I hate my dad, I hate my dad so much

I also don't recommend talking to that woman, because you are a junior, and even if you find it, the other party may not take what you say in your eyes at all. Think you're fooling around.

Therefore, the effect is not expected to be too good. Internal problems still have to be solved internally

Communicate with your father, but don't tell him it's wrong. Adults are very strange, even if you are reasonable, but you can't teach him a lesson. Because in his opinion, it violated his majesty and dignity as a father.

I suggested that he should tell him tactfully that his mother was sad about this, and describe how she behaved when she was sad. It's okay to exaggerate a little: for example, one day I overheard my mother crying in the room, saying that as long as she waited until the day the child got married, she would be divorced and even not live.

Finally, it's best to add: I don't know if I heard it wrong at the time. ）

At the same time, I burst into tears when I said it, and I believe that this does not need to be rehearsed, and it will naturally be when the scene comes.

It would be better to speak to your father in the same way and in terms of content:

You used to love me and my mother so much, and you are the most pampered person in the world. I don't even know what the point of my life is if you really don't love me and don't want me one day. (He must have looked like this:.)

Silly boy, how could it be, I will always love you so much. ”）

Then you said, "But now I feel that you love me less and less, maybe you don't feel it yourself, your heart is not in this house now, and the time you spend with me every day is getting less and less......."There will come a time when you will no longer love my ......”

Then lift him up to the top

I believe you love me, your mother, and your family, right? My mother and I would be so pitiful without you. ”

My father in my heart has always been the greatest and most loving person for me, and I believe that he will not abandon me and my mother because of other people outside, I always believe so. ”

Sometimes when I think about what kind of person I want to marry in the future, I think that I want to find a ......man who will always love me and my mother like my father, and who is as responsible as you”

You know: it's useless for you to blame him, but if you put a high hat on him, you will successfully give him the title of "a great father in the eyes of daughters" and "a man of noble character and personality".

He'll figure out for himself which is more important. How can we maintain that noble title in the hearts of children?

The most irresistible thing for a person is to be genuinely considered noble and noble. Then he would have to strive to be noble and noble himself.

That's human nature.

If you rely on others to manage him, it is useless, and it will only be effective if you want to change it yourself.

The last sentence is to persuade yourself and your mother.

The affairs between parents are handled by themselves, and they are too complicated, and you don't need to be involved. You have to grow up, be strong, and take care of your mother. Dad is always Dad, you can have less contact, but you can't be hostile, increase contradictions, time can prove everything, and live every day calmly.

There are still good men, and I hope you don't hate all men for that.

You should talk to your dad, but maybe your dad thinks you're grown up and don't need to be pampered.

I hate my dad so much, I think my dad is a macho dead man, why do you say that?

My dad is a macho dead man, everything is decided by himself, it is never negotiable, as long as I have the slightest objection, he is unwilling, and he starts to quarrel at home, and even domestic violence, he feels that he should listen to him.

I had my own dream, that is, I wanted to become a writer as soon as possible, but in my father's opinion, it was a pipe dream, which was impossible to achieve, and he tried his best to stop my dream.

In his eyes, I have to live in the things he arranged, these are what I don't like, and my dad doesn't want to, so he thinks that what he arranges is good.

My dad likes to compare me to others, talking about how others are and how I am all the time. I wanted to go out and rent a house to live in, but he didn't want to let me live at home. Okay, I live at home, and he said that everyone else still goes out to live in a rented house, how can anyone live with my parents, I said, he doesn't want me to go out to live, I don't feel safe.

Whose problem is this? My problem?

He never felt that he was wrong, he felt that his fault was blamed on others, that is, he was wrong, and others were all wrong.

I'm really fed up with this kind of family, and I want to make up my mind to save money to go out and live, whether it's buying a house or renting a house, I just go out to live and don't want to stay in this kind of family. It's infuriating.

Children like you are generally very rebellious. You think, you are a child from ignorant to sensible, from kindergarten to school, which step is not the careful care of your parents, not your parents with money to provide for you.

As long as your father is of good character and has a positive outlook, don't hate your dad on small issues, think your dad is not smart, think your dad is not good-looking, think your dad is not powerful and powerful, think your dad can't make a lot of money, these are not the reasons why you dislike your dad.

I found that this group of children like yours is not only rebellious, but also does not know gratitude, especially some only children, when they were young, their parents were pampered, and their grandparents spoiled him like a pearl in the palm of their hands. But when you encounter a little difficulty, you complain that your father is not good, or your mother is not good, and you either dislike your grandfather or your grandmother. Why should a child like you dislike your father, because your father is not an official, and if your father is an official, you will not dislike it, because your father is an ordinary worker, with no power and no money.

In any case, your father used his labor to feed your family, used labor to exchange food and clothing for you, and used labor to earn money for your education, what are you not satisfied with?

Tell me why, I want to know why.