People in the city want to go out, people outside the city want to come in , the psychological stat

People always don't cherish what they have, and always miss their own beautiful scenery along the way in order to pursue the beauty of the distance. For the bourgeois young masters, they have money, and what they lack may be the warmth between relatives, or the beauty of "poetry and distance", so they are willing to exchange their existing money for what they think is beautiful.

People in the city are tired of the traffic and crowds, so they want to know what the summer breeze is like and the shade under the trees; And people outside the city have had enough of living with the loess and their backs to the sky, and they want to see the bright lights and lively streets in the city. No matter who you are, you always think that you have lived a different life from yourself, and feel different joys and sorrows.

I remember when I was a child, I read an article about a little boy who wanted to study, but was forced to drop out of school because he was poor, but when his family was not looking, he would sneak to a nearby school to listen to the lectures, using pencils and notebooks he picked up from the garbage heap. During an eavesdropping, the teacher found out because he accidentally had a problem, and he never went to that school again. When he ran away in a panic, he accidentally left a notebook with the words "The child in the window wants to fly, but the child outside the window wants to go in".

In fact, many times, what we have at our fingertips may be something that others have to put a lot of effort into getting it. So we need to cherish everything we have more. Some people may think that it is hypocritical for the young master of the bourgeoisie to yearn for the countryside, or some people may think that the young master of the bourgeoisie has everything and will not envy the children of ordinary people, but in fact, they are so envious that they can't do it, but people don't know it.

The mentality of the bourgeois young master is so squeamish, they are not short of money, they build a small villa area in the suburbs outside, away from social disturbances, and at the same time have money to spend. But rural people only want to support their families, and be closer to the place where they can earn money.

This is a kind of psychological state of people, people often feel what is the best when they can't get something, rich people yearn for freedom, people without money yearn for money, and always feel that life owes them.

Rich people are not necessarily happy, they will also be bound by many rules and regulations, and they can't get the freedom they want, and people outside the city want to see the prosperous world, in order to enter the city to squeeze their minds, this kind of mentality is shared by many people, not just the psychological state of the bourgeois young master.

This is more like a curiosity-driven, because the bourgeois young master is in such an environment, he thinks that such a society is relatively boring, and those who live in poverty, he wants to enter the bourgeois society and get rid of poverty.

This is indeed the case, this is the character of a typical bourgeois young master, rich people yearn for freedom, and people without money yearn for money, and they don't know how to be satisfied.

The bourgeois young master didn't have too many troubles in life, and wanted to go out of the city to enjoy life and freedom, but instead said that people outside the city wanted to go in, mainly because life forced them.

The bourgeois young master wants to get rid of the boring bourgeois social life, and those who live in poverty want to plunge into the bourgeois social life, which is the answer to the kind of words, the people in the city want to go out, and the people outside the city want to come in.

I think it may have been such a state at that time, that is, people in the city would especially yearn for those outside the city, which is very free, and people outside the city would especially yearn for the life in the city.

Everyone is curious, they all want to see what the outside world is like, people outside the city must want to go into the city to see the development, people in the city must want to go outside the city, take a look, see and see.

This is people's curiosity, they all want to go to the outside world to see, the poor want to go to the city to see, the people in the city want to go out and go around, and the young master in the city wants to go out and go around.

This state should be a portrayal of many people's hearts, and it is also a very philosophical sentence that has been used to this day, so Mr. Qian Zhongshu's literary works can impress different people every time

This is very normal, when you have no money, you want to make money, when you have money, you want to go home to retire, so this mentality is originally swaying from side to side.