If you don t have self confidence, you won t have love, how can you gain self confidence?

In fact, there is no one who is not confident in this statement, only because some people often fail or think too much about success in the face of some things in the process of growing up.

So some people are determined to die and say that it is wrong not to be confident and have no love, as long as it is a person, they will have their own love, but some people have not yet met, just met, don't you say?

Think about it, if a man feels that he is not confident and afraid that he will not find a girlfriend, he has never thought that women have a lot of unconfidence!

Those women will one day have a man to soothe and love. The same is true of those men.

Of course, this is far away, saying that love and self-confidence have to be a little bold, what I say bold covers what you say about self-confidence, you have to creazy once, be bold, thick-skinned, maybe some women are waiting for this kind of man to open the door of her right heart.

Right? ~~

So, it's a very simple bold word, you have to think about it, let it go and do it once, remember the sentence "If you haven't done it, you'll never know what it will be like after you do it, even if you guess it's your opinion!" ”

Confidence stumbled and found

Recognize one thing, please complete it, in the process of completion, the success of each small step will bring you a sense of achievement, gradually accumulate will have self-confidence, but also recognize that not a person can complete all things to have self-confidence, there is a specialization. Try to do it well and put some small details on it.

Each flower into his own eyes, and someone will see your good.

Self-confidence has nothing to do with whether there will be love, it is important to have self-confidence to maintain love.

The meaning of this sentence is that love makes people willing to let go of their inferiority complex and lack of self-confidence, and dare to pursue and express their feelings, otherwise they may miss the opportunity and fall into darkness.

First of all, low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence in love are a very common phenomenon. Many people in a relationship will worry that their conditions are not good, afraid of being rejected or disliked by the other party. But if you give up the opportunity to pursue love because of these reasons, you may miss out on some beautiful experiences and feelings.

Therefore, when a person falls in love with another person, he is willing to take the risk of rejection, let go of his inferiority complex and lack of self-confidence, and dare to express his feelings to the other person, which is also a process of courage and strength to face himself. At the same time, it is precisely because of this love that people will have the motivation to pursue, change and grow, because only by devoting themselves to the world of love can we reap true joy and happiness.

To sum up, love originally requires the need to let go of the inferiority complex and unconfident mentality, and bravely pursue and express one's true feelings. Only in this process can we reap the fruits of true love and spiritual growth.

If you feel that you have not been in a relationship and are not confident, then you should be confident, and you have to believe that you are the best!

It is a wonderful thing to have a good relationship in life, and holding the hand of a son and talking about a love that will never be separated is something that everyone longs for.

However, love itself is a matter of fate, love can not be found, it must follow fate, not deliberately. If you don't fall in love and don't have experience in love, it doesn't mean that you won't fall in love for the rest of your life. You can't suspect that your personality is the reason for the failure of the relationship because of the rejection of a confession, or because of a failed relationship, resulting in low self-esteem.

Of course, it may also be due to the lack of love experience, which leads to obstacles in getting along and interacting, which makes the other party misunderstand, or it may be the other party's problem, so there is no need to attribute the problem to yourself. No one is born with a love saint. In addition, even if a person is excellent in everything, it is impossible to say that talking about one becomes one, falling in love is a process, and it has multiple results.

You see so many celebrities in the world, who doesn't have multiple relationships? The love confession is rejected, this situation does not require inferiority, and there is no need for inferiority, love is not a compulsory course in college, love is a kind of fate, and there is no need to be anxious. Therefore, when love comes, talk about it, and wait if there is no love.

Maybe some people have been in love many times and have rich experience in love, but they are still alone. This is because he has not met the right person, he is still waiting for fate, and falling in love is also a very rational thing. When fate has not come, we must focus our time and energy on study and work.

Read more and improve your self-cultivation and temperament. Maybe one day, your temperament and cultivation will make your fate arrive one day earlier.

The rejection of your confession does not mean that your personal conditions are poor. can only say that the two are not suitable, and you have no fate. All love experiences, there is nothing to refer to, maybe there are experiences you will never learn.

Falling in love is a natural and generous thing, don't feel inferior.

If there is a new fate in front of you, in the face of love, you must have enough confidence to impress her with your sincerity, your courage, and your determination. Be sure to fight for it actively and seriously, and you will definitely have a good relationship!

Haven't been in a relationship and don't have confidence? So what about people who have been in love many times but have died every time?

Before falling in love, determine whether it's because of liking or loneliness. If it's just because of loneliness, then forget it, falling in love for the sake of falling in love will never end too happily.

If you have time to feel inferior, it is better to have more time to improve yourself, and when your horizons are broadened, you will naturally be confident, and you will meet better people when the time comes.

If you want to be confident, you can try to make yourself better, for example, you have to learn how to wear makeup, and then you have to learn to dress and match. In the end, you can also learn some things that you are good at, and then after developing in this area, you will be stupid and shining to be recognized by others, so that you will be confident.

You can tell yourself that you haven't been in love and nothing, but you haven't met the right person yet, tell yourself to be confident, so that your love will come soon, tell yourself that it's not something to be inferior to, or be confident, wait for your love, and then improve yourself, so that you can find a better love partner, so that you can also make yourself very confident.

You should encourage yourself more, and you should believe in yourself, you should adjust your mentality, not being in love does not mean that you are not good, so you should be confident, so you can become better and better.

I think that the person we like should be a ray of light in our life, should be the motivation for us to become better, and life should become better because of it, so don't give up a person who makes you feel sparkling, while liking him, you can also continue to improve yourself. Love should not be a compromise, nor should it be about giving up oneself for the sake of being one. On the contrary, it should be two people who are sincere with each other and can grow together and become better people.

A good relationship, it will definitely bring you your self-achievement, and a relationship that always makes you lose yourself is really not the best for you, a person who makes you more and more unable to find yourself, he will never be the right person for you. So don't love someone who makes you have no self-confidence.

The lack of confidence in the face of love is because I love him too much, think that he is perfect, feel that he is not good enough, not perfect enough, and inadvertently have an inferiority complex, and people are not confident. To change this situation, we must fully understand ourselves and each other. No one is perfect, we must recognize our own advantages and build self-confidence.

In this way, you can get along and love each other calmly with people who love each other like yourself.

The more you love someone, the more you shift your attention to yourself, and from then on you have only him in your world, revolving around him every day, ignoring your own needs and feelings. At this time, because you love him deeply and care about him, it will strengthen his self-confidence and pride, the more humble you are, the less self-conscious you are, the more he thinks he is stronger than you, better than you, and you are not worthy of him.

If your lover is just joking with you, adjusting the small mood of two people's daily life, I don't think you need to break up with him, because it's not a real blow, but just a joke for you. If your lover is not joking with you, it is really hitting your self-confidence, I think such lovers should not be okay, because two people should support each other together, sell sedan cars together, grow together, so that each other can live a more wonderful life.

It's just that because I care enough, I subconsciously feel that I am small, and the other party is incomparably beautiful, and I feel inferior invisibly, and I feel that I am not worthy of the other party, I am afraid that no matter how good a person is, he will be ashamed of himself in front of the person he likes.

Because a person like Jin Mo Liquid doesn't really love you at all, and you are not in a good relationship together, the individual makes you less and less confident, and the mascot is getting worse and worse, so that you are always losing yourself and lobbing, then he is definitely not the person who is suitable for you, because a good relationship will only make people more and more vibrant and better.

Because this kind of person will only continue to suppress you, so that you are very inferior, lose the confidence to do anything, this kind of relationship is not normal, really good feelings, two people are equal, can fight the bureau to communicate and exchange on the basis of the other, is to raise the other half of self-confidence.

I think the main reason is that loving such a man is very harmful to himself, he will unconsciously discourage your self-confidence, make yourself more and more inferior, he will control you mentally, consume you, and make you more and more failures.

Because of being in the family of origin, when I start a relationship and really enter the state of love, it is often difficult to really devote myself to it, because I am a person who is relatively insecure and lacks self-confidence. The reason why such a problem arises is mainly because of the original family, in my growth process and under the long-term education and guidance of my parents, I am more reluctant to fall in love, because when I was young, my parents were especially afraid that I would have the problem of early love in order to let me study hard, so they always instilled in me some of their truths, that is, to get along with girls, to keep a certain distance, because many girls are often unreliable, Only when you have a real foothold in your career in the future can you consider falling in love, because girls are more realistic. Therefore, under the influence of their concept, after graduating from college, I should fall in love at the age of time, I still have some resistance to falling in love, because I am not very satisfied with my state, I am afraid that after starting a relationship, the other party will dislike my job and my income, although at this time, my parents are no longer as good as when I was studying, but are particularly concerned about my falling in love, and always want to introduce me to a girlfriend. But I didn't have any interest in it, and I thought I was still young and should devote more energy and time to my career.

You should study more and work harder to make your career more successful and make yourself better, so that you can be confident because you are not worse than the other party.

You can improve your self-confidence and make yourself a little better, so that you don't regret it, after all, love is selfish.

I think you should communicate more with each other, and you should make yourself better, you shouldn't be so inferior, you should be more confident.

I am not confident because the other party is too good, which leads to my lack of self-confidence, and at this time I need to improve myself and make myself an excellent person.

Trust each other: You feel that you are not confident in yourself, in fact, because you don't trust each other, but in a relationship, you must trust each other in order to be able to last a long time.

You have to think about what strengths you have, and try to make the most of your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and give full play to your strengths, so that you can be more confident.

I think you should adjust your mentality, and you should also continue to improve yourself, improve yourself, and make yourself better, so that you can make yourself more confident.

I often feel unconfident in love, what should I do? First of all, you have to find out whether the reason is because of the lack of confidence in appearance or because of the lack of confidence in emotions. I'm not confident on the outside, so you have to learn to package yourself better and make yourself confident.

If you are emotionally unconfident, then you can further communicate with the other party, let the other party know what you think, comfort you and relieve your doubts!

You must build self-confidence, think about what you are better than others, and think about where the other person is not as good as you, so that you can face it calmly.