My family doesn t agree to have a relationship with my boyfriend, how can I persuade it, it s a bit

First of all, you must be able to understand the hard work of your parents who are reluctant to let you suffer, and secondly, they think that you are young and vigorous, and many things do not think about the future, and if you don't separate the two of you now, you will definitely regret it later. Of course, this is just some speculation about the psychology of your parents, I think marriage is a matter of two families, you can't escape, you can't do irrational things like elopement, try to let your boyfriend move them, let your parents feel that he has the ability to give you happiness, and at the same time you must be patient and persuasive, not impulsive... Which parents don't love their children, slowly they will accept it, and parents will not be hard-hearted, they are afraid that you will not have a good life, think about it, even if they ask your boyfriend's family for money, it is not because they are greedy for money, and the money will not be for your little two to support your family in the future!

So... It's all about patience!!

You first have to understand one thing, whether you are in love or your family is in love, whether you are married or your family is married, whether it is your own life or your family's life, if it is your own life, then can you be the master of your own ??? First of all, think about yourself and don't blame the problem at home.

Let's talk about it.

It's none of your business if you don't agree with that.

As long as you can resolve the reasons why your family disagrees, otherwise you should consider your family's opinions. Family will always be family, always good for you.

Do you think you're still young or do you think your boyfriend can't do it?

Elopement Raw rice is OK to cook ripe rice.

It's so serious, let's hear the opinion.

This still needs to be slowly run-in, and I am also facing this problem now.

Tell your parents that it's good for you to have a house and a car.

Let's talk about the conclusion first, the reason for your parents' interference is actually considered from the perspective of marriage, if the end of your relationship is married life, with the experience and vision of your parents, you can basically foresee the problems you may encounter in your future married life. You should be able to understand this truth, right?

I respect and have no intention of ** your privacy, for you, it is definitely free to fall in love, but the purpose of falling in love may change at any time, which requires you to grasp your own bottom line and principles, in fact, if you are not talking to him about a love for the purpose of marriage, you should be easy to communicate with your parents about this issue; Similarly, if the progress of your relationship has begun to plan your future life, you should talk to your parents clearly, so that they can clearly know the real situation and plans between you and your current boyfriend, which is actually good for your family relationship, communication will make you more aware of the real purpose of their interference and real concerns, and communication will also make them more aware of your real needs and expectations for the future. There are certainly differences and disagreements, but conflicts and contradictions are not.

Judging from your description, at least your parents are not very interested in your boyfriend, and it is naturally not easy to have a good result when you meet, the key to this is your position and principles, if you are swaying yourself, then your parents will definitely be more resolute in their attitude to win you into their camp, in the same way your attitude is ambiguous, your boyfriend will misjudge that he needs to stand up for you, but it will exacerbate your embarrassing position and the outbreak of contradictions. Here your communication strategy should be clear, if you want to meet, first exchange views with both parties separately and state your position, otherwise the meeting is really meaningless.

In the final analysis, falling in love is the values and practices of a person's life, whether it is your parents or your boyfriend, please believe that instead of caring whether you are really happy at the moment, they must care about whether you will consider them in the future, and naturally they will take the initiative to strive for you to stand aside with them when your position is not clear, and this is the time to test you the most. So, please really think about how you plan for your future and think twice.

It's just talking, I hope it can help you, good luck.

Elders don't hurt you The choices you made when you were young may not be the right one.

There are also people who will persuade you to simply forget it since the other party's parents do not agree. If the other parent does not accept such an emotional model, there will be a lot of obstacles in the middle. Later, the relationship became deeper and deeper, and finally found that the parents did not agree, as a son, he would definitely follow his parents' opinions, and finally lead to a breakup, which was even more painful.

If you make yourself unhappy at the beginning, you may feel more and more miserable in the future.

I think this question should still depend on your boyfriend himself. Your boyfriend is the one who knows his parents best, and if he really wants to be with you, he'll be able to convince him.

You can ask your boyfriend to talk more about the woman's goodness, or take the woman to the man's house more. Get to know the woman more and change their opinion.

The man can talk to his parents about the reason why he is with his girlfriend, what his girlfriend's personality is like, and what his girlfriend's family background is like.

You can tell your boyfriend about some of your strengths, let him try to convince his parents, and tell his boyfriend's parents that he will try his best to assist him after he is with his boyfriend.

First of all, parents are for your good, but even so, it can't really hinder you, because it's your door that lives together, not your parents, some external factors can be changed, and the man can also do his best to change himself, so that both parties can rest assured, who doesn't want their children to be happy, but sometimes they have to believe in each other, and they can't give up because of small setbacks, if they are really together, their parents will not object in the end, as long as you are happy! May you be happily together forever!

Let's fly double! I've got your back! ~

It's okay to cut first and then play!

Help you analyze it.

One is that even if you come together, your boyfriend's status in your family will not be respected, the family gap between the two of you is a little bigger, and you listen to your brother a little, so it's better to divide early and find the best one for yourself.

The second is that you have not completed your studies, you are not financially independent, you rely on your brother, I believe that your brother still loves you very much, the so-called physiognomy has never been the focus of marriage, the point is that your brother is not satisfied with your boyfriend. If you feel that you can't be on the same level as your brother, it means that your relationship with your boyfriend has been shaken in your heart.

Third, your boyfriend's attitude towards this matter, does he have firm confidence that he can give you a better life, and do you have firm confidence that he can leave his current good material life and create a better future with his boyfriend? If the two can't be placed in agreement, it's better to divide early.

I didn't expect that in 2011, there would be people who believe in this thing so much...Talent! Your marriage is about your brother's pun business! If I were you, I would learn from your brother, and find out all those who were in opposition to your brother, and arrange them with your brother

With so much conflict, why don't you cross your business? "It is estimated that the landlord is usually weak, so your brother is stronger. Your brother can break with you for his own business, to tell you from the heart, I look down on your brother!

This kind of choice in family and love, I really can't help it...

Although my brother is a little selfish, he is still for your good, I am afraid that if you change him, he will suffer in the future, in fact, it is good to have such a brother, you can try to convince your brother, I believe, he will understand.

I should have some ideas, maybe tomorrow your brother's company goes bankrupt, then your tuition will be gone. In the end, both of them were not good, "Don't take it seriously when I'm talking nonsense".

Your brother's career and your own are two different things, is it so complicated because of a genus, it's actually very simple, the key is that your brother is superstitious, he doesn't have a superstitious career.

Then you just think about it, so that he is not superstitious.

I feel like giving up, I think it should be family-oriented...

Hehe, it's cool, how long can your family stay with you if you don't speak well? As long as you are optimistic, you don't have to worry about the opinions of your family.

Love is a matter of two people, as long as you love each other, you can be together, and you won't live with your brother in the future, maybe you will have no impact on your brother's career together? "We love each other, but the family doesn't agree" This absurd reason has broken up many people, not because the family does not agree, but because they don't love each other enough. To love him is to be with him.

You can communicate with your family slowly, but if you can't think about fighting poison with poison, you can find a warlock to crack it.

What kind of dry cleaning do you have with your boyfriend and your brother!

Find a few more lookers to see if it's really what your brother said.

This one of your brother is a bit excessive, even a little selfish, thinking only about his own business, but not about your happiness.

Do you think it's fair to you?

Your happiness is in your hands, find a boy who gives you happiness as a boyfriend, don't think about your brother's problems.

Will your brother give you half of the money he makes when he starts a company? Why risk your happiness?

If your brother's company loses because you have found a boyfriend, it can only mean that his ability is limited and has nothing to do with you!