The family s disagreement has ruined the desire of many couples to stay together, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-07
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hehe, you only need to do one thing, that is, the two of you are happier than anyone else, and you are good to them, I see that they also say that they are all first impression psychology on the lips, and there are some design face problems, these are not important, you just take him home, and you will get used to it when you see more. That's what I did, because it's useless to argue, that doesn't change the mindset, you let your lover join your life, and over time it will change, because you don't understand it at first. Wishing you happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Parents are older and experienced in some things, and their opinions can be used as a reference. However, some experiences are not updated as quickly as the actual changes, so the final decision-maker is still himself.

    How do you determine if the other party is your "him"? Very simple. See if the other person is the same as yourself. Thoughts, opinions, ethics, goals, ......In short, as long as everything is consistent, he is right. He doesn't have to be the best, but it certainly suits you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    , if a love can't even pass the blame of the family. That's really no gods.

    Be brave enough to love, and seek what belongs to you and not to anyone else.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you think that the other person is worthy of arguing with the parents who gave birth to you, raised you, and took care of you, you can boldly pursue your desires, prove to your parents that he or she is worth it, and prove that he or she is good.

    If you feel that the other person still needs to think about it, I think you or a lot of people need to think about it. Extend the long-distance running period. After all, talking about marriage is not child's play.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you. There is no reason to like someone, and the unrepentant effort is considered worthwhile, as long as you can be with the person you love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish ....... Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful.

    The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best. In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily.

    It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The troubles are all because of your own excessive attachment Even if you continue like this, there will be no good results, why do we blindly give? No one is selfless, everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts, at least they have to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, forget it, it just takes a while to let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what to do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do, maybe it's easier to know than to do, but I can only say that no one can help you, only yourself, why practice yourself if you are ignored, maybe I am like you in the past, time can really change everything Learn to be strong.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Family affection and love are both indispensable love. You don't have a choice for family affection, and you can't give up love, it's about the happiness of a lifetime. I suggest that you take care of love first, and then find affection.

    If your parents don't approve of your marriage, don't rush it. Maintain a good relationship with your girlfriend first. Then communicate with your parents slowly.

    Parents love their children. Remember, there is no right or wrong, no distance, no age difference in marriage. Marriage is up to you.

    Parents' opinions should only be used as a reference.

    Of course, the opinions of parents should be fully respected. It's really not good, cut first and then play. I believe your parents love you.

    Will agree with you eventually. It depends on you and your girlfriend to be patient and communicate well with your parents. Even if they still have ideas, don't worry.

    Because it is not easy for our parents to raise us, their opinions must be fully respected. But tell them. Since you love your children, respect their choices.

    We chose someone to stay with me for the rest of my life. Please respect me as well. No matter how resolute your parents are, they will compromise under your insistence.

    As long as you can be sure that it is the person who can give you happiness in your life. You're going to come together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My family is against it, and I am very conflicted and uncomfortable! I don't know if I can...Try moving forward again!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let's go see the meteor shower

    Do you want to make a wish, my dear?

    I always want to stay with you until I get old.

    I also want to stay with you.

    I've been thinking about it for a long time, too. Hope that helps.

    Shadow Pavilion, Answer.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    |I don't blame you for not understanding me.

    Elopement to the moon ° |Handle without looking back

    Because of love, how can there be vicissitudes |Because of love, you will not be easily sad, you are cherished in my mindYou are the memory that I can't erase from my heart, and I have walked through my life hand in hand with you. |Embrace everything back to back with you.

    Half of the tears of the third generation of Jin Se Annian with the third life I don't want another person|I'm not thinking of another person who has gone to great lengths to help you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, I have always had a wish I hope that if I am not careful with you, I will not marry, or you will not marry.

    I won't marry you, stupid, who will you marry if you don't marry me, fool.

    Raise your head, can you see happiness Fool, you are my happiness What should I do if I am not beautiful Actually, I am not handsome.

    Fool, why do you say there are so many stars because every time I think about you, I have one more.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Didn't get involved in the past.

    The future will be with you to the end.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Tell your family: "You always liked boys until you met her".

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Listen to what others have to say! There are no boundaries to love! It's your love that is someone else's love, and your ears and nose care about what others think of you!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When it comes to falling in love, the important thing is whether the man and the woman really love each other. Distance doesn't come first. (Because in the future you will have the option to work in the same place, and this problem will be solved.) )

    Now the crux of the matter is that your boyfriend's parents don't quite know a complete you. The first thing they are thinking about is the distance!

    As long as your boyfriend tells his parents about your character, your talents, your highlights, and your excellence. Just make them like you, too!

    They will agree to your union after they have learned the true wholeness. Because they all want your boyfriend to be happy after marriage. Be in line with your desires at this point!

    Next, it's up to you to communicate well with your boyfriend's parents and get along!

    Truly bless you!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The reason why parents disagree is that the two families are too far apart, and the theory that graduation is equal to a breakup I think you should have heard, and the second is the family conditions of both parties, such as economic conditions, whether they are single parents, and whether they are only children. The third is appearance, which is more secondary to your question.

    After graduation, no one knows that they will go **, and most long-distance relationships are over. My advice is that you like him, he likes you, and you are like this during school, and the love on campus is still relatively pure, at least you won't break up because you don't have the money to buy a car or a house. Even if the town doesn't come together in the end, at least you have good memories.

    In a word, I don't know what will happen tomorrow today, what are you worried about! Laugh!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What's the problem? Only his parents can answer. Let him ask his parents why they are against it, and then slowly resolve it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If your parents don't agree, it's useless if you want to be together, let alone so'Very'Oppose. The current desire may be due to a rebellious mentality. Are you an only child? Can you bear to be so far away from your parents and get married?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hehe, only his parents know about this.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There are no couples who have to be together, I have a female friend, for various reasons, the family in the south does not agree, in the end it is not a trouble, at first it is a trouble, it is to die or live, and finally it is not like that after a long time, marriage is a matter of 2 families, not a matter of 2 people,

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Distance is not a problem, if he loves you enough, hold on and decide!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    His parents were too conservative and fine. Distance is not a problem, as long as you persevere, you will be able to move the heavens and the earth.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I guess it's a matter of how far away home is.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In fact, there are too many reasons why you can't be together in love, and external factors such as economic **, parents' disapproval, etc., may be the most critical. I don't know which one you belong to, but it would be best if you could solve it within your ability, but if you can't solve it, then there is no way, it can only be regarded as a memory! In fact, you should think about why you can't be together, if it is the opposition of relatives, then there must be their reasons, after all, the elders have more knowledge than us, and in some cases we can listen to their advice.

    If it's economic reasons or distance, it's up to you to stand the test. Willingness to endure poverty and the blow of time. There are many lovers in real life who are broken up like this

    Because this world is too realistic, we can only accept it helplessly.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If it were me, I would hold on! Unless the person you love is not able to support you later. I can't give you a bright future.

    Then please don't joke with your own happiness. Parents always have their reasons for disagreeing, and it's for your own good. , isn't it?

    If you feel that the person you love has the power to give you happiness. Have the power to feed you. Take care of you for a lifetime.

    Then please don't give up. Stick to it. Because one day you will be able to prove that you made the right choice in the first place, and your parents will understand.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    True love is tolerance rather than indulgence, love is care rather than pampering, love is mutual blending rather than unrequited love, love is a hundred flavors and not all sweetness, love is a lifelong thing, true love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandstanding actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it, love is so plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Take your time, don't rush, talk to them well, communicate more, and show your determination.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Talk about it, the biggest thing is elopement.

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