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Oh, first ask someone if you want to marry or not, let's talk about it, it's not that you want to be responsible, you can bear it!
See if you love her or not. Who doesn't have any relatives and friends, people's lives have great ups and downs, maybe people's brothers and younger brothers will get along in the future. I'll help you, you can only see what is in front of you, who can say for sure.
The key is to see if your girlfriend is worth marrying. Even if you help, you can only do it if your family's conditions allow. As soon as the woman gets married.
Why do you take care of your own home first, think about it!
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You can tell her that after getting married, the two of you will live an independent life, and you will not ask your parents for money or anything, and tell her that after marriage, the housework will be shared, and help her family to be able to do so if your financial conditions allow, instead of taking your parents' money, say it first, so as not to have any trouble in the future, if she feels okay and you love her very much, you can live a good life, but there will still be a lot of trouble after your family conditions are so poor.
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It depends on how much you love him?
Will you be able to sustain yourself financially?
Also think about it in the future can.
Does the family get along?
These things can only be solved by yourselves.
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If you can't put on a wedding dress for her, don't take off her underwear!
There is no guarantee that it will bring her happiness, so please don't deprive her of the right to enjoy happiness in the future, which will also cause an eternal shadow in a girl's heart. It even caused a lifetime of psychological trauma.
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Of course, I want your family to help, but this is not the key, I believe that your family is not short of tens of thousands of yuan.
The key thing is that you also know that getting married and living a life is very trivial and you have to take your time, and you can meet a few people in your life who are willing and really willing to spend your life with you.
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You have to be responsible for her, although the world is open now, but if you live together, you have to decide to marry her before, to be honest: a woman's life is not easy.
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I'm the same, my girlfriend is not thrifty, I really don't know what to do in the future?
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Playthings lose their minds, and people lose their morals.
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I guess she's in love with your money...
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Parents are not necessarily right, but the family conditions are poor, and not thrifty, you can see what kind of person you are, you look average, and the pursuit of perfection, you can see whether you are her ultimate goal, do not like to do housework, but want to do housework for you not to do housework with you, after marriage, she will definitely drive you. The bystander is right.
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Love her? If he loves him, he will marry her.
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Love has no boundaries, however, love requires each other's giving, as long as you really love him, in the same way, she also loves you with all her heart, perhaps, you are a natural pair, love can overcome all difficulties.
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Stinky man, she's very good, why don't you marry her, she will also work and make money.
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On this issue, I am equally confused!
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My girlfriend has a history of cohabitation, and I will choose to marry her, because I like my girlfriend to like her as a person, not the other person's past, even if the other party's cohabitation history has no impact on the present.
Love doesn't come first and last, and it's normal for girlfriends to fall in love with other people before themselves, if it weren't for the fact that they didn't go to the end, they wouldn't have their own today. The other party did not cherish his girlfriend well, which led to the point of breaking up, so that the day when he fell in love with his girlfriend, he should thank the other party for letting him have such a girlfriend.
I don't think it's much of a problem with cohabitation history, and if you love someone, you will tolerate everything about the other person, and it won't change because of anything. After all, two people are together in feelings, as long as the relationship between two people is very good now, it is the best ending, and if you love someone, you should give each other happiness, so that you can get true love. Living together does not mean that the other party is not a good girl, it only shows that they have not met someone who cherishes her, and their love is not great enough to go to the end.
When you and your girlfriend can have a common language and topic, it is a matter of course for two people to get married, and it is even more natural for you to marry each other. I think girls who have lived together should not be subject to any prejudice, otherwise they will only make people look down on themselves, and they don't really love each other.
Loving someone will compromise for the other person, and will tolerate everything about the other person, even if it is an unbearable past, it will not mind, but manage each other's feelings well. If you really love each other, you will think about each other, you will work hard for the future of two people, and you will not dislike each other because the other party has a history of cohabitation, but you will take better care of each other, so that the other party can have a better future, so that the other party can be happy.
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I would still choose to marry her, because the history of cohabitation has nothing to do with the fact that we are going to get married, on the contrary, I think that cohabitation before marriage is very correct behavior.
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I think I will marry her, because it is normal for my girlfriend to have a history of cohabitation, which shows that he has given a lot in that relationship, and I should feel more sorry for him.
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I would still choose to marry her, because I think that as a normal person, we must look forward, not grasp each other's history.
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I would choose to marry him, I don't think it matters, I don't care about his past because I love him.
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I think this question depends on how deep your love for this woman is, if you love this person, you won't care about his past, because he is with you now, the past is the past, and in the 21st century, people are very open, so I think this question is all about the individual.
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I don't want to marry, because living with someone else proves that this woman's attitude towards life is problematic, more casual, and unmarried cohabitation is unjustifiable in all aspects.
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Willingly, in the current society, we should abandon those old feudal ideas. As long as the two of them get along.
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When it comes to the topic of "cohabitation", the controversy has always been very big, although the society is now open, but when it comes to marriage, men still hope that their wives are a woman who has nothing to do, why do men who look at it care so much about it? Today we will analyze the reasons.
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Unwillingly! Women who have been married and have a history of cohabitation are not accepted.
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If we can get married, we don't care about what happened to her before.
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Yes, the daughter-in-law is delicate and kind, self-respecting and self-loving, and ice is clear and jade.
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The girlfriend is indecisive, and it should be excellent that there is no concern after that is an improvement. It's hard to accept.
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First of all, I think that cohabitation is a more serious matter, and couples should think carefully before deciding to live together, and it is recommended not to live together in the early stages of a relationship.
It is difficult for parents in traditional families to take over the premature cohabitation of lovers, and if they are told when the relationship is still unstable, the relationship will change in the future, which will only increase the annoyance and dissipation of the parents. In the parents' mind, cohabitation may represent the future of marriage. In the lives of today's young people, cohabitation may not be so burdensome.
This gap in consciousness will not only affect the communication between parents and children, but may also affect the direction of the relationship between couples. Cohabitation is indeed a matter that needs to be carefully considered, and when the relationship is hot, it is easy for two people to make some impulsive decisions. In general, it is recommended to consider cohabitation during the period of emotional stability, when two people have a certain understanding of each other, and it will be easier to solve the troubles caused by different living habits.
If you still decide to live together after you have thought about it, be sure to tell your parents first. You can choose to talk to your parents tentatively, talk about the cases of friends living together, and listen to your parents' views on living together as a couple. If your parents agree with the couple's cohabitation, then congratulations, you can spend a lot less words, but if your parents don't agree with this matter, don't quarrel with your parents, after all, they are the people who love you the most in the world, you can slowly infiltrate the boyfriend's room in your daily life, such as your friend's thoughtfulness and good things for you, and slowly let your parents accept him, and then tell your parents about it when the time is right.
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Calculate.
Occasionally spending the night together is of course cohabitation, many people feel disappreciative of cohabitation before marriage, in the case of not getting married, you can have sex with people casually, but I didn't expect that this would affect my life happiness, cohabitation when I was not married, especially the girl's parents, must be uncomfortable.
Precautions for cohabitation.
If you like to sleep lazily on a day off, he prefers to get up early to clean up the house, and he has to quarrel with you, and quarrels are inevitable. The friction caused by the difference in wake-up time can only be tolerated by parents; On the other hand, if the other party is indecisive and always unsettled, what the two of them do together on the weekend, or on the contrary, always rudely decide what to do, will cause unhappiness.
However, this closed rule is easier to solve, and the two sides can set a rule, such as Saturday is Girls' Day, Sunday is Boys' Day, and Girls' Day will give priority to girls, and everything will be listened to by girls. And vice versa, Li Zhiye.
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Not counted. Legal analysis: No, only after obtaining a marriage certificate can it be considered a marriage.
Legal basis: Article 1049 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China A man and a woman who wish to marry should apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued.
The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. If Tanhu has not completed the marriage registration, he shall make up the registration.
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Whether to marry first and then live together or to marry first and then marry is just a personal choice, there is no right or wrong. Of course, each has its advantages.
I chose to live together is also very cautious, at that time we have known each other for more than half a year, 1 when the ordinary friends get along very well, there are a lot of things to talk about, similar views, sometimes he will invite me and other friends to his house to eat, although he is new to cooking, but the cooking taste is very good, bought a bread machine for us to make bread to eat, after cooking the kitchen is very clean, live alone, the health of the home is very good.
2. Because I work in different units in the same system, his leaders know me, and many colleagues also have crossover because of job transfers, he works very seriously, and the leaders like it very much, and he belongs to people who can do things and use their brains. In addition to my own understanding, I can also understand a lot of personality and temperament from many colleagues and friends.
3 He liked me very much.
4 I like him very much.
It was I who offered to let him move to where I lived, and he looked confused and then ecstatic.
After living together, I found that although this product is a diligent houseworker, he is also very straight, and the girl's mind will not guess, and if she has any ideas, she must say it directly, otherwise she will suffocate herself.
There were times when I made him so angry that he couldn't do anything about me, and he wouldn't smash things, hit people, or swear.
I've been to his hometown, I've met his parents, his family is very good, his mother likes me very much, at least I'm an aunt with a simple temperament, and the cooking is very special and filial piety.
I decided to live together at that time, I really think it can be him, but I still need to know more, marriage is a very important thing, you can't talk about it hastily and end it, what kind of person is this person, his attitude towards life, work attitude, temperament, attitude, three views, etc., I must have a thorough investigation, the same, I also hope that he understands me, understands me, knows my shortcomings, likes my advantages and we can tolerate each other's shortcomings.
Cohabitation is just a means of getting to know each other better. The purpose is to try marriage.
Before living together, you must already know a lot about him, determine the feelings of both parties, and make sure that the other party is not a big problem in matters of principle. Character must be determined before cohabitation.
I hope that all men and women who choose to live together are cautious, this is not a question of who suffers or not, but once you choose to live together, in addition to paying a lot of feelings and your own life, it is a habit for a long time, if you can't go on, you need to withdraw, it will be very painful, and it will be difficult to get out.
Of course, the most important thing is to take safety measures regardless of whether you live together or not. The set should be brought throughout the whole process, don't think that you can bring it at the end, eat the short effect on time, don't forget it.
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Premarital cohabitation will affect marriage, because the man will feel that he has lived together, and marriage is just a formality, so he doesn't care too much, which will make women who live together for the purpose of marriage feel uncomfortable, and it is likely to break up unhappily in the end, which is a heavy blow to the woman. Living together before marriage is a curse, and if you are really happy to celebrate a person, your boyfriend should love and respect your girlfriend.
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Legal analysis: No, only after obtaining a marriage certificate can it be considered a marriage.
Legal basis: Article 1049 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued.
The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.
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