Which love will you choose? 5

The second kind of pull!

Emotional things can no one pack a ticket! Even if this minute is very emotional! And what about the next minute???

Besides, the feelings are very deep, and they are also cultivated! Cultivated but not together! Isn't it a little unsatisfactory!

That's not as good as not having deep feelings! But we can be together! Because the feelings are not deep, they can also be slowly cultivated into deep feelings!

Isn't it all happy then!

How can a long time be guaranteed if the relationship is not deep? If it can be guaranteed, then why can't the deep feelings last long?

Don't do it, find a relationship that is deep and long-lasting.

I'll choose the second one, which can be cultivated slowly.

Choose someone you can be together for the rest of your life

In favor of the ice-water mixture, I find it contradictory.

The second one, if possible.

Many young people will feel that they have sacrificed a lot for each other when they are in love, and they will sacrifice a lot of social interaction in order to be better with each other, but I think that a good love will not be like this, if this situation occurs with your other half, then you should have a good chat, two people look for each other's reasons, a good love is to let us grow, let us bring more to each other, not to ask us to sacrifice what we have for each other, if this is the case, Two people can't live happily.

2. Good love can make us more content.

A good love can make both parties understand the beauty of the world, and they will become more content when they are with each other, thinking that the other party is their own world, so that they also have more motivation to bring better things to the state jujube side, and good love can be completed by each other, not only can they get along with each other, but they can also be themselves.

When the two of them fall in love, they both think that each other is their own sunshine, as long as the other party is by their side, they will be full of hope, they will have more confidence in doing anything, and they will have more expectations for life, hoping that they can make each other live a better life.

Many young people will feel that they have sacrificed a lot for each other when they are in love, and they will sacrifice a lot of social interaction in order to be better with each other, but I think that a good love will not be in this situation, if this situation occurs with you and your other half, then you should have a good chat about it, two people look for each other's reasons, a good love is to let us grow, let us bring more to each other, not to ask us to sacrifice what we have for each other, If that's the case, two people can't live happily.

2. Good love can make us more content.

A good love can make both parties understand the beauty of the world, and when they are with each other, they will become more content, thinking that the other party is their own world, so that they will have more motivation to bring each other better things, and good love can be done with each other, not only can they get along happily, but they can also be themselves.

When the two fall in love, they both think that each other is their own sunshine, as long as the other party is by their side, they will be full of hope, they will have more confidence in doing anything, and they will have more expectations for life, hoping that they can make each other live a better life.

It's really important. An emotionally unstable partner can seriously affect the mood of the other half, leaving the other partner in a psychological situation of worry, throbbing, anxiety, and fear at all times. If a couple is emotionally stable, then their marriage will also be stable and happy.

Emotional stability means having a lot of rational thinking, not looking for trouble, and not making a name for yourself. It is necessary to analyze the problem first, rather than to be angry first. I won't say anything too much to my partner and give each other more respect.

If there is dissatisfaction, express it in quiet language, the other party will understand it in seconds, and the breakup will not tear the face.

People who are emotionally stable are good both internally and externally, and they are the same as the next.

Internally, he will not rehash old accounts during quarrels, he will not lose his mind and expose your injuries and scars, but you will discuss the matter on a case-by-case basis, analyze it rationally, and resolve it peacefully.

Externally, he will not panic when he encounters things, but will calm down and reflect on how to reasonably avoid risks, still less will he bring home all the unsatisfactory things in the outside world, and let the people closest to him bear the grievances he has suffered.

The highest level of prodigal in love is probably emotional freedom.

If you have emotions, you don't hide them, you don't let the other party guess, you don't vent them indiscriminately, you are happy and aggrieved, and you are sad and angry, all of which are expressed in an appropriate way.

However, more often than not, it is the person who loves you who will not let you fall into emotional restlessness and anxiety, and he will definitely pull you behind him at the moment when you are at a loss, and face the emotional storm alone, like he gets into the cabinet under the sink and repairs the sewer, you hand him a wrench, like he is standing on a chair, changing the light bulb, and you are holding on to the chair.

You know, even if it's your fault to be emotional, he will stand by your side without hesitation and help you deal with those embarrassments, embarrassments, and unhappiness, because he understands you, and what you share is not an emotional breakdown, but that you trust him, so he will not throw this trust into indifference.

One day, you start to hide your emotions, and you talk about everything you want, not because you quit your emotions, but because you don't dare to give them your emotions.

I think to be able to separate the word suitable, that is, to meet the standard and comfortable, in the case of choosing the other half, whether it is suitable or not needs to look at two points first, the first point is whether he is a passing lover, and the second point is also to see whether he has a comfortable daily life with him.

First of all, I think that the two people are actually suitable in terms of personality. Two people can be similar or opposite in personality, one movement and one stillness, one strong and one weak. But if the personalities of the two people are irritable, just think about it, how can such a family have a peaceful life.

Both of them have quiet personalities, so there's nothing interesting about this kind of life. There are some couples in life who are like this, and they have not quarreled for more than ten years together, doesn't it sound a little abnormal.

Originally, feelings should be a kind of irrational chemical molecules, from people's primitive DNA, but we don't know that daily life is in social development, we can't completely get rid of social development to daily life, so in the case of seeing whether a person is suitable for a person, we should consider it from the perspective of social cognition, such as what this person can bring you to provide, and whether the two of them can talk very happily with him in daily life, these elements may be a little utilitarian, but very practical, How to choose bread love, the best way to find a balance, I firmly believe that sometimes the fish and the bear's paw can be both.

For example, when a girl chooses a lover, she usually attaches more importance to some of the material life behind him, such as whether he has the ability to earn money to support his family, and what kind of quality of life he can give you in the future.

Therefore, one of the criteria for suitability is to meet the standard, to put it bluntly, the two suitable people must be all lovers who meet the standard, but they can't be suitable.

Choosing a lover is choosing a future way of life, so the process of dating must not be too tired, if you feel very tired with a person, then it means that the two of you are not suitable, and these people who are suitable together are often very comfortable in daily life together, so whether they are comfortable coexistence also affects whether the two are a pair of suitable lovers.

The one who understands you, has the same three views, and you have the same plan for the future, that is the right person. Because such a partner can accompany you further, stay by your side when you need it, and comfort you when you are sad.

There is no such thing as the right person, only two people who become the most suitable person for each other when they get along. Two people who are not suitable will definitely have a lot of contradictions and friction when getting along, and it is worth being together to make changes for each other.

I think that people who get along with you happily, people who let you not be depressed and unfettered, and people who can move you and care for you in a timely manner. The person who can make you dare to say anything and is willing to say anything, the person who allows you to show yourself completely without pretending, and the person who treats your bad as a lovely person. Being with the right person is the right marriage.

In love, the right person means that the family conditions match, the ability of the two people is basically the same, the appearance of the two people is not bad, except for each other does not have much feeling for each other, all other aspects are suitable.

The right person is first in the process of falling in love, and his three views must be consistent with you. In this way, you will have a smoother conversation. In addition, in love, your personalities, including all kinds of fun, are relatively similar, and this is the most suitable kind of person to get along with.

The right person in a love is that two people feel that it is quite suitable for two people to be together, that is, they feel that the other party is very suitable for themselves, and it also means that they are looking at the right eye, but the right person does not mean that it is love, and it does not mean that two people are in love.

That is, two people have a common topic, have a common goal, and then two people are willing to make changes for each other, two people are more clear about their future plans, and their family background is more suitable, and then they are also a good match.

The so-called person who is suitable for yourself is that you can do things to achieve a tacit state, and there will be no pressure to be with each other. Always being together in the most comfortable state is the most suitable person in love.

People who can put each other in their hearts, encourage each other, trust each other, and have similar views and ideas in life and in love, I think they are two suitable people.

The right person may be talking about your character, your personality is irritable and easy to get angry, and it happens that he is careful, delicate and gentle, which forms a complementary, which is the most suitable love.

The other party will willingly pay for you silently, without asking for anything in return, will tolerate and understand your various small shortcomings, even if there is a quarrel, it will not leave you, let alone have a cold war with you.

The two people have very suitable personalities, have many common interests in life, have many common hobbies, and have very similar views on some things.

I think that in a love, it will not make you angry, two people have the same temper, and the person with the same three views is the most suitable person.

The so-called right person is someone who is more comfortable with you in life, and you have no pressure to be with him.

In a relationship, the right person refers to someone with a similar personality, interests, hobbies, and family background.

Two people are very comfortable together, there is no need to deliberately disguise, and when they see the problem, they look at the problem from the same angle.

Hello, in a love, each other tolerates each other, thinks about each other in everything, and can understand each other.