Is it so difficult to educate such a child? Hurry, hurry

If your child has too much lead in his body, he should go to the hospital for a checkup. Don't hit him, maybe he has ADHD and needs to be checked by a psychiatrist!

Patience like this should be educated, you say"It's easy to say that it can't be done, and it can't be beaten"In fact, no matter what, you can't put down the parent shelf! The bitter mouth has become nagging. You can help him make a plan, with rewards and punishments.

It is important to know that the art of punishment lies in letting him know in advance the method of punishment (whether it is a punishment for sweeping, a punishment for running, or a punishment. Punish in time, do what you say, and never slack off.

Of course, doing well is rewarded, and the same should be like punishment, pay attention to artistry. This plan is made by parents and children, not by parents.

Take it one step at a time, starting with the simplest. Then find some good children's books to show him (with pinyin: such as "Hans Christian Andersen's Fairy Tales", etc.).If he is resistant, he should see a psychiatrist.

As a junior high school student who has just gone through elementary school life, I have a lot of understanding of children's psychology. It's a child's nature to play, but I have a solution: a reward system, where you tell him before doing his homework if he can complete his homework carefully and carefully within the time you set.

Then you reward him with a lollipop or something. If you improve on the exam, you can buy something you like as a reward. And so on, in this way, it will stimulate the child's sense of accomplishment and perhaps promote his progress.

Fighting is definitely not going to work. I was beaten by my parents when I was a child, and I still have a shadow.

I have two approaches.

1.Learn patiently and under supervision, let him develop good habits Know how to praise your child, so that your child can gain confidence and not pride. It's up to you to be patient, after all, you still have your own career, but it's worth sacrificing your rest time for the sake of your children.

2.If he really doesn't like to learn, then he can't be forced to learn, after all, not every child is born with learning materials, help him develop his other hobbies, maybe there will be unexpected gains.

Playing will not solve the problem

Will your child be unable to concentrate because of hyperactivity?

Some of them are because of symptoms, not the child's intention, many hospitals have outpatient clinics for ADHD in children, it is recommended to go to understand it first, do not scold, or blame the child.

There is also a lack of concentration in class, it should not be a problem that was exposed in elementary school, has there been a teacher who has reacted to similar problems in kindergarten?

When you find that your child has all kinds of bad signs, you should change or stop it in time, but you can't be in a hurry, be patient, it takes time to change a bad habit in your child, and it is long-term perseverance

Educating children is a test of parents' patience.

Parents are tired from a day's work, and there are all kinds of housework when they go home, so it is inevitable that they will be in a bad mood.

Sometimes I think about it, children should not study too badly, their thinking and morality are not bad, and they can just get into trouble!

The more you demand, the more pressure you put on it.

And naughty children aren't smart?

If the child has ADHD suspicious, it is recommended to learn mental arithmetic, which is specially set up for the child's hyperactivity and lack of concentration in class. This subject is suspicious to develop children's self-confidence, independence and coordination.

1. Stimulate children's potential interests, guide and induce them to enter into good living and learning habits.

2. Make him have some rights at home and enhance the child's sense of responsibility to the family.

3. Understand the psychology of children at this age, grasp their psychological characteristics, and listen to what children are saying in their hearts.

Upstairs is right, patience is the most important thing.

Don't fight.

I was also a small child.

I was the same in elementary school, but my mom and dad didn't know if your kids could use it, and I told you what they were all about.

Because they don't study well, they just sneer, they soothe, and then everyone seems to feel like they don't want you, so that he feels that if he doesn't study well, his parents will no longer love me, and he will feel the seriousness of the matter...

But it takes time, and I only learned it slowly when I went to junior high school...

But it is also necessary to stop in moderation, don't hurt the child too much, but you must not use it during puberty, which will only cause rebellion.

So I was able to do it when I was a child.

Probably made him feel that if he didn't study well, his parents would no longer love him.

I don't know if it's okay, my parents are like that, but they can't hit it, and even if they do, they can only hit gently.

It is necessary to discipline the child based on the child's will and find out the child's interests and hobbies.

I am 22 years old this year, I remember that when I was 9 years old, I read a book, which was sent to parents by the school, my parents did not read it, but I secretly read it, and the book is called "100 Ways to Teach Children Jackie Chan", which is very classic.

I'm a person who doesn't like to read any books since I was a child, think about it, what is the reason? It's interest, it's curiosity.

In the same way, you can also absorb the essence of success from the movie by watching the popular "Kung Fu Panda" movie.

That's it.

The child may have a little ADHD, if it is not very powerful, you can talk to him more, I think, the child needs to communicate with the parents.

It is recommended that you see a doctor. Is it ADHD. Or just use your patience to observe him and get to know him. Or play with him, maybe you can get to know him. It's not okay to fight, and it's not the same as not paying attention and not doing something wrong.

I'm artificial.

Hit a child when they are young, and if they don't learn well, it will be difficult to learn well when they grow up.

In the future, at least until the elementary school grade

When I grow up, I reason with my children, and now children are more precocious and serious.

Consult with the teacher, the teacher generally knows his students best.

Let him learn to draw, and he can exercise his patience.

There is also the possibility, ADHD. You should take your child to the hospital for a check-up.

Education is okay, don't stifle children's personality development.

Beat him up and make him do his homework every day.

Agree with all of the above points and listen to your children's voices!

Sister! Don't fight! I'm a kid too!

I don't think it's difficult.

1.The most important thing in life is to be happy, healthy and safe, rather than blindly pursuing material life, and the spiritual world is also very important.

2.We should first accept that we are an ordinary ordinary person, we can not provide children with a particularly superior environment, the same children will have a lot less opportunities than parents with particularly good conditions, from this point of view, our children want to succeed must pay a hundred times more than others filial piety chain hole thousands of times the effort.

3.I think it is more important for children to be healthy and happy, in this stressful society, too many pursuits and the difference in material wealth will make children physically and mentally stressed. Therefore, it is more and more important for us as parents to understand and be considerate of our children.

Today's children have a stronger sense of independence, unlike in the past, when they obeyed their parents and teachers in everything.

Parents and teachers give children some truths, some instructions, children will first think in their own minds, and then choose whether to listen to or not, accept or not.

In the past, when teachers and parents gave orders, the children were all bowed down and respectfully received orders, how could they dare to say half a "no"? It's very different now, adults say one, children are likely to say two, three, four, five, six! When an adult says a word, a child can say three or five sentences.

Many of today's teachers and parents come from the obedient children of the year, and when it is their turn to be qualified to speak people, it is broken, and the children who want to "control" themselves can't control it.

That's because the parents have gone through all kinds of trials, including material scarcity, heavy labor, etc., to be honest, those who can survive and survive are the strong, and many people who die in the middle of the journey have no chance to teach their younger generations. Therefore, the fact that the parents who survive does not mean how well educated they are, but only that they survive as survivors.

It is true that there are no psychological problems, but this does not mean that there is no problem with rough beating and scolding, and it is undeniable that each child has different characteristics. There may indeed be children who are more solid, thick-skinned, and have bigger hearts. Often beaten and scolded, he is still alive, mentally healthy, and positive.

However, this is only a part of the children, and it is possible that they have not been negatively affected by the scolding. This does not mean that scolding education will not have a negative impact on all children, and it does not mean that scolding education is correct. And even if this part of the healthy child only sees that he has been beaten and scolded, we do not see that in addition to the beating and scolding education, he may have also received other ways of education from the upbringing members (such as gentle, encouraging).

For example, the care from grandparents and grandmothers, such as the influence and support from the external environment.

When such children grow up, they generally do not easily use beating and scolding education. Because his heart is positive, sunny, gentle and powerful. There are more ways and means for them to educate their children than just scolding.

It can also be said that today's children are too hypocritical.

Because today's children are treasures held in the palm of their hands, like flowers in a greenhouse, enjoying a comfortable environment, lack of opportunities to hone, parents arrange to replace the child's ability to be independent, retreat and escape when encountering difficulties, and at the same time develop a selfish temperament and lack of empathy. The reason why parents feel that their children's education is difficult is that children are independent individuals, they are not accessories of anyone, they have their own ideas, they have their own life they want to live, and they have the right to pursue freely.

There is no template for educating children, there are many ways to educate children, and each child's personality characteristics are different, so we must teach children according to their different characteristics, which requires us to have a certain understanding of children. We need to look at the child's strengths and find the sparkle in the child. Step-by-step guided education is also difficult for most parents.

If you want to be a qualified parent to educate your child well, you must keep learning, improve your cognitive level, understand your child's true thoughts, explore your child's inner world, take care of your child's small emotions, and be a good role model for your child.

Sometimes we find it difficult to educate our children, often because as parents, we have not received education for our children. We were never taught this in the textbooks and in school. It is understandable that it is difficult to educate children, and as parents, we should also relax.

Many times we can only educate our children according to the set that our parents taught us, but the times have changed, and today's children have also changed, and many methods are not applicable, and sometimes people are at a loss and don't know how to teach them.

The first thing parents should do is to keep learning and improve their abilities, even if it is good to go abroad to study some top courses.

After having a child, it is not only the child's learning, but also the parents' synchronous learning. Mom and Dad need to improve themselves together. In fact, school education is obvious, teachers will also say that parents should participate in children's learning, saying that parents are the best teachers for children, just relying on teachers, training institutions, or parents alone is not good at educating children, and the power of society also needs to be helped.

In short, it is really difficult to educate children, you might as well take a look at the advice of some education experts, or take a look at some excellent cases of educating children at home and abroad to find inspiration.

How difficult is children's education, with the formation of good habits every day, I found that children's education is definitely a matter of personal growth, not of educating children. The task of family education is not to teach skills, there is a specialization in the art industry, and the professor of skills and professional knowledge has a special teacher, and the most important task of family education should be the formation of good habits in children. In my opinion, the reason why some families have children's education is really not difficult in their eyes, and the children are easy to lead, is because of their efforts or they have benefited from the influence of their elders to form good living and learning habits.

In the process of their education, it is actually to continue to be that good self, plus the guidance and guidance of children's life, studies and future careers. Because children are born in a good habit of living environment, they see everything is so taken for granted, they go to bed early and get up early, thrift, self-discipline, love to learn, this is difficult in the eyes of others, but it is very normal in their eyes. What we are really tired of as parents is not tired of helping children learn, but tired of waking up again and again in the morning, tired of children not eating well, tired of procrastinating in homework, tired of dealing with children's rebellion, and so on.

And the family I mentioned earlier, their parents don't have to spend on nagging these things, because their children are born to see good habits, in the eyes of those children, everything is so normal, when they start to go to school, their biggest difficulty is to solve the learning problem, parents do guidance and guidance on this, when they take the exam, the biggest difficulty is to choose, parents to give guidance on this, when they choose a mate, when they go to work ......When they make a big decision, they will find their closest parents to guide them, and this kind of life will have many different things than ordinary people's lives.

So these people usually think that the child is easy to bring, and when they think that the child is easy to bring, it will make many people feel why luck has befallen them, born in a good family, and gave birth to such a good child......However, if the child is born in an ordinary family, it will actually become difficult to bring.

So the best education is to become a better self first. During this time, my children's education has really become significantly easier and more effective, and I will slowly share it with you in the future. Continue to walk on the road of self-discipline and good habit formation!!