I asked him why he was so cold to me and he said I was cold to him too. What am I going to do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-23
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Some time ago I and I were like that.

    He was cold. I asked him why, and the reason he gave me was that he didn't know either.

    During that time, he was in a bad state and felt that he didn't care about anything. I don't know what I care about.

    But when I asked him if he still cared about me, he said yes. But when I asked him if he still liked me, he replied very vaguely. He said he didn't seem to know what liking was.

    I was helpless and said let's break up. He didn't agree at first, saying that he would be given some time, maybe after a while. But I don't know how long I'll have to wait, it's really uncomfortable.

    Later he said, then separate. At the time, I really thought that he didn't care about my feelings at all, but I didn't want to be separated. I just want him to keep me.

    We didn't separate, I told him what I wanted him to be, he also said his thoughts, communicated with each other, and then we started to reconcile. And, I'm happy now. So, when there is a problem, communication is very important.

    Summing up me and him, I feel like I did 2 wrong things at the time, I hope it helps you:

    First, I cared too much about him at the time. On the contrary, it is easy to be suspicious, thinking that I have paid more than him and worked hard, but it has put pressure on him, restrained him, and walked farther and farther away from him. Give yourself more time to enrich yourself, but it will make both parties sweeter.

    Second, he is cold and I am cold. He ignored me, and I ignored him. He wouldn't contact me, and I didn't want to contact him, that's what I thought at the time. I'm paying for everything. So the relationship is getting more and more stiff.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Go with the flow, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, and there are often things that make it go its way, and you'll be happy, and you won't feel hard, bless you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let's talk to him first, don't let it go.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Give him more tolerance. Be more gentle.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello, glad for your question. <>

    The other party said that we snubbed each other, I think the other party is not malicious now, but tactfully made such a request to us to establish a good connection with us, I think the other party has said very tactfully, we can joke with each other. Let the other party be quick-hearted, you can say something like this: How is it possible, I snub no one and dare not snub you.

    Could it be that I'm not doing a good job? Then, guide the other party to say that Sun Ming is not satisfied with us, and then we will try to correct it as much as possible, so that it is necessary and beneficial for the two of you to communicate your feelings and promote Huai Hui's feelings.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    gave you such a good atmosphere, you can get by, how to warm her after the past according to the actual situation. If you can't get by, just give her the warmth of her heart through chatting.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Wear more clothes and drink plenty of hot water when it's cold.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello! You can say: Let's do a warm-up exercise together. Play badminton, table tennis, as long as you can warm up. In addition, it is special, saying a touching word can warm her heart, and at this time, her heart will change from cold to hot.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Take off the clothes for him to wear, if it is in **, then be warmer, say that it is cold, wear more clothes, and cover the quilt when you sleep at night.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Give her your coat or hold her, isn't that a good opportunity to get close?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Silently take off her clothes, drape her, and hug her ......

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Answer: Pro, hello, I am your life Answering Xiao Huahua is answering this question for you, you need to wait patiently for about 5 minutes, the answer will be revealed for you immediately, please don't worry [happy].

    Dear, hello, how to reply if it's a little cold If it's a boyfriend or girlfriend, you can say: I think it's quite warm in my arms. Then put her in your arms. Or just hug her and ask her if she's still cold?

    If you're just regular friends, you can give her your own coat to wear or take her to buy a cup of hot milk tea.

    If you chat, you can go back This season is easy to catch a cold, remember to wear more when you go out, I will be cold when I catch a cold. Next time you go out, bring a hat, scarf and gloves, and remember to wrap them tightly.

    If you chat, you can go back This season is easy to catch a cold, remember to wear more when you go out, I will be cold when I catch a cold. Next time you go out, bring a hat, scarf and gloves, and remember to wrap them tightly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Come right away, rush downstairs to her, and bring him warmth.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Dear, don't treat your husband so coldly, it's better to care more about your husband.

    Dear, don't treat your husband so coldly, it's better to care more about your husband.

    I separated from him, but now he doesn't communicate much, and I feel like he doesn't take the initiative to send me messages.

    If you feel that he is cold to you, you should tell him what you feel in person, so that he can know your feelings and thoughts.

    I should have asked him.

    Don't wait for his message any longer, he's using this way to get your attention, hoping to have a good talk with you face-to-face.

    If I suspect that he has someone, should I ask him.

    You have to ask him face to face, don't just communicate with messages.

    If you are confused, you should be frank.

    Living apart, should my husband care about me and the children?

    He is a sales manager, he is used to life outside, I asked to drink him with me, but there is no response.

    Of course, he should take responsibility for changing the forest, you should tell him your feelings and thoughts in person, don't hold back in your heart, and say it to your face if you have something to say is your honest attitude.

    He did not disturb the coincidence is not responded, this is his consent, is acquiescence. You have to understand him, you should take the initiative to go to him, face to face with him, open your heart and heart, and talk to each other. You don't have to wait any longer, you should be confident and communicate with him face-to-face.

    This is the kind of relaxation that will make you wise.

    He is 49 years old, and he used to have some debts, and I didn't ask about the salary, he asked if he didn't give the bank card password and the current money, I don't have a salary at the moment, and I asked him for no money, and he also gave Xiangda, but he didn't take the initiative to ask me if I had money.

    Husband and wife must be honest with each other, respect, trust, understand and tolerate each other, care for each other, understand and care for each other, and understand empathy, put yourself in the shoes of each other, and understand each other's feelings.

    You should also have your own job, not just do nothing. Or put all your energy and mind into how to make yourself have a job, do everything for yourself, make yourself full, and be busy, so that you will no longer be so empty, boring and idle, and search for Li is only cautious and leaky, and the wide ridge is suspicious of him.

    That's the best way to solve the problem. Of course, it will make your husband too tired to do nothing, so you should help him share the responsibility.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Hello, dear! I think you can reply like this:

    1.Of course you're not cold, because I'm here. With me, you won't be cold, because I will give you infinite warmth.

    2.You won't be cold because I won't let you be cold and I'll give you enough warmth.

    Hello, dear! I think you can reply like this:1

    Of course you're not cold, because I'm here. With me, you won't be cold, because I'll give you infinite hail of warmth. 2.

    You won't be cold because I won't let you be cold and I'll give you enough warmth.

    Will you need me.

    Did the other party reply to you?

    If the other person replies to you like this, you can reply to her and say, Yes.

    Things have been done between couples, but there is no reply or not, how can I break the game.

    What is the situation between you and you? You need to provide me with better information, the more the better, so that I can help you analyze her mind and help you find a suitable way to eliminate the decay Qinghu.

    It's that I'm chasing her, it's been a few months, it's okay at first, and then it's often together, she has a son, and often accompanies her son, and we also have a sedan chair system, but every time I ask if I want to be a girlfriend or be together, I will tear apart something else, or don't speak, I often care, red closed state cavity bag, gifts, just don't agree, don't refuse, everything is normal, you can also hold hands, kiss, but the relationship can't be determined.

    Hello, dear That's because she has concerns, she has a family and a son, and she doesn't want to bother you. Don't want to delay your marriage.

    How to break the game. Dear, I think you want to break the game. First of all, she had to dispel her worries, she definitely didn't want her family to be disturbed.

    You can assure her that you just want to be with her and that it will never affect her family. The first search is good, find an opportunity to ask her out to be alone, create a candlelit dinner for her, and create an opportunity to express your heart. Third, find a way for the two of you to get along so that you don't feel awkward together.

    I didn't reply after saying a lot.

    Hello, dear. According to your description, she is willing to hold hands with you, and she must like you and have you in her heart. But I feel like she wants to give up on you now.

    You probably don't want to give up on her. Then you have to work harder to impress her. Do you want to have specific actions Dear Roll Book, I found that the number of rounds of this round is not enough, if you want to continue to consult, you can click on my avatar to renew an in-depth service to talk about <>it

    Happy Lu Ling] <>

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. Don't worry, as a marriage and family counselor, you will not stand from the so-called secular perspective, but from the perspective of human nature. No matter what kind of marriage and love status it is, love is in the heart and is real.

    I asked him if he was going to continue after being cold for so long.

    These are the chats for tonight.

    You already have a child, isn't he a little too irresponsible......How old are you this year? Did he say why he did this to you?

    I thought I hadn't left the 11th to go back** He didn't leave either, and now he is going to give me a share Let me beat the child At that time, Yu Ye said that he didn't want me to come to Wen Zhi to work in the Hungry River After leaving for more than a month, this is the case I don't know what I should do.

    Can I understand that when you were together in the past, you were still in your own marriage?

    Yes, what do you think I should do? I can't do it back.

    Don't worry, as a marriage and family counselor, you will not stand from the so-called secular perspective, but from the perspective of human nature. No matter what kind of marriage and love status it is, love is the best argument in the heart, and the real foundation is lacking.

    How many months is the child?

    Hello, six pieces of information is too little. It is advisable to repurchase it, and I will face the difficulties in front of you with you.

    The teacher understands your predicament and takes care of yourself no matter what.

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