How to correct your child s swearing?

Tell the child about the dangers of swearing, and it is very **, keep the child away from the environment of swearing, and consciously correct it every time the child says.

Swearing is a particularly bad habit, when the child swears must be strictly stopped, and in life to let the child see, parents never swear, there is a role model, the child will not speak slowly.

When you take your child in a public place, you find that people around you or other children are swearing, you can take the opportunity to teach your child, if you often swear and swear, you will get criticism from others, scolding from parents, and you will not be able to make good friends. Therefore, to be a well-behaved child, you must learn to live in harmony with others and refuse to swear.

Children learn from adults, first of all, don't swear by yourself, and then the child reminds to correct it in time, insist on it every day, or it won't take long to change it.

I think we can teach our children more about politeness as our traditional virtue.

I remember the first time I heard my child swearing, I didn't get angry but the whole family laughed, and then I thought that I really shouldn't laugh at that time, but I gave the child a kind of encouragement, and now when I hear my child swearing, I will immediately accuse him, I can't make him think that swearing is right, let alone develop this habit for him, tell him that swearing is not good, and the teacher and parents will not like such children.

I think the child swearing is also a kind of language experience, he said swearing may not be the child wants to express the meaning of the swear may not be at all what the child wants to express, I will patiently ask him what he really means, but I will still clearly tell him that swearing is not the right behavior, specifically tell him that "it is not right to say that kind of words", the child will pay attention in the future, know that he swearing is not the right behavior, to develop a good habit for the child.

The baby swears in public and curses others, in this case, mothers should tell him in time how others will feel, and then let him empathize with him, if others say this to him, let him deeply experience.

When you notice your child swearing, you can repeat their words and ask him to think for himself about how it feels to hear the words. For example, the child says, "Mommy is a big bad guy, and I'm annoying you."

You can say the same thing to him, and then analyze with him how he would feel if he heard his mother say not to himself.

Usually speaking, the child will not deliberately insult others, so he does not know what swear words mean, you have to guide him well, never get angry, tell him that swearing words will disgust others, will have no friends, be a child that everyone likes to be polite.

In order for children to reflect on themselves, it is necessary for them to be clear about their mistakes and realize the seriousness of the problem, so that they can correct their bad habit of swearing.

The reasons for children to swear are imitative language, expressing inner dissatisfaction, etc.

1. Mimicry language.

A part of the child's language is mainly learned through imitation, it will listen to the tone of others' words, and then imitate, for children, their minds are not very mature, there is no ability to bend the cavity to judge which words can be said, those words can not be said, for swearing, there is no very clear concept, just because there are people around to say such things, they will imitate and say so.

2. Express your inner dissatisfaction.

For young children, the ability to express themselves in language has not yet been developed, so many times they are not able to properly and completely express their thoughts. Especially when the child's emotions are more negative, it is difficult to express the inner dissatisfaction in words and specific ways, so they will vent their emotions by swearing.

Ways to solve the problem of swearing in children:

1. Ignore it.

In the early stage of the child's swearing, parents can adopt the method of "ignoring it". Because children at this stage hope to attract the attention of parents in this way, if parents respond, children's interest may be stimulated, and then the frequency of swearing will be higher. If parents ignore it, the child will feel that swearing is no longer fun, and his interest will naturally disappear, and slowly, he will stop swearing again.

2. Take it seriously.

If, after a period of time, the child still has the problem of swearing, then parents need to take it seriously, and must let the child know that "swearing is not right". For example, when a child swears, parents should tell their child in a serious manner: "This is not allowed!"

This will make your child aware of the seriousness of the problem, which may lead to a break in the bad habit of swearing.

A child's slow swear may be the cause of expressing inner dissatisfaction, imitating the words and deeds of others, and Tourette's syndrome.

1. Express your inner dissatisfaction

For children, the ability to express themselves in language is not yet fully developed, so many times they are not able to fully express their thoughts. Especially when the child's emotions are relatively negative, it is difficult to express the inner dissatisfaction in words and specific ways, and the child may always swear to express his emotions. At this time, it is necessary to communicate with the child in time and make corrections.

2. Imitating the words and deeds of others

The child's ability to imitate is very strong, and when the child first comes into the world, everything is in the learning stage. Always imitate the words and deeds of the people around you to understand the world and learn to get along with the world correctly. For example, parents do not regulate their own behavior and often scold their children with swearing, and there may be children who always swear, and parents should regulate their children's correct words and deeds.

3. Tourette syndrome in children

Tourette syndrome in children is a chronic neuropsychiatric disorder, also known as multiple tics. It refers to a tic disorder characterized by involuntary sudden multiple tics of the drica and accompanied by fulminant vocalization and foul speech at the same time as the main manifestations, and the child will always swear.

Home-school co-education, purify the child's surrounding environment:

When children go to elementary school, if you look closely, you will find that it is very common for primary school students to swear, and there are not many children in the first and second grades who obey the rules and know how to swear politely, but from the third grade, there are signs of swearing.

Children sometimes make up swearing, adapt poems and curse people, and their swear words are learned from adults and online games. There are also children who don't swear, but when they listen to it a lot in their daily lives, they will say it casually, and their classmates say it to each other, and they don't even think it's swearing.

Therefore, don't let children swear, we adults should set an example and not swear; When children are found to be swearing, parents and teachers should let children realize the mistakes of this behavior, not to listen to it, to be uncivilized, not to speak, to learn to vent their emotions reasonably, and to learn to respect others. In addition, parents should check the games that children play.

After the child goes to primary school, if he swears again, he must find the reason why the child swears, let the child realize the mistake of swearing, and guide the child to correct, which requires parents and teachers to jointly urge the child to speak more civilized language and say goodbye to swearing.