Should I confess to him? Can I confess my relationship history to the other person?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course I can't say it!! Although it weighs you down like a stone, you still can't say it. Do you think a man will really forgive you for your confession?

    You told him, even if he doesn't quarrel with you and make trouble with you, but there will always be a shadow in his heart, which he can't touch for the rest of his life, no matter how you make up for it!! Now that's all there is, even if it's a white lie, you can be doubly nice to him, the key is that you can't have contact with that prostitute, you're really uncomfortable, just think that he beat you and even if it's even, it'll be better to think like this. In fact, people have a short life, why bother to suffer, he also suffers you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I must not say, I am a man, if my wife is like this, I will go crazy, maybe your husband has a little temper, if there is a conflict in the future, calm down and say slowly, it can't be just one person's fault when quarrelling, find fault from the root.

    That's it, let it pass. It's like a dream.

    If you confess, he will definitely remember it, and for a long, long time, maybe a lifetime.

    Of course, if he is very open, it will be a different matter, but I think no matter how open he is, he will not tolerate his wife like this.

    So, I advise you not to say it. Think about how to solve the conflict in the future, if he loves you, he will definitely keep his promise not to beat you again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't tell him.

    I'm sure you're a good woman.

    No one makes mistakes, the important thing is to know that mistakes can be corrected.

    You know? He hit you, didn't you forgive him too?

    Sometimes we forgive others, but we forget to forgive ourselves (hehe, of course, not to condone ourselves to make mistakes).

    You feel that you shouldn't be doing it, then, as long as you can know that it's just a fool for yourself, then, just like giving your husband a chance, you should also give yourself a chance.

    If you truly recognize your mistakes, you deserve to be forgiven.

    Needless to say, the past is in the past. You didn't cheat on your husband, so you just have to face it well and do what a wife should do. It's good to cherish it later.

    Don't burden yourself. Open a window for yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Stop. If he knew that it was impossible for him to have no thoughts in his heart, it would be better for him to say it, but I am afraid that he would not say it...If you don't leave, your life will be greatly reduced, and he will feel that you are a water-based flower. Don't say it's to maintain your home, you know your mistakes, just don't do it in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If he loves you, then you have to confess and promise him not to do this kind of thing in the future. If you're not sure, don't say it yet.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think that if you don't say peace, it will always be a piece of heart in your heart, and if you say it, I'm afraid your husband won't be able to accept it. So it's okay to talk to your husband at the right time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's better not to say it, just keep it a secret forever, otherwise the consequences will be unimaginable.

    Everyone has their own privacy, not surprisingly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Never say it! If you don't mind, it's definitely fake....

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You yourself have changed, and it would be better for him to leave him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't do it again, hide it for as long as you can...No one will say!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When you have to tell your partner, you can't hide this kind of thing, and you don't need to hide it. There are three main reasons.

    The first point is to take the initiative to "confess" to your partner that someone is pursuing, which is a manifestation of "loyalty" to your relationship and partner. It can be a good thing or a bad thing for someone to pursue. It's okay to be pursued when you don't have a partner, and if you have a partner, you can't help but have bad associations, and it's easy to wonder if you're "unfaithful" to your relationship.

    The second point is to give your partner a sense of crisis and let him know that he is in demand and is being chased. Some people will put a lot of effort into showing and pleasing their partner before they chase them down, and when they get it, it's like a different person. Telling them that someone is pursuing this thing is also letting them know:

    Look, I'm being chased, you have to take me seriously, or I'll be with someone else.

    The third and most important point is that it is very important for two people to be honest and take the initiative to inform each other of the facts. All people are selfish when it comes to feelings, and no one is indifferent to others pursuing their partner. It's not good to conceal whether it's good or malicious, and taking the initiative to say it may cause the other party to be unhappy, and if you hide it, you will only suspect that your partner may have bad intentions or impure motives, otherwise why don't you confess it?

    Suspicion is the biggest hurting factor to feelings, and it is not easy to get it back once you lose trust.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you have to say it, just pick up the insignificant and harmless, and just say it lightly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's better not to. 1. In principle, don't take the initiative to say it if the other party doesn't ask, many people are not broad-minded enough. No matter how deep the love between the two parties is now, don't ask about the past, you should start looking forward from now on, and treat the relationship with a more mature attitude now, it will be easier to achieve happiness.

    2. If the other party asks, don't deceive, this is the essential difference. Be careful not to arouse the other person's curiosity, and don't talk about the cause and effect, tell the other party that the reason for the breakup is: you are more suitable for yourself than him (her).

    This will help to elevate the relationship. Remember: the more detailed you say, the more damage you do.

    3. Let the past pass forever, don't always reminisce, people must learn to turn negative emotional experiences into stepping stones to today's success, and make themselves more mature. People in love will always have such a question"Whether or not to confess the love history to the lover"Some people think that although you have not participated in my life in the past, I want you to know what kind of experience I have had, what I am like, and some people think that you love me today, not yesterday, so let's love it from now on, why bother with the past.

    Now, let's talk about a more sincere view on whether or not to confess your love history. Everyone has their own position, and this is just for reference. When we are faced with the problem of confessing our love history, it is better to have the mentality of short-answer questions.

    Not at all would be a bad choice to not use it as an essay question. Therefore, the author's main position is that it should be condensed and confessed, but it is not good to confess in detail.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Although it is a relatively embarrassing thing to talk about your previous relationship with your new partner, I personally think that in the process of dating, if your other half asks me about this aspect, it is more correct to confess my love history to the other party, and the reason why I say this is mainly based on the following factors.

    First of all, one of the most important prerequisites for two couples to be together is mutual trust and mutual respect for each other, if you hide your love history from your other half, then it is obvious that there is a lack of respect and trust for each other, which will only make the other party have a very bad impression of themselves, and may even lead to the interruption of the relationship between two people, so in the process of handing things out, we should still be sincere enough, since the other party asked this question, You should be honest and clear to the other party, of course, the other party did not ask yourself this question, and there is no need to deliberately say it to the other party, so as not to make the other party feel that he still misses his former lover.

    On the other hand, in the process of dating, confessing his love history to the other party also shows his attitude to a certain extent, indicating that he has completely let go of himself for the relationship he once had, and this is also to give the other party a reassurance, so that the other party can really trust himself in his heart, and more importantly, it is also a foreshadowing for the two people to get along and avoid conflicts in the process of communication in the future. The other party can ask about their previous love history, and it can also show that the other party cares about themselves very much, which is also a good thing for themselves.

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