I m sad and confused right now, and I don t know what to do

Who doesn't have 3 disasters and 5 difficulties in life.

Personally, I sympathize with you, but I have seen a lot of people who are more miserable than you.

Just one sentence: there is no past hurdle in life. Don't say how much if you don't want to run away. Life can go on.

Why can't you get back together with your ex-husband? Since you have said that the past few years have been disconnected, there are still feelings, I think no matter what, he is the father of the child, and the flesh-and-blood family relationship can never be separated, don't they all say that the husband and wife are still the original match, I hope you can choose carefully, whether a woman is happy or not lies in the man she chooses.

Personal opinion, you still don't want it, you said that if you don't like the man, then your daughter may not like it, go to preschool, your own father still knows it, if your daughter doesn't like it, you don't like it either, does it make sense? Are you just looking for someone to rely on? You work hard with your daughter alone, you can compare, take your daughter to find someone you don't like, no matter how young the child is, he is not a pro, he is not a pro, whether you look for it in the future or not, the child will definitely lack a sense of security, lack of father's love, choose to divorce, the harm to the child is indispensable, I know a lot of people whose parents are divorced, they have a common characteristic, that is, they don't like a person, especially at night.

I like to go crazy with my friends, where it is lively, some people also like to laugh, but who knows that there is a wounded heart behind the smile, afraid of loneliness, afraid of no one hurting, parents divorce and children are the same, but the way of venting is different, so you have to think about it, in fact, my situation is similar to yours, but I am that child. My parents are only 5 years old when they divorced, I don't feel safe, I was sentenced to my mother, she took me to get married, I didn't think anything about my stepfather when I was a child, and now that I'm older, I feel more and more that he is hypocritical and hates him, my mother loves him very much, so I can only accept it, my stepfather has a son, he is the same as me, it's just that he doesn't have maternal love, I don't have father's love, we sometimes chat, we will say, how much love do we get? We understand our parents, they can only support each other as children, my stepfather beat me, so I hate him very much, I remember him for a long time, if my mother beats my brother, my brother will definitely hate my mother, hehe.

Think about it, even if you don't go back to your ex-husband, find one you like, what your daughter can accept, don't force her to accept someone, it's counterproductive. Having said a lot, I hope it will be useful to you.