I quarrel with my husband in front of customers and my husband leaves, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-22
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's a really good question, you should ask yourself. It was you who personally made your husband angry, so what solution do we have? The best solution is for you to put down your noble head and apologize to your husband, after all, you did something wrong.

    So you deserve to apologize.

    Don't think about it so much at this time, and don't naively think that your husband will forgive you endlessly. No one is a saint, everyone has their own temper, and no one has to let you go all the time. Besides, you did it wrong.

    So, it's better to hurry up and apologize to your own husband, so that you don't lose her.

    Don't wait until you're really losing your husband to feel sad or anything. Because all this is your own doing, so don't think about it so much at this time, catch it and apologize, this is what a smart woman should do. On the other hand, let's start with why you're spilling with your husband in the store.

    Maybe that, your husband is really at fault first, or even said that, he really made you sad or something. But what you should remember is your most basic courtesy in a public place. Neither for your nearest and dearest people nor for your customers to see this happen.

    First of all, let's look at this from the customer's point of view, that is, if the customer comes to your store to make a purchase, what they want is a good and pleasant environment. When a customer encounters something like this, what will be their impression of your store, and will they want to come to your store in the future? You think about all these things, and you do that.

    If I were that customer, no matter how good your service was or how good your products were, I wouldn't want to come to your store again. Because I don't feel the most basic respect here. The most basic respect for customers is to give customers a very relaxed atmosphere to carry out their own shopping.

    Next, back to the hero of our story. Your husband, the person closest to you, is a man, a person who needs dignity to live. Whether it's in your personal space or in a PR setting, you should treat him with respect.

    Because you don't marry him just to beat and scold him when you're unhappy, he's not a toy for you to vent your emotions, he's the closest person around you. Therefore, when you do something wrong, you have to be brave enough to apologize, so that you will live better.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I quarrel with my husband in front of customers and my husband leaves, what should I do? First of all, there are two situations about why you would quarrel with your husband.

    First, if you quarrel because you disagree with the customer about business, then you need to ask the customer to come back another day, you discuss the opinion with your husband first, and wait until you agree before making a decision. After all, who is going to fool around in business, it must be one of you who is wrong and the other disagrees.

    Second, if it's a family affair, then it shouldn't be. Generally speaking, in my worldview, family ugliness should not be publicized, and family quarrels can only happen when there is no one or at least only family members. Otherwise, it will be a joke for other people, not only will things at home be bad, but it will also be annoyed by other people's gossip.

    There is also the need to know whose fault it is, if you clearly know that it is your husband's fault, then you don't need to catch up, you can continue to talk about business with customers. Your husband needs to be quiet, just be quiet, and be quiet can solve everything. Who is Jingjing? (funny).

    If you think about it carefully and find that you are wrong, then quickly catch up, after all, the problems in the family are the most important, and everything in business is a floating cloud. Things at home need to be solved as soon as possible, otherwise they may get worse and worse, and finally develop to the point of being out of control.

    I've seen a bunch of funny couples arguing before. The woman went to the barbershop and got a super expensive haircut, and then her husband was unhappy. I was also getting a haircut at the time, and I saw that his husband's face was super serious when he paid the money, and he said that he would go home and quarrel with you again, and go back to the car parked outside first.

    Family ugliness should not be publicized, this sentence is never false.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In this case, you should know that men also want to save face, such a family ugliness can not be publicized, and they do not control their emotions, men want to save face in public, you will only add a burden to yourself, because when your husband quarrels with you, you must make him very faceless, such a situation is a great anger for a man, he is not angry with you is already very good, If you have such a quarrel at home, it may not be nothing, but in public, you still have such a quarrel in front of others, what is your husband's mentality?

    So you know, angry emotions are a very stupid, you may ignore everything when you are angry, can arguing solve the problem? This is obviously not good, because it is only their own emotions that have been greatly affected to lead to such a problem, in many cases, the quarrel between women and men, are each other's feelings that the other party is wrong, they never pay attention to this problem, when men and women quarrel, most of them are really unbearable to quarrel, but women have a characteristic, no matter who is right or wrong, women will fight back immediately, and even if they are wrong, they will not stop quarreling, But men feel that such a woman is unreasonable and really disgusting, so they will leave.

    So if your husband is gone, it's best to apologize to your husband after calming down, no matter whose mistake it is, if you want to save this relationship, you must take action, women will also make mistakes, you should know how to admit mistakes, and only by doing this can your husband turn back, I think this kind of thing has been experienced by most women, and you don't have to blame yourself, just pay more attention to your temper.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    <> it's better to calm each other down first. I wonder if your husband has come back so far. If you don't come back, then you may really hurt a man's self-esteem by doing so.

    That's why he left angrily. Then you should apologize to your husband before dark, be sincere, and beg him to forgive your impulsiveness and promise not to embarrass your husband in front of others next time. After all, it's a husband and wife, and they won't break up or anything about it.

    Although women are also good-looking, they are embarrassed to apologize to men, but after all, it was you who quarreled your husband away in front of customers. The blame lies with yourself. When your husband does this, he may really be hurt in his heart, not to mention 10,000 points of harm, at least he is disgraced.

    For any man, he wants his wife to give him enough face, especially in front of strangers. Acquaintances know about your husband and wife, so they don't care so much, but for strangers, it's a matter of first impression. If your husband has already returned, take the initiative to talk to him about why he was so angry at the time, and then tell him what he should not do to make you angry.

    In the future, in order to avoid such a thing from happening again, the two sides reached a certain agreement. Try not to offend the other party's bottom line. I believe that the husband who loves you will also be angry and explain to you why he left.

    In this way, everyone understands the cause of the incident, and they will be considerate of each other, so that they will not be entangled in this and become an irresolvable contradiction in the future. Husband and wife are two close friends in a family, and they have to work hard to negotiate and reconcile any conflicts. Only couples who learn to communicate and can communicate effectively can work together to take care of their family business.

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