What does my husband prove by bullying me in front of his mother s family?

Updated on society 2024-04-24
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Since he is bullying you in front of your family, it means that the real husband really doesn't care about you at all. He has completely lost that kind of family affection.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It proves that he doesn't respect you at all and doesn't respect your family, if your husband is such a person, you must protect yourself well and don't let him bully.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    proves that my husband has always been a good person in my mother's heart, so I dare to bully in front of my mother's family. It also proves that in the hearts of her mother's family, she is a tricky and eccentric girl, so no matter how much your husband bullies you, it is impossible.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think if your husband bullies you in front of your mother's family, he must disrespect you and don't give you face.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Prove that he cares about his own feelings, doesn't care and maintains your feelings, and doesn't have that much love for you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This proves that the husband is not so smart, and the person who bullies your mother's family in front of your mother's family will definitely be dissatisfied.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The fact that your husband bullied you in front of your mother's family does not mean that this husband is either very bold or that he really loves you very much.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your husband bullying you in front of your mother's family shows that he doesn't respect your mother's family at all, and your classmates don't like you at all.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My husband bullied me in front of Dongyang's family, what proof does it prove that he looks down on your mother's family, if this is the case, then the man is not a person.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What your husband is doing is not right, and he can't bully you in front of your mother's family. Ask him to apologize to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It shows that you are in a weak position in the marriage relationship.

    That is, no matter what, your husband has the right to control it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This bullied you, see how it bullied you? Some are joking, some are really bullying you, and if they are really bullying you, they just don't care about your family's feelings.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If your husband bullies you in front of your mother's family, it shows that he doesn't love you at all.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Prove that your husband doesn't care about your feelings, but it may also be too angry.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    He doesn't have to look at your mother's face.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My husband bullied me head-on in front of my parents, what do I prove, he doesn't take his mother's family seriously at all, and he doesn't find fault with you at all.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Your husband did a very excessive and hurtful thing, and he should sincerely apologize for you and your family.

    Hello, if your husband is not as respectful as your mother's family, then you can also disrespect his parents, which is a very good counterattack but, I don't recommend you to do this, because the relationship between husband and wife should not be a state of confrontation, but also a state of mutual tolerance and mutual understanding.

    My mother is paralyzed on the left, my eldest brother and younger brother can't take care of me because of work, only me and my sister take care of it, and my parents also pay us wages, rough shooting, but my husband always picks on our family's affairs, goes to the hospital after drinking and insults my mother, curses my parents to death as soon as he quarrels with me, and even loses his temper with me, smashes my parents' cabinet, and then does not apologize, and comes to my house, my sister can't see the sedan chair, and said him.

    Because he has always been dissatisfied with this kind of care for my family, especially when I asked him to live with me at my mother's house, he was unwilling, my parents loved me the most, and he didn't let me take care of my parents.

    My sister's children didn't go to high school, and my son got married, so I was the main one, and I retired to live at my mother's house, and my sister served during the day.

    You must have suffered a lot of grievances over the years, and your husband has really gone too far, and I am also very sorry for your current situation.

    If it's convenient, I also want to have a voice chat with you, specifically tell you how to protect yourself, and then what to do when your mood is so low.

    Voice is inconvenient.

    I just want to say, should my husband apologize for his behavior and my parents, especially this time I smashed my parents' cabinet, your husband did a very excessive and hurtful thing, and he should indeed sincerely apologize for you and your family.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Some men are inherently cold, not only to their mother's family, but to everyone. This kind of man is lazy, selfish, and afraid of trouble. Such men only do what is profitable for themselves, and some men are passionate by nature, but are specifically indifferent to your mother's family.

    In this case, it is very likely that you are dissatisfied with your mother's family, either because what your mother's family has done makes him unhappy, or because he is not used to some of your family's behaviors and chooses to stay away. You can see what kind of category your husband belongs to, if he is not born with a bad temperament, but just specializes in cold and indifferent to your mother's family, and your mother's family has not done anything to be sorry for him, then there is a possibility that he does not love you at all, this is the reason to stop the love of the house and Wu, if he loves you, he will naturally respect your mother's family. There is also a possibility that your own behavior has influenced him, for example, if you look down on your own family and speak disrespectfully, he will do the same.

    But either way, I think when your husband doesn't know how to respect your mother's family, you have to argue and express your dissatisfaction with it. 2.It is said that men are divided into four classes, first-class men have ability but no temper, second-class men have ability and temper, third-class men have no ability and temper, and fourth-class men have no ability and temper.

    A man's indifference to his wife's relatives can only mean that this man has no ability, because he has no ability, he will blame everything on the woman and her family, and target the woman and her family everywhere, and put a bad family history gamete because he is selfish and does not love this woman, no matter how you give to him, he can't see it, and if you treat him badly, he will remember you for a lifetime. Only a man who loves her will put his woman and his family in his heart, put everything in his heart, and he will not ignore women's feelings

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1. How to deal with a husband who looks down on his mother's family.

    1. If your husband looks down on her mother's family, it is not recommended that you learn from your husband, if you are not good to your husband's family, it will not be able to solve the problem, and you can only make more and more family conflicts, and the situation will get worse and worse.

    2. If the mother's family does not know that the husband looks down on them, then they must keep this secret and not be able to tell the mother's family this information, otherwise the mother's family will definitely not feel uncomfortable. Of course, you can't tell your mother-in-law about this kind of thing, because after all, her husband is her son, so she will help her son no matter what.

    3. How to deal with the husband who looks down on his mother's family, it is recommended that everyone communicate well, and if there is anything to say, you can explain it to prevent some misunderstandings. If there is a misunderstanding, then everyone can open the knot.

    2. Should the husband divorce if he does not respect his mother's family.

    1. If you consult your husband if you don't respect whether your mother's family wants to divorce, you need to look at the situation, not impulsively, it is recommended that you communicate first, to see if you have misunderstood or the fact that the situation is like this, different analysis in different situations, the results must be different.

    2. If it is because of your own misunderstanding, there is no need to divorce, you can communicate with it, and it is possible that your husband has some misunderstandings about your mother's family, if so, then solve the misunderstanding, and then open the husband's heart knot.

    3. If the husband does not respect his mother's family, this is an indisputable fact, and after communicating with the husband, he is still the same as before, like this case, I feel that there is no need to live together, because respecting parents and elders is the most basic, and even this point cannot be done, indicating that there is a problem with character.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As your husband, it is absolutely impossible to disrespect your mother's family, first of all, you should argue with your husband to show your firm position, and disrespecting your mother's family is equivalent to disrespecting you. If you can't solve the problem with your husband, you can also show that love is equal and mutual, you can also reduce the number of visits to his parents, and make him understand that his behavior is wrong!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hello, in the face of this situation, we should take the initiative to fight back by strengthening the communication between the two families, and it can also enhance the relationship between you and each other, and anything can be resolved through negotiation.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then you should teach him well, what is respect, if you don't listen, don't give him a good face.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    How can the husband fight back if he doesn't respect his mother's family? I'll come to this question. This is a relationship between you and your husband. You can reason with him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Keep it a secret, you can't tell your mother's family this information, otherwise your mother's family will definitely not feel comfortable 2When your husband doesn't understand.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What is the husband's abuse of his wife's family? This is disrespect and disrespect to his wife's family members. It has been suggested that wives should fight back.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This is disrespectful to the mother's family

    Not loving. It is recommended that the wife needs to fight back.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Divorce and disrespect for your mother's family is disrespect for you

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Divorce, this kind of person is not worth it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If your mother's family beats your husband, he will definitely hate your mother's family, and will no longer go to your mother's house with you, and you will not even be allowed to interact with your mother's family.

    In fact, it is nothing for husband and wife to quarrel occasionally, and women do not have to let their mother's family know, so as not to mix with their mother's family and intensify or expand the conflict between husband and wife.

    It's better to solve it as a husband and wife!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Summary. If the husband really doesn't respect his mother's family, and after communicating with his husband, he is still the same as before, like this situation, Xiao A feels that there is no need to live together, because respecting parents and elders is the most basic, and even this point can't be done, which proves that there is a problem with character.

    If the husband really doesn't respect his mother's family, and after communicating with his husband, he is still the same as before, like this situation, Xiao A feels that there is no need to live together, because respecting parents and elders is the most basic, and even stupid people can't believe it, which proves that there is a problem with character.

    On the second day of the first month, I was not allowed to go to Xiaoluo's hall to meet my uncle's grandmother's house to pay New Year's greetings, just because we got married, they didn't come to take the shirt to send off their relatives, and at the beginning of the first month, they also scolded my parents.

    He also threatened my mother's family to kill children and blow up the house.

    Scolding people and not scolding parents, if these can't be done, it is a problem of his morality.

    He is very good at talking, saying this and saying a lot, often beating ** and scolding my mother.

    Now that you're all like that, do you think it's still necessary for you to be with him?

    Please reply, I don't know what I should do, sometimes I want to kill him and die together.

    He said that if he had any dealings with my cousin's family in the future, he would divorce him immediately and ask me to compensate him 500,000 yuan, and he also threatened us like this.

    Before we got married, he threatened me with killing the children and blowing up the house, and our mother's family also took the risk to get married in a daze.

    What is the basis for you to compensate them 500,000?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Summary. When you find that your husband is disrespectful to your mother's family, you must first have a calm mind and deal with the problem in a rational way. It is best not to get angry with your husband right away, as this may exacerbate the dispute and cause both parties to not resolve the issue properly.

    You can explain your point of view to your husband, tell him how you feel, and explain how important your family is to you. At the same time, you can also give him some suggestions that will help him reconcile, such as maintaining communication with his family, resolving daily conflicts in a timely manner, learning to eliminate estrangement, reducing misunderstandings, and establishing more OK interpersonal relationships. In addition, when there is a verbal altercation between you, you can also try to solve the problem early without escalating the conflict, so that your husband understands your thoughts and thus improves his behavior.

    Hello Ha Kiss Your husband's disrespect for your mother's family is a very undesirable behavior, you need to tell your husband that such behavior will affect your relationship with your rest of the family, and try to make him understand your feelings. In addition, you can also try to listen to your husband's thoughts and communicate your differences in a rational way, so as to make your relationship more harmonious and stable.

    When you find that your husband does not respect Sakura's family, you must first have a calm mind and deal with problems in a rational way. It is best not to get angry with your husband right away, as this may exacerbate the dispute and cause both parties to not be able to properly resolve the issue. You can explain your point of view to your husband, tell him how you feel, and explain how important your family is to you.

    At the same time, you can also give him some suggestions that will help him reconcile, such as maintaining communication with his family, resolving daily conflicts in a timely manner, learning to eliminate estrangement, reducing misunderstandings, and establishing more OK interpersonal relationships. In addition, when there is a verbal altercation between you, you can also try to solve the problem early without escalating the conflict, so that your husband can understand your thoughts and change his behavior.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There is someone outside your husband You told your mother's family that your mother's family can't control it I guess you can't do it, you can sue for divorce if you catch a man like this, and it's not fun to live with him.

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