Is your love evenly divided among all your children?

As much as I love my big treasure, it's hard for me to be 100% average.

For example, sometimes when they quarrel and grab things, I basically let my sister let my sister let my sister, because the younger one can't communicate with the adult, while the older one can already communicate very well. But I still feel sorry for Dabao in my heart, because many things are also her favorites, but she has to let her sister every time.

And usually when Xiaobao cries, I will immediately coax her, and when Dabao sometimes cries, I will subconsciously think: She is already so old, why is she still so ignorant?

As long as you feel guilty about Dabao, it already shows that your love is slanted. Although we all know that this is wrong, sometimes it will unconsciously hurt Dabao's feelings.

This often happens to the older generation, who prefer sons over daughters or love the young.

Modern parents will basically be much better, in order not to hurt the child's soul will pay attention to this problem, but if it is said that it is 100% evenly distributed, I am afraid that it is difficult during early childhood, after all, the small one needs to be taken care of, even if it is not completely average when it grows up, it is also subtle and very small, after all, the palms and backs of the hands are their own flesh and blood, and everyone understands the truth!

I only have one baby now, and the love I give him is definitely 100 percent.

Although I don't have two treasures yet, I sometimes wonder what would happen if I had two treasures.

With Erbao, will you be as excited as when you have Dabao?

With Erbao, will it really be like they say, Dabao reads books and raises the second class as a pig?

With Erbao, will Dabao let Erbao let Erbao because Erbao is small?

I feel like I may not be able to be an absolute average because I love them differently, but I will make them feel my love equally.

In many families, the baby of the second child enjoys more love than Dabao, why? Because they will think that the younger brother is small, so the elder brother wants to let the younger brother, in fact, this is not right, we should put their status in education, we need to reasonably distribute their love, not to favor one side otherwise it will bring psychological imbalance to the other party.

When I didn't have two babies, I would feel like I could love them the same, but now when I really face two babies, I find it difficult to do it, because no matter what, I still have occasional favoritism in some daily life, but I feel that I love them the same.

How can love be measured with quantifiers, how can love be calculated, how much love is given to each child every day, no one can have more, no one can have less, this is a ridiculous thing, isn't it?

I can't be average, but what I can do is fairness, it is the principle of education, I will not let the big children let the big children because they are small, and I will not ignore the children because I feel that I have a deep relationship with the big children, and cover all the children with love.

First of all, I now have only one child, of course, all my love has been given to him, and I have also considered giving birth to two treasures, even if I give birth to two treasures, I believe that the love for Dabao will not be any less, they are all their own children, and they will only take care of them better with more care.

There is no absolute fairness in the world, and I will work very hard to be fair for the sake of children's mental health growth. But it is inevitable that there will be a little partiality occasionally, so I dare not say that my love is divided equally among children, and I will find a suitable way to try to treat each child as fairly as possible.