My boyfriend likes a colleague, he is 6 years younger than him, and he doesn t want to break up with

You're too wronged to do this, you're too good to that boy, what if he chases that girl for a few years, will you wait for him for a few years? You're so kind. I hope it's better to be a little bit more reserved than a girl.

Don't let him feel that you have it at your fingertips, and men won't cherish you. Even if I came back, I don't think it would be too good. He'll feel like you brought him back.

Why don't you tell him that he is going to chase a girl, and you are going to choose another boy as well, so that he will have a sense of crisis. I also feel like you haven't been waiting for him. In this way, the pro will not be too aggrieved.

I also think you should make a choice, and you can't always compromise. You like him, but you can't pamper him so much. It's like educating children, too indulgent will hurt them.

I wish you a good marriage.

I think it's better to be decisive, he will have a second time if he has the first time, even if there is no colleague from you, there will be three little four, little five and six in the future, just listen to the man's promise, I didn't take it seriously.

No, because there are a lot of girls, it's not the two of you, if it's the two of you, he'll come back when he's tired of playing, if there's a third, the fourth, can you wait?

Even if he is not with that woman, he will not live a good life with you when he comes back to be with you, and he will like others when he meets the right one in the future, which is not good for you.

Hahaha, are you serious? If he can't do it with that girl, will he come back to you? It's a very easy decision, but I think if you want to break up, just break up, don't procrastinate.

This is a situation that many girls will face during the love period, the man is becoming more and more casual, and the woman is becoming more and more loving. In fact, if a boy takes this attitude towards you, you should also remain rational and take a good look at your love.

You know, you're six years older than him, and although the gap isn't big, it's not small. After the initial period of love impulse, the boy comes to a clear head and finds that you and him are not so compatible, coupled with the fact that his friends and family around him are not optimistic about you, intentionally or unintentionally, it is normal for a boy to waver.

Since he said that you are annoying, then you should pull your life into the trajectory before falling in love. You are older than him, and your mind should also show reason and grace, and excessive entanglement will only make the situation worse. He doesn't contact you, and you refrain from contacting him anymore.

If he comes to you after a while, admit that he has a bad attitude. If you still love, give each other another chance. If he disappears silently, the girl should break up with him and stop contacting him.

Then let both sides calm down for a while, and you also adjust your mentality. Try to find out what your life looks like, maybe your boyfriend just likes your original state. If you tie a man too tightly, he will definitely get bored.

When we women are in love, don't lose ourselves, but also insist on being ourselves and have our own way of life. Don't live your boyfriend entirely, as this will not only stress him out, but you will also be tired yourself. And if you do this, he will feel that he has no space for himself with you, so he will get bored with this way of life after a long time.

He is obedient to you at first, maybe you haven't fallen in love with him yet. He feels that it is a challenge to catch up with you, and men are very competitive animals. The harder it is to chase, the more I want to catch you, so it will be especially good to you.

When you catch up, maybe in the process of your long-term relationship, he will not be so fresh to you. Moreover, you are very dependent on him and are with him for everything. Such excessive intimacy may make him breathless, so it may not be so good for you.

In fact, the problem of feelings does not need to be too entangled, the more entangled the more I don't know what to do, to rely on my first feeling, if the other party's attitude is very bad and changes a lot, then he already has other ideas in his heart, otherwise it will not change so much all of a sudden, and say what you want.

I feel that young boys are not too mature in their thinking, because the age of the two people is different, and the ideas of doing things will be different after a long time, at the beginning, maybe in order to pursue each other, it is crazy, no matter what the girlfriend wants to do, he depends on her, but when you like him, he will feel very annoyed, indicating that his heart is immature and irresponsible.

Since there is a problem in the relationship, it is better not to be reluctant, because it is unnecessary to hurt yourself in this way, because he no longer has you in his heart, and it is useless for you to pay for him. Think for yourself about whether it's worth it.

Are you six years older than him? Although age is not a barrier, some men are also very concerned about it.

When a man doesn't have you in his heart, you're nothing.

It's only been half a year and you don't love it? If you don't love it, let it go, there's no point.