Why is he so cold to me Why is it that the better I am to him, the colder he becomes?

The following is a personal opinion, and any similarities are purely coincidental:

1. When he can't get you, of course, he must be enthusiastic about you; When I get you, that enthusiasm may cool down. Maybe you're not as perfect as he thinks, so he's cold to you!

Second, a psychological phenomenon (I forgot what it is called), when you are colleagues, his greetings and thoughtfulness will make you feel warm; But when he is your boyfriend, the same words and actions can no longer resonate with you, and he has to give double the affection for you to feel warm, which is normal.

3. Maybe he now treats you as a relative, so he will be very casual, not as careful as before, sometimes he may hurt you, and he may think that you will understand him and will not care. He may be busy at work and has no more time to spend with you.

Fourth, the most terrible thing is that he doesn't like you anymore, it is recommended to end it early, otherwise you will be sad in the end!

Look at that one with the best possibility!

You always put your own needs above the needs of the other person.

Hide your lies and tails, and the day I find them will be the day we say goodbye.

Love is unreasonable, if a boy comes to you at this time and says that he wants to be friends with you, can you accept it? Maybe you won't accept it, why? Because you already have a person in your heart, you can no longer fit anyone else, even if he has not yet accepted your love.

There's no one right or wrong here, so there's no reason, maybe he can't necessarily say why, if you try, if you make it clear and he's still unmoved, then give up on him, you have no regrets about the enemy, you haven't lost anything, because you never gained, and he is what he lost. So it should be him who regrets it. All right!

Good luck finding someone who truly loves you!

If you don't ask directly, if you can't say it, then don't take the initiative to contact him, wait until you see how long it will take for him to contact you, if there is no movement for a week or even longer, then ......Find another one that suits you better.

We're in the same situation as you.

I don't know how to deal with it.

How to look at it.

Maybe the feeling has changed.

It's far away, right.

I think maybe you're too nervous about him, so you're unnecessarily suspicious. That's just my personal opinion.

Intuitively, he doesn't love you anymore, but he doesn't know how to say it yet. Like is not the same as love, like is a swing, you can enjoy yourself, without the need for other people's response; Love is a seesaw that requires someone to sit across from you and interact with you, close to your inner feelings. Now it's you sinking by yourself, but the other party doesn't react.

It may hurt to give up, but stick to it and it's over. You will find that the world is still so beautiful and has not changed because of him!

I wish you the happiness that belongs to you!

Then you should ask him personally.

Hang him for a while and see.

I'm sorry, let's be honest, let's slowly experience falling out of love

Your nervousness scares him, right?

Is there another woman?

The first is that she really doesn't like you. In a relationship, it doesn't mean that if you are sincere, you must change to sincerity, if she doesn't like you, no matter how good you are to her, no matter how much you pay for her, she still doesn't like it, it's like what she wants is the apple, and you are a pear, then no matter how hard you try, it's just in vain.

Giving is important, but attracting is even more important.

The easier it is to get something, the less likely it is to be cherished.