How to judge a girl s character?

That's a general question, isn't it? But I still believe that people will see it over time...

Of course, it's been a long time.

It feels like it's there, and everyone knows who they are.

But you want to find out quickly, right?

Play the killing game if she's a killer but won't pretend to be exposed early to be discovered.

I think this kind of girl is a good personal opinion you can refer to...

How to behave in the world... I usually talk.。。 A little action...

Find a psychometric test for her.

A person's character is judged by how many good things he has done when he has been lucky, and how many bad things he has done when he has been unlucky, especially the latter.

1.See if this woman is vain, jealous, and likes to compare with others. There are some women who don't live well in their own homes after getting married, always pay attention to other people's homes, see if other people's homes are better than themselves, and can't see others live better than themselves, and this kind of woman likes to show off very much, like to compare with others compared with her husband and house than car, once the comparison becomes a habit, it is difficult to quit, and under the continuous comparison with others, their own desires will become stronger and stronger, there is no way to calm down the heart, live a down-to-earth life, will continue to ask for you, and know how to spend money all day long, If one day you can't support him, he will dislike you for not being capable, and in the end, all your efforts will be thrown into the bottomless pit.

And a good woman will never compare with others, but will only keep her heart down and live a good life with you, because he knows very well in his heart that there is no upper limit to comparison, and only living a good life in his own family is the most important thing.

2.Words are the voice of the heart, and words are the state of mind. A woman's character can also be judged from the conversation, a woman with good character is always very polite and cultured when she speaks, whether it is to treat your family and friends or even strangers with great respect, because such a woman understands that she respects others, your face will have more face, and he knows what to say and what not to say, so it is very comfortable to live with such a woman, and will not worry about her causing trouble for you.

And a woman with a bad character, pungent and spicy, speaks without cultivation, always likes to belittle others everywhere, preaches bad things in your family everywhere, likes to find people everywhere to confide in your parents, and there is no way to live with such a woman comfortably and at ease, and you have to worry about her quarrels with your parents everywhere, as the saying goes, the family and everything is prosperous, there is such a woman at home to stir up the wind and rain, you can't rest assured outside the struggle for the cause.

Conclusion: Marriage is a major event in life, so you must choose a woman with good character, so that your married life will be smoother and smoother.

First: see if a woman is a kind person.

Kind women, they live a very simple life! When you are with this kind of woman, she will also bring you this simple beauty! A woman can be without good looks, but it is absolutely impossible to be without kindness!

A kind woman will also taste the fragrance that life brings to herself while understanding and caring for others!

Second: look at the attitude of women towards their parents.

If a woman is particularly polite in the face of strangers, but when she treats her parents, she always adds all kinds of bad words, then this kind of woman, even if you are tempted, you must stay away! If a woman can't even love her own parents well, how can you trust her to love you well? A woman doesn't care about her parents, and at the same time, it means that she doesn't care about a man's love, this kind of woman is not worth your sincere efforts for her.

Third: see if the woman has integrity.

Honesty is a traditional virtue of our 5,000-year-old Chinese nation! If a woman always does not stick to the promises she has made and likes to go back on casually, then there must be something wrong with this woman's character! This kind of woman, she may even hurt her closest people for money, and she may not want her dignity for the sake of profit.

Fourth: Look at the attitude of women towards the weak.

Maybe in the face of the strong, women will show a particularly humble attitude! This attitude is still easy to disguise! But women's attitude towards the weak is very referential, because there is no need to disguise when facing the weak.

Fifth: Look at a woman's attitude towards money.

From a woman's attitude towards money, you can actually see a woman's character! If a woman regards her friends and relatives as much more important than money, then this kind of woman will naturally not have a bad character! It is not denied that money and power can make people feel a kind of awe and envy, but you must know that the real feeling is still a heart for a heart.

Sixth: Look at her friends.

As the saying goes: "People gather by like, and things are divided by groups"! What kind of person you are, what kind of person your friends are!

Maybe when a woman is in a relationship with you, she will hide her shortcomings and disguise them well! But if you find that her friends are not very good, or that they are not a responsible and responsible person, then you have to pay attention, because her friends will tell you silently what kind of person she is!

Therefore, when a man is looking for a partner, he must not only look at the appearance, but also know that a woman's inner quality is more important than anything else!

A woman with a real good character does not need to be deliberately dressed up, let alone gorgeous clothes, but has a kind heart.

Looking at a person's character, it is never about the external decoration to make a conclusion, and the inner precipitation can make you more attractive.

For women, only by having a good character can they gain dignity in life and be truly appreciated by others.

A good character, like the foundation of a building, will make you go more and more smoothly on the road of life.

Some women don't understand this, thinking that as long as they dress up beautifully and wear expensive clothes, they can be loved by men.

In fact, this does not make men favor you, on the contrary, too exaggerated decorations will make men feel superficial or even far away from you.

Therefore, a woman must have a noble character, and a woman with excellent character often has a full connotation and exudes a charming temperament, which is the foundation of impressing a man.

In fact, there is no need to be tempted, it is recommended to observe more, get along more, and see if the girl's behavior and language expression are generous and educated; Looking at the personality and behavior of the friends around her, you can also deduce her own character.

For the general you want to test a woman's character. You can start with a small part. For those around her who are disabled, or mentally retarded. There is also whether it will respect the old and love the young. You can start with these.

The simple way is to pretend that you don't have any money, your phone is out of battery, and see how she reacts, whether she will pay for you and give you the fare to go home.

Don't try this kind of thing, once the other party finds out, then you're doomed. Don't be too anxious about this kind of thing, after a long time of slowly making friends, you will naturally be able to understand his character. And then through his relatives and friends, you can also learn some of it!

Look at her usual words and deeds, treat people and things, and be happy to be helpful.

The master said, look at her usual words and deeds. She likes to be around people and is reluctant to help others.

Is a woman's character good? You have to understand to know that temptation is useless, because temptation can also be solved in your way, you only know the person who really understands him, do you know whether her character is good?

1.Looking at the circle of friends around a woman, people are grouped by clusters, and friends around them can generally see the person's character.

2.The attitude towards the family and the importance of the family to prove the character are also good.

3.The attitude towards money can be judged whether it is a person who loves money as much as his life.

4. Dressing up, dressing up can reflect the aesthetics and reflect a person's inner character.

Is there a good attitude towards family and friends, is it a frequent tantrum and a good attitude towards the waiter, is there a haughty attitude?

Is not often drunk.

There is no abuse.

Through her usual attitude towards friends, her views on money, her attitude towards feelings, and her evaluation of others, you can see whether a woman's character is good or not.

Whether the conversation is elegant, whether the words and deeds are generous, whether there is love for the elderly, and whether there is patience with children.

One: Look at his speech and demeanor.

A well-cultivated person also knows how to listen when he expresses himself. Most people are more eager to express themselves when chatting, and everyone pays more attention to their own affairs than other people's affairs.

If the other party is very good at listening to your ideas when chatting with you, no matter whether what you say is useful to him, or whether the content itself is interesting or not, he will not interrupt you, and even confide in you about some negative energy, he will not only not be disgusted, but also willing to help you give advice and help you resolve bad emotions. That basically concludes that he is a very empathetic person.

Making friends with this kind of person will give you a sense of peace of mind, and it is not easy to find someone who listens to you carefully. Just like Mr. Cai Kangyong said: "Compared with people who are good at speaking, I think people who are good at listening are more trustworthy." ”

He has published a book dedicated to teaching people how to speak, but the preface to the book emphasizes how to be a good listener before learning to speak.

In addition, a person's speech and demeanor can also reveal the level of the person's literacy, and a person with high literacy is likely to be more trustworthy than a person with low literacy.

There can be no content in a person's language, which is at best not knowledgeable, but can not be full of vulgarity and low quality, people who always speak with some vulgar words, either have a bad temper, or like to pretend to be stupid, like to attract the attention of others, this kind of person is often more impetuous, not suitable for communication.

And people who speak in an orderly and polite manner at least have a sense of boundaries and rules in their hearts, that is, they have the initiative to set their own bottom line in their hearts.

Two: Look at his behavior.

People whose character is worthy of trust generally have their own set of ways of dealing with the world. People who are not good at words like the feeling of "gentlemen's friendship is as light as water", and they will keep a distance from others, and this kind of interaction is what makes them feel comfortable.

When dealing with this kind of person, you may see that there is always a layer of separation in their eyes, which makes you unable to get too close to him, but it will be very comfortable to associate with such a person and will not cause you any sense of stress.

This kind of person belongs to the extroverted introverted personality, they prefer to be alone with themselves, when they are alone is the time to accumulate energy, and when there are many people, they are consuming their abilities, maybe they have accumulated energy for three days, and they will release it all after going out to socialize once.

Sociable people are just the opposite, belonging to the introverted extroverted personality, when a person is alone, they will feel lonely, will release their inner energy, when dealing with people, they will feel their own value, so they begin to slowly accumulate inner energy.

Such a person is more comprehensive, thoughtful, empathetic, and a little strong.

But no matter what type they are, they have their own principles of life, and they will not follow the crowd and have no position in case of trouble. Therefore, people who are stronger in the world are more likely to accept changes in the external environment and form their own way of doing things.

You can ask this question to show that you are thinking about whether you can make good progress. You should think that although she will be stupid, but at least in your relationship is relatively pure, you may be the person who has a deep impression on her in her life, you should feel lucky, you can teach her more emotional issues, she will be grateful in the future. Girls are slowly maturing, believe me, if she really wants to follow you, she is willing to fix herself, boys are a little tolerant, she will love you more.

A young girl, if you haven't been in love, it will be good, after all, you don't know anything very well, and you will become what you like, but it's not good if you haven't been in love when you're old, it's really tiring, it's not easy to change when you're old, and you still don't understand anything, and you don't know how to take care of people, and your mind has been set What you think is what you are, and if you don't follow her, I'll mess with you and don't know how to change for the sake of others.

Look at how she treats her family, her friends, the people around her or small animals, and how she treats you, and how she treats others, she is good-tempered and good-charactered.

First, looking at the way she interacts with the opposite sex, it is not uncommon to have friends of the opposite sex now, but if a woman has ambiguous language and behavior in the process of interacting with the opposite sex, especially if she has a boyfriend and still does not know how to keep her distance, most of such women do not love themselves, and it is easy for a man to marry home and have a fire in the backyard.

Second, looking at her attitude towards money, if she relies on sugar daddy or borrowing loans to satisfy her vanity, then her character must not be any better, knowing that she has to do something that violates her conscience, or even betrays morality and the law, how good can her character be!

Third, look at how many girl friends she has, if the same sex is unwilling to play with that girl, it means that her character is really not much better, according to the real reaction of getting along, so it is more referential!

Fourth. Look at her attitude towards life, live with a positive and optimistic woman, no matter what happens, she will not complain and accuse you, and with a pessimistic woman, after a long time, her emotions will affect you, make you also become negative and pessimistic, and life will fall into a pool of stagnant water, so a really good woman should be able to bring you encouragement and progress together with you, rather than holding you back.