My husband and I just got married, but now we are divorced because of money?

You're just getting married, so don't talk too much about the economy. In fact, life is very realistic, and no matter how much people talk about money, they will seem realistic, so they all say that talking about money hurts feelings. Do you think that now that you are a family, you are eager to communicate economic issues well and reach a consensus, but your husband mistakenly thinks that you value money too much?

I suggest that you remain financially independent for the time being, live for a while as you did before you got married, and then communicate well when the relationship is stable. After all, you know each other on a blind date, and you may not know each other completely, the relationship is not deep enough, and you have not established enough trust in each other to cause him to be wary of you. You can communicate with him slowly, let him understand your real thoughts, and wish you happiness.

If you really marry him for money, you will divorce.

If you really stay with him because you love him, you have to keep this true love and touch him with your own sincerity.

Let him keep his money and live well, since you are not greedy for his money, then you can use your own hands to earn money, don't rely on him.

So are you marrying him because of money, if you can't do a premarital property notarization to show that you are the one who loves him, not his money.

Divorce. The sorrow of not being the right one.

Such a stingy man. You chose the wrong one. Here's the answer!

Why is he like this, he looks so ugly, if he has no money, what are you doing with him, now he actually says this, it's too much.

I think his request to return is not reasonable, there are roughly the following reasons, first, the money spent by the woman is joint property, not the man's money, so there is no right to ask for a return, and the expenses incurred between the husband and wife are relatively large, and they are very miscellaneous, so it is not clear at all. In addition, it shows that this man is very calculating, once he divorces and separates from the relationship between husband and wife, he will turn his face and deny people, and such a man will leave him as soon as possible.

After all, two people are legal husband and wife, so it is normal for the husband to earn money for his wife to spend, so in this case, the man's request is unreasonable.

It's unreasonable, it's because the two people were married at the time, so it is natural to spend each other's money, and it can also be seen that this man is very picky.

Hello dear. Xiaobei thinks that there should be no divorce.

If your husband doesn't have money, then I hope you can think about it, money may not be the most important thing for each of us, but it is also indispensable. My suggestions below can help you in the afternoon.

1.Since you are married, you have a certain emotional foundation, and you can't do without money in your life. But you also need to understand that although a person who loves you may not be rich, at least you can feel a sincere heart by his side, so why lose someone who loves you for money.

2.Marriage is a matter of two families. But you and your husband are the foundation for the continuation of marriage, and the two of you can work together to earn money and create a beautiful and happy life for you in the future.

If you accompany him and share his ups and downs in the future, what you will get is not only wealth, but more importantly, the true love that you will never abandon each other.

3.Of course, you are the most woman, and I believe that you should know what kind of person your husband is. Men are not afraid of poverty, but they are afraid of being unmotivated.

I don't know how hard to work hard, so life should go on, and we should not run away from problems, but rise to the challenge, because I firmly believe that the future will be better.

No, there shouldn't be only material things in the relationship between two people. But if it is due to some improper reasons, such as prostitution, gambling and drugs, then you must get a divorce.

It depends on whether he is self-motivated and malleable. Then there's how high your expectations are of him and what your own conditions are. If you give up on him, can you find a better one with your current conditions (economic status, age, appearance, etc.).

It is important to decide carefully and not impulsively.

It's good to spend more money, he is so good to you, how dare you guarantee that you can live such a happy life after the divorce.

Money can be earned again, but people who are really good to you miss it are missed.

After getting divorced, can you find someone who can be sincere to you? There is a movie that is very good, and I suggest you watch "Hidden in the Dust".

can let the husband divorce himself for 10,000 yuan, which means that the other party does not really like himself, if a man will not have such a decision because of this money, at this time he should agree to the other party's request and leave the other party decisively.

Anyway, the two are husband and wife and have been married for three years, but he divorced himself because of 10,000 yuan, and such a decision reflects that the other party does not love him enough. In the face of a man who does not put himself at ease and divorces himself because of money, it is better to choose to let go, so that at least he will not let himself repeat the same mistakes again in the future, and make trouble again because of money. 10,000 yuan is not a lot of money for most families now, but the other party divorced him because of this, and such a man is not worth relying on.

As a woman, the family is very important, but the family is not the whole of a woman, and a woman should also have the right to pursue happiness. Back then, I couldn't let the other party treat myself sincerely, and I couldn't let the other party take care of myself, so leaving at this time was the best choice. In a marriage, a woman should know how to love herself well, so that she will be truly happy, and she will be able to find her true self in marriage, rather than being delayed by marriage.

No matter at all times, you must know how to love yourself, as long as you know how to love yourself, the other party will cherish you, so that you will be happy.

It is not all smooth sailing in marriage, and if you really encounter unbearable setbacks and problems that you can't face, it is not a shame to leave. In the face of the situation that the husband values money more than himself, divorce is also the best outcome, at least he will not let himself be given up again in the next few days. Since the other party gave up on himself first, such a marriage is not a relief for himself.

There will also be unfortunate things in marriage, and a marriage maintained by one person will not last long, once one party has the idea of divorce, don't keep it, otherwise it will only hurt you.

At this time, you should divorce, because he proposed to divorce you for 10,000 yuan, it can be seen that his feelings for you are not very deep, and such a man has no responsibility, and you don't have any happy feelings when you live with him, so you should stop the loss as soon as possible, otherwise you will be very hurt in the future.

Then divorce him, such a man is not worth it, just leave him and find the happiness he deserves.

In such cases, you can communicate effectively with your husband, ask him what he thinks, weigh the pros and cons before making a corresponding decision.

It depends. If the property acquired by the husband and wife during the existence of the marital relationship is jointly owned by the husband and wife, they have equal rights to dispose of it and do not have to pay it back; If it is the personal property of the husband and wife before the marriage and is not jointly owned by the husband and wife, it shall be returned. The following property is the personal property of one of the spouses:

a party's pre-marital property; Compensation or compensation obtained by one party due to personal injury; Property that is determined in a will or gift contract to belong to only one party; daily necessities for one party; Other property that should belong to one party.

Article 1062 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The following property acquired by husband and wife during the existence of the marital relationship is the joint property of the husband and wife and shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife: (1) wages, bonuses, and remuneration for labor services; (2) Income from production, operation and investment; (3) the proceeds of intellectual property rights; (4) Inherited or donated property, except as provided for in Item 3 of Article 1063 of this Law; (5) Inspect other property that shall be jointly owned. Husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of joint property.

Hello subject! I'd love to talk to you about family intimacy.

First of all, the subject and her husband have been married for more than ten years now. I wonder what your relationship is like, aside from your values and your family's financial problems? Will there be a lot of disagreement?

If there is a big disagreement, how do you usually deal with Liang Shou? Why do you have such a big disagreement after having children? What is the main aspect?

Or is the main question of whose hand socks are more serious at home?

Secondly, the financial power of the family is in the hands of the husband, so what does the husband do with the money? Is it the family's consumption expenses or is it really going to manage money? Has the family's fortune increased?

Why do you think it's bad to put it in your husband's hands? Is it that his own salary is not effective for him? How does he manage his finances, I don't know if the subject has a detailed understanding of it?

If the subject feels that the money is in the hands of the husband and has not increased, can the waiter negotiate with him to let you control your own salary? The salary can be divided into several parts according to the demand, financial management, family expenses, own consumption, etc., according to their actual situation to negotiate with the family, will it be better?

Finally, marriage and divorce are considered by the subject himself, and others cannot give you specific opinions. In an intimate relationship, what we can do is to do what we can do well, we can't change others, if the relationship really makes us uncomfortable, please also ask the subject to consider clearly where to go. Of course, if after negotiation, the subject's husband can compromise, then it is also a good thing.

If the husband and wife can't negotiate well on their own, they can turn to the neighborhood committee or the women's federation and other institutions around them, and I think it may be better.

Hope mine can help the subject!

Li Jia (pseudonym)'s husband Zhou Jie (pseudonym) is 32 years old this year. He said that before getting married, Li Jia knew that he and he wanted to divorce Li Jia. But because of her bad relationship with her parents and her relatives, Li Jia finally chose to "break up peacefully" with herself.

But after a quarrel, Li Jia found that this marriage did not last as long as Li Zai, and she decided to divorce Zhou Jie.

1.I'm a person who can't speak.

Li Jia, 25, started working as a salesman in a small company a few years after graduating from university. Later, she met her current husband Zhou Jie online. Li Jia said that in the process of dating Zhou Jie, in addition to her feelings for Zhou Jie, it was his "stalking" that I was a person who couldn't speak.

She thinks it's normal for a man to like a flowery woman, but Zhou Jie won't use his heart to be good to his other half.

2.He was very nice to me.

After getting married, Li Jia became pregnant, but Zhou Jie treated me very well, and his salary was 3 times that of his wife. Sometimes I want to buy something to eat, and he will help me go**. His salary bought me a lot of cosmetics and bags.

His family loves to play with me, and I don't think it's necessary for us to be so high-profile when we get married!

3.I don't know how to get along with him.

After we got married, my husband and I have been working outside the home to earn money, and our incomes are about the same, and our lives are relatively stable. In the beginning, we would eat together and get by, but then we found out that the problem arose. Every time I had a good conversation at dinner, I found that he had spent all the money on groceries — and he would give it to me when he was done.

Sometimes I would argue with him about buying clothes for my child. That's how we got along so far! If you want to live with someone who you don't know anything and who has no interest in you, then this is a must-try.

4.Divorce is inevitable.

I quarreled with my husband and couldn't say a single word. He felt that he owed his wife too much, so he proposed to break up with his wife after a big argument, and proposed to deduct the family expenses from his wife's salary. Li Jia still felt unfair after hearing this, although Li Jia didn't say anything big, but Li Jia said that the two should not quarrel in the future.

Li Jia said that she would no longer easily believe the words of others. And Li Jia and Zhou Jie were together, and during this time, she didn't think about getting a divorce. But now it is completely inevitable that Li Jia will divorce Zhou Jie:

Li Jia said he owed her too much money; Li Jia also didn't want to be very stiff with Zhou Jie financially; If this continues, the two really want to divorce, it will take two years and so on.

5.After the divorce, she stopped mentioning her name.

Two months later, Li Jia wanted a divorce, but she said to Zhou Jie: "Let's go, we don't want children." Two months later, the two went through divorce procedures.

At this time, it was ** contact again, but the phone was turned off all the time, and she no longer mentioned her name. In this marriage, Li Jia was very hurt and painful.

Summary. If you and your ex-husband are divorced and he is still spending your money, then you need to take steps to fix the problem as soon as possible. First, you need to look at the financial agreement in your divorce settlement to see if there are provisions on how the finances will be divided between you and if he has the right to use your money.

If the financial agreement between you does not stipulate that he can use your money, and he obtained your property through fraud, threats, or other illegal means, you can take legal action to recover your money. Alternatively, you may consider closing your bank account, changing your password, or taking other steps to protect your property. The most important thing is to act as soon as possible to avoid further financial losses.

Hello, I am a teacher of Youyou, good at marriage and family, love, psychological sensitivity, interpersonal buffer communication, etc. I can feel that you are very confused now, so if it is convenient for me to tell me about your specific situation in detail<>

If you and your ex-husband are divorced and he is still spending your money, then you need to take steps to fix the problem as soon as possible. First, you need to look at the financial agreement in your divorce settlement to see if there are provisions on how the finances will be divided between you and if he has the right to use your money. If the financial agreement between you does not stipulate that he can use your money and he has obtained your property through fraud, threats or other illegal means, you can take legal action to recover your money.

As an alternative, you may want to consider closing your bank account, changing your password, or taking other steps to protect your property. The most important thing is to act as soon as possible to avoid further financial losses.