychological fatigue.

6.Change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed, don't lose yourself, I wish you happiness and pleasure in life, happy every day...

Don't be a bother, then you won't be bothered. When it's a problem, then you can solve it.

If you are troubled, then he will not be able to solve the problem calmly, no matter what. Such growth talents will live and be conscious.

Just find a place to yell a few times.

3. Let yourself sink your heart, your heart will be at ease, you can give birth to lotus step by step, your heart will be clear, and everything will be clear, so let go of these unpleasant things, let go of your troubles, let go of your troubles, and become Bodhi, and change your mind, that is, a sunny day.

Go to the countryside for a trip, that is the starting point of life, but also the harbor habitat of life. Troubles are not given to you by others, but also imposed by yourself, eliminate extravagant expectations, be realistic, and troubles will disappear naturally, do you say? Think about how lucky we are to be alive at the moment, what a little worry is.

I wish you a happy second in the next second!

Take a look at the anime "Gintama", it's pretty good.

When you go out for a walk, you'll be in a good mood.

Who would be without troubles. Face your troubles, solve them, don't show your timidity, that shows that you can't handle the things you should do well, work harder, don't let life look down on you. It's not about continuing to worry, it's about solving your troubles reasonably, come on!

Principles are not ropes that bind themselves.

Let yourself sink your heart, your heart will be at ease, you can give birth to lotus step by step, your heart will be clear, everything will be clear, so let go of these unpleasant things, let go of your troubles, let go of your troubles, and become Bodhi, and change your mind, that is, a sunny day.

Principles are not ropes that bind themselves.

Let yourself sink your heart, your heart will be at ease, you can give birth to lotus step by step, your heart will be clear, everything will be clear, so let go of these unpleasant things, let go of your troubles, let go of your troubles, and become Bodhi, and change your mind, that is, a sunny day.

Principles are not ropes that bind themselves.