Can t men really do a little housework??

The only way to influence the idea is to use love!To put it bluntly, it's up to you to nag him, make him understand how tired you are in the day, and let him go to work.

If he really doesn't do it, let him go out to work to earn money.

Who said that men can't work, and those who earn money should still work, not to mention men who play at home.

Is it true that women have to work all their lives?If he is really not interested in stir-frying, you can give him other tasks in the future, mopping the floor, sweeping the floor, washing clothes, etc.

I... I love to cook because I love to eat...

In your case, you should clearly point out to your boyfriend that housework is a matter for two people, not that whoever should do what should and should not do it. The reason is clear, you can do a housework sharing **, write clearly who is the turn to cook on the day, who washes the clothes or something, you must do it according to that table. If there are special circumstances, you can change the arrangement as appropriate, but it must be fair.

Actually, I don't understand what your boyfriend does... Do more housework.,When the girl is happy.,Maybe there's any unexpected benefit.。。。 For example, quietly knit a scarf or something.,How good.。。

In our family, I love to cook, not to wash dishes, so I cook and she washes the dishes, hehe, the division of labor is clear.

You just complain, but cooking for him may also be one of your happy things. I think he'll change soon.

As the saying goes: Money can make ghosts grind, if you don't want to work for some money, it's always okay, and if you have money, you can go to the hotel and be satisfied

Or hire a babysitter.

When the money is spent, I'm in a hurry, and I can't do it.

Who doesn't want to enjoy it, there is a reward for paying, right?

In this situation, there is no way, only when he is seriously ill, especially when a chronic disease needs to be well recuperated, he will understand.

Anyway, if it were me, I would promise to help my daughter-in-law do it, after all, it's not someone else who is distressed, it's my own daughter-in-law.

I don't know what your husband is like. After all, it's not a big family. You have to take two people to complete everything!

If you don't do it, you don't do it, go out and buy it and eat it. Or be your own.

It's separated, it's all like this now, how to continue, it's even worse to get married.

Of course it should, but in real life, it is true that women do more housework, which is also related to everyone's traditional thinking for a long time, and it is also related to the psychological and physiological form. A good marriage relationship is not greasy and sweet every day, but two people live like comrades-in-arms in the same trench, and two people bear it together and fight side by side. The same is true for housework, not who should take care of it all, but the cooperation of both parties, so that neither party feels that they have given too much and feel unbalanced.

Men don't just need to make money to support their families, and women don't just use their beauty like flowers, two people in a family share housework together, which adds to the temperature of the family. As husband and wife, the family is common, and women have to go out to do things like men, and they are very tired after a day's work, so it is naturally very unreasonable to let women do housework. Of course, as a man, it is indeed not a special aura in housework, and there is no such talent as women, so I also hope that female friends can correctly guide their husbands to do housework together, give them enough time to learn, and don't rush to deny men, otherwise it will affect the harmonious relationship between husband and wife.

In marriage, a man can only make his woman and children happy if he bravely assumes his responsibilities.

In contemporary society, most families are double-paid, men and women have their own careers, and they are tired from morning to night.

You can't use "the male is outside, the female is inside", women are good at housework, and this kind of words can be used as an excuse to let women do housework alone.

It is no exaggeration to say that a man's attitude towards housework determines the happiness of marriage. Men who provide for their families should divide the housework equally.

Xiaomeng and her husband quarreled because of washing dishes, and finally went to the Civil Affairs Bureau.

My husband doesn't wash the dishes.

Xiaomeng had a busy day, and when she returned home, the first thing she did was to put on her apron and start cooking.

But just about to stir-fry, I found that there were only 3 plates and 2 bowls left, and the kitchen sink was full of dishes and chopsticks.

My husband was leisurely, playing with his mobile phone on the sofa, and shouted: "What are you cooking today, I'm hungry." ”

Xiaomeng asked her husband to come over and wash the dishes, and her husband said impatiently, "Are there no ones?" Brush together after use. ”

Hearing her husband's prevarication, Xiaomeng suddenly became angry, but she didn't want to quarrel with her husband, so she could only suppress her anger.

Uneven housework leads to conflicts.

Xiaomeng was angry while cooking, and it was inevitable that she would be distracted, and she accidentally mistook salty salt for white sugar and poured it into the pot, but she didn't know it.

During the meal, her husband complained again and again that the food was not palatable, and Xiaomeng replied angrily: "I don't want to eat, I will make it myself." ”

Suddenly, my husband dropped the dishes and chopsticks, and strode back to the house to play computer games. Xiaomeng was even more angry, and she couldn't eat a mouthful of food.

Xiaomeng cleaned up the dinner table and waited for her husband to wash the dishes, but her husband didn't come for a long time, so Xiaomeng had to remind the other party.

My husband only said, "Play games!" I'll wash it tomorrow. Looking at a pool of dishes and chopsticks, Xiaomeng really couldn't suppress the fire and pressed her husband's host switch.

The two had a big quarrel, and the next day they got into trouble with the Civil Affairs Bureau.

Housework is a hidden danger to marriage.

The fundamental contradiction between Xiaomeng and her husband is that her husband did not divide the housework equally.

Love in the Time of Cholera" says: Compared with the great disaster in marriage, the trivial troubles of daily life are more difficult to avoid.

It is undeniable that housework is a trivial matter, but it is a daily necessity between husband and wife, and this small thing is enough to affect the success or failure of the marriage.

Xiaomeng's husband just doesn't want to wash dishes and don't want to do housework. This led the two to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau in the end. Therefore, when men divide the housework equally, they are maintaining the marriage.

In 2018, the judicial big data of divorce disputes in Zhejiang Provincial Courts showed that there were 49,804 divorce disputes in the courts of the province, and some divorce disputes were caused by trivial life!

If the husband does not divide the housework equally, he is burying hidden dangers for the marriage, which is likely to lead to divorce disputes.

To do housework is to take responsibility.

If you look closely at the people around you, you will find that the man is in the family, takes the initiative to take on housework, and there are few conflicts between husband and wife and a happy marriage.

Because a man divides the housework equally, it means that he knows how to take responsibility, knows how to compare his heart with his heart, and has the position of a wife in his heart.

Housework has always been the focus of controversy in everyone's marriage.

In the eyes of women, housework should be divided equally. If you meet a good man, you may not even have to do housework.

However, men also complain, just as women complain that housework is too heavy. There is a man who says that the housework should not be divided equally, because the man does the heavy work, so why should the housework be divided equally?

It's also quite strange to say, this reason has the full support of the male compatriots. In today's society, men's cracks and women's complaints about housework seem to be the same, but if you compare them carefully, you will find that they are actually different. Most women only ask men to share housework with themselves, believing that housework should be a common thing for two people; And men often think that "the male is outside, the female is inside", and housework should be the responsibility of women.

The concept of "male dominant, female dominant" is so deeply rooted in the hearts of the people because of the past social form and family structure. In the past, most women did not work to make money, and the whole family had to be financed by men. So the division of labor between husband and wife in the family in the past is simple and straightforward:

Men are responsible for earning money outside the home to support their families, and women are responsible for being housekeepers inside. Officially, because of this, women at that time also thought that doing housework was their duty and were content to take on the responsibility of doing housework. But now this family structure has changed.

Most middle-class families no longer rely solely on men to earn money to support their families. Women are also working to earn money, and many women earn as much or more than men. Women are no longer as singular as they used to be, and most women are both inside and outside the Lord.

I think in the long run, the men are just dying. As more and more women excel as men in all fields, men must adapt to the rhythm and adjust their state to play the role of "husband" and "dad" in the family. Sharing housework with his wife is the trend of the times, but it is only a matter of time.

If a man is a man who is a housewife and his wife is a housewife, then there is really no need for the man to share the housework, but on the other hand, alas, if he is a dual-income worker. Then two people should be rated.

Supporting a family is not a person's business, now most of them are dual-income workers, saying that men support their families, in fact, women are also working, and they also get paid for their work, so I think that men who raise their families do not do housework, this is not true.

Of course, if one of the couples is a full-time housewife or househusband, and the other is at work to support the family, then I think the division of labor in the family is different, so it is okay to divide the housework equally, but if the housework is very busy, the one who goes to work should also share some of it.

It depends on the situation, because some work is really tiring, if you go to work in the equal division of housework, there is indeed a heavy burden, but this is only a premise, that is, there is a full-time housework in this family, such as if two people go to work, then you should divide the housework equally, or hire a nanny.

In fact, housework like grocery shopping is quite easy, He Qi can buy vegetables on the way to work, so it can't be regarded as rating housework, it can only be said to help the other half reduce the burden, I think since I'm married, there is no need to divide it so clearly, but I don't think there can be a person who hasn't done housework all the time.

Husband and wife are considerate of each other, if one party is particularly tired from work, then the other party should share more, not only these are not what they should be, but two people should be considerate of each other.

Of course, boys should do housework, but who dictates that housework must be done by women? Boys and girls have to share the housework with each other, and now the social pressure and work pressure of girls are also very high, and there is no extra energy to take care of the family anymore, and be responsible for all the housework, so this should be shared by everyone.

Psychologist said:"Families where men do housework are happier. "The best marriage relationship is not that every day is greasy and sweet, but that two people live like comrades-in-arms in the same trench, and two people bear it together and fight side by side.

The same is true for housework, not who should take care of all but the cooperation of both parties, so that either party will not feel that they have paid too much and feel that their hearts are unbalanced.

Men don't just need to make money to support their families, and women don't just use their beauty like flowers. It seems that there is a "common perception" in society: housework is a woman's own job, and men's participation in housework is almost zero, but in fact, men's positive attitude towards housework can better reflect men's love.

If he loves you stupidly, he won't just let you work alone, love is cherished. Husband and wife can cherish each other's every day together in a life that can be seen at a glance, and in the eyes of those men who can do housework, washing clothes, cooking, mopping the floor, and taking care of children together for their lovers is a manifestation of love, not a moral constraint.