If you don t want to compare your boyfriend to others, please give me confidence

The comparison is there.

The most important thing is whether you have faith and love for him, you don't have any hope for your future, it's better to be separated, I'm a bystander, your love for him is beyond everything, you should support him, that's what you can't choose, who told you to love him.

If you feel that this person is capable, or that you expect more from him than anything else, you should not give up on the relationship.

It depends on his status in your mind.

What you get is never the best If one day your boyfriend leaves you, you can really think of his goodness Instead of regretting it at that time, it is really better to learn to cherish it now You have to communicate more Let him know what you think Remember! There is no regret medicine in the world, I sincerely wish you all a long time!

You just like her yourself, even if life is hard, it's just as interesting.

This man may really love you, but it doesn't mean that he can succeed in his career.

has been in this situation for two years, and there must be something wrong with his career ability.

But, if you really love him, you can only accept it. Because love is something you can't miss.

As long as you are really afraid, even a small thing will bring you infinite warmth, money may not necessarily have happiness, as long as you have confidence and fight together for the future life, then any problem will be solved Besides, you are still so young, right.

It's not time to give up, don't give up, don't leave regrets for your life!

Personally, I don't feel good! Sweet and sweet when young people are in school!!

When you come out, you face the society, no car and no house! Everyone is under pressure, where is the sweetness?

There is no good calculation for the future! Whether he has a goal, he doesn't even guarantee food and clothing, where is his ability, and whether he has a brain! Now the strongman is by the head!

Maybe the concept is relatively backward, but I personally feel that boys can't use their girlfriend's money for a long time.

It doesn't matter if the current financial difficulties are in place, the key is whether he is troubled by this or has an attitude of indifference, and whether he is trying to change.

Either way, believe in your choice and support you!

I think you should continue He didn't say that you are not good or that it is not good What are you worried about You naturally have what you attract him Isn't it the greatest affirmation for you that he asked you to be his girlfriend Others are going to give up after a few words of discussion The heart is too weak Maybe they are jealous of you Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses To see their own advantages Be confident Confident women are the most beautiful Be firm Oh I wish you happiness After reading your supplement, I think you should be a very cute girl Confident, confident, confident.

You don't need a reason to love someone. Appearance isn't everything, and height isn't distance. He is good with you, he likes you.

You are the best!

The problem about your lack of confidence is that you think of your boyfriend too well, although he is tall and handsome, he also has shortcomings, for example, he does not care enough about you, does not help you solve all kinds of worries, that is, he will not protect you. Therefore, you have to think more about your strengths, and then keep his shortcomings in mind, so that he is not so perfect, and you are naturally worthy of him. Come on!

You can do it! Believe me! Because of my ex-boyfriend, I used to think I didn't deserve him, but not anymore.

You have to look on the bright side, why does he get along with you, because you are simple, cute, considerate, gentle, etc., these are your advantages. I don't think he's a guy who would give up just because someone else is talking about it, otherwise he would have broken up with you a long time ago. You have to let him know that he was right to choose you, that what others see is just the surface, and that you just have to be yourself.

Even if you end up parting, you can proudly say that I once talked to Xiaocao.

If you can't improve your taste is difficult to be with him for a long time, you are under a lot of pressure, and it is also related to your concern for others too strongly, and your lack of confidence in yourself stems from the fact that you do not have a skill, and you are not able to make yourself proud.

He is with you, he has his own reason, you are in love with him, not with other people's eyes, so you might as well boldly ask him what he loves you (not too direct, tactful), emotionally, don't feel inferior, you have to believe in yourself, but also believe in this relationship, I wish you happiness!

Be true to your heart, love is a matter of two people, so why care what others think, if you break up because of other people's eyes, it can only be that the relationship between two people is not deep.

He likes you, you like him!

People who love right and wrong are envious, jealous, and hateful!

There is no reason to love someone, don't feel inferior, be brave to walk your love path, now is not to say "go your own way and let others say go".

Come on, be confident! If you really feel that you have a lot of problems, you can enrich yourself and sign up for etiquette classes. But you're still young, and if you don't say something good, it will be difficult to be together in the future.

I think your boyfriend is very thoughtful, very good, on his own, independent, as for self-confidence, everyone has something that is not confident, maybe you love you very much, and don't want you to be with him and wronged you. The lack of self-confidence caused by this kind of thinking more fully shows that he loves you very much, you encourage him more, sometimes use some actions to encourage him, two people have been together for a long time, he will definitely become confident!!

In his heart, he thinks that you are better than him, so subconsciously he will be afraid that you will run away with others.

It's subconscious, and it's probably possible that he doesn't quite understand it himself.

As far as you describe, he always wants to control you, then he is a guy who likes absolute leadership, absolute authority.

However, he thinks that you are better than him, so this is a contradiction, and it is a bit funny to let a girl who is better than himself listen to his own leader. It seems that he is subconsciously a little inferior. However, on the outside, he still likes to show his wisdom side.

Then, he is afraid that he will take care of you too much, because you are better than him, afraid that you will run away, afraid that you will break up with him.

Isn't he a bit of a loser? A bit forward-looking?

You should be more confident in your IQ and think you're smarter, right?

It's a little more tragic, tell him, don't worry too much, isn't it good for you to be together now?

A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

Less attention to some vain things, life is naturally more exciting, and people are naturally happier.

At least, it won't be like now, when you cry and he cries, making it so sad.

I wish you happiness You are not a puppy love If not, what should you do If so, I advise you to be modest.

Because he loves you so much that he feels worse than you. Cherish it!

1 All if I didn't look away, your boyfriend should be a typical phoenix man, and secondly, you give me the feeling that I am being played, you know with a little brain, you don't look good, why would your boyfriend look for you? Your first reaction must be, I'm a good person! Be kind!

Noble character! If so, why did the son and the mother turn against each other? At this time, you are like being glued to the ground and can't move, why?

Look at the whole paragraph, you are far less important than his mother, of course, you can't compare yourself with your elders, you have to live with them in the future, if you can't bear this little thing, there is no future at all, your family is richer than his family, he can commit himself to being a son-in-law, just rush this man can't ask for it! Little sister, you still plan to let him fight with you, I think you are living a good life at the end, as far as he wants his mother to want you now, he is not qualified to fall in love, do you understand? Sensei struggled together, what is the boy not self-motivated?

It's like a clock with no hands spinning! The future is blank! You can really give up, if you don't go to the list like him, you can only go to Hong Kong to be a little white face, I probably guess you don't pay less, right?

If you don't want to break up, it means that you are unwilling, because you love him more than he loves you, you are still young, the road is still very long, if you hold a brick and are full of jade, I can't care, I firmly believe that your friends around you will not pay attention to you, because the authorities are obsessed with bystanders!

Wake up, he doesn't love you, you're afraid you won't be able to find such good conditions, so you don't take into account your feelings when you break up again and again, if you still believe in him, you will break up sooner or later, why bother, don't waste your good youth. I wish you happiness.

I still want to be with him, just let him understand the reality, you can let him struggle for a few less years, after all, life will not be easy. Who can he find without you? In short, you have to identify his weaknesses, and it is best to let his mother understand that his son may not find a better one than you.

In such a situation, you have to be by his side.

In my opinion, this boy is good. It's rare. Self-confidence is not a drop of self-cultivation. It's up to you, encourage him more, take the initiative to say some words of encouragement to him, and slowly have self-confidence.

Cherish it and wish you happiness.

Obviously he is already under your control, and you still ask what to do, if you want, you two three times let him surrender Also, since he is not confident, you should be cheerful and say anything Don't worry that the other party will think that you talk too much, and you don't want to say it in your heart, so it will be over sooner or later

In fact, two people are to be comfortable together, if you can always hide yourself like this, then are you still your real self? Since you love him, then you should communicate with him more, after all, he is not a roundworm in your stomach, he does not know all your thoughts. If you really love him.

You should tell him what you think and see what he thinks. If you continue to disguise yourself like this, I think one day you will have a quarrel and a conflict because of it. Let go and be yourself, people live for happiness, not for others.

I hope you are happy.

From an outsider's point of view: he loves you very much! You dazzle in his eyes!

I'm afraid you'll be snatched away by someone else! Although he has a small success in his career, he is not confident in his appearance! You have to care more about him!

Tell him when you consciously or unconsciously tell him that you really don't care about his looks! But I like him as a person! Don't take it upon yourself to buy any bean products for him, then he will have even more inferiority!

If he asks you to give advice, then you also pretend to be indifferent to give him advice, be sure to highlight the attitude of indifference, and try to talk to him as little as possible about beauty topics! Hope it inspires you.

Wouldn't it, men are not confident because of acne? Maybe I care too much about you, although you go to school, you can go to get a marriage certificate, which means that you don't mind. Otherwise, your boyfriend has something to hide from you, so observe it yourself.

To encourage, praise, to say to him, you are busy with work all day, for me to suffer a lot, I want to love you more, from time to time when he goes to work to send some greetings to warm his stomach, let him know that you are always concerned about him, to use practical actions to influence him. In addition, he should pay more attention to rest, mainly due to endocrine disorders.

It means that he is more accommodating to you, maybe something else is frustrating him! You should encourage him, and in turn be more accommodating and take care of him! That's it, just like that, adopt it the same!

Tell him you don't mind that, and if you do, you're not going to be together, are you?

There is nothing wrong with harmonious sex.

You make him feel a sense of crisis??

It's best to talk about issues like this when you're both at leisure, or when you're at peace with each other (according to people's psychology, when you're playing a game, you'll basically be avoided, indifferent, and have no subjective thoughts when you come into contact with such a problem)!

You can ask him the same questions, and ask him to think about it before giving you the answers, after all, he determines a direction for you to choose in the future, and in the same way, at such a moment you can add some of your own requirements for him, and these requirements are to eliminate the stumbling blocks that prevent you from achieving your common future goals.

After all, whether you have confidence in the future or not, just rhetoric, if you really want to believe it, you still need to work together, tolerate each other, trust each other, be considerate of each other, and change each other for each other, in order to create the future synchronously, otherwise one is working hard, and the other is dragging its feet, hehe!! At that time, it was useless to talk about anything!

As a person (man) who has come over, some ideological help for you!

So it doesn't seem that he has faith in your future, but that you don't have faith in your future, and you are worried and want him to give you an affirmation.

He's perfunctory to you, not because he doesn't have faith in your future, but because he doesn't think about your future at all.

You lack a sense of security in him, and when love does not exist, the promise is just a blank slate.