I m in love with two girls and they love me too.

I've also experienced something like this, I have a good relationship with my boyfriend, others are very envious, he is also very likable, once he didn't know why he went to accompany another woman every day, he said that he just sympathized with her and her boyfriend quarreled, I think he just didn't want to let me know the truth, at that time I had to take exams, and he went to the bar with her every day after work. Later, I found out, and there was a quarrel, and everyone was tired......In the end, I still can't bear him, we're all right, but it's been half a year, and I still can't completely forget, this is an eternal pain, so if your girlfriend doesn't know, please give up that young and lively girl, because there will always be one who will also get old and no longer lively; If your girlfriend already knows, then give up on her, long pain is better than short pain This is the best choice, don't force a smile every day like me, hehe, it's just a little advice from yourself, I hope you can deal with it well, don't hurt both ......

Don't continue, it will break the hearts of two people.

Don't waste the girl's youth, you are too attractive, it's not your fault, but it's your fault that you hurt two girls and waste their youth. Choose one and don't use it for the second time. Otherwise, you know the consequences.

I know it's wrong, and it's too late. Hurry up and make a choice.

If you don't give up both, you can only lose both!

If you really cherish them, just make a choice.

Love is so selfish.

Brother, this is a symbol of the new era, you don't have to blame yourself, you just want to do a lot of such things, but you have to master the degree.

Do you know the results of pedaling two boats??? Come to think of it, there are many things that can be changed.

You don't cheat on your girlfriend or you'll regret it. Forget the girl who made you tempted, the temptation is only temporary, and you will know after a long time.

I can only say that I am very helpless about your love, but it is not necessarily your life. Because it was your own failure to recognize the relationship and importance, and did not make a decision that was in line with your heart, it led to such a regrettable ending.

In fact, people meet first in their lives, miss them, regret their pursuit, and finally complete or sad.

To the first girl who loves you is indeed you did not think clearly. At first, it was your family that asked you to give up on her for your studies, maybe you were too young at the time and only knew how to listen to your mother, but why didn't you contact her when you were about to graduate from junior high school? Is it that you don't like her anymore over time?

Maybe when I was a child, I didn't understand that it wasn't love at all, or why you would give up your studies for the sake of your second girl. That's why you used to let your relationship deteriorate. Who didn't miss it when he was young, and he was delayed!

The second girl is tragic because you don't communicate with each other. Why don't you give up your studies for her without asking her what she thinks? And why does she ask and decide to give up feelings for your own good without asking your opinion?

Why are you trying to guess what the other person means? Why do you want to hide your feelings, tuck them up, and let them hide between the two of you? It's not selflessly thinking about the other person, it's making the two of you not transparent, so it's easy to make wrong sacrifices.

You two are mainly a lack of communication!

Now that they have started their own families, then men, give up calmly, live their own lives, don't create more tragedies, if something goes wrong because of old things, it will not be a matter of two people, it will hurt generations of innocent people. Life is not always perfect, and it is good to have memories with them.

People need to look to the future. I wish you all happiness in the future!

Let you play guess, guess.

That's the price!

To put it bluntly, you just lack communication! If you tell the reason, you can discuss anything wrong.

Why make yourself like a saint, thinking that your decisions can make the other party understand more.

Fate is in your own hands, what can you do if you don't grasp it well!

I have so much patience to read this short story!

I'm annoyed to see it!

You're a piece of wood! I really want to scold you, don't scold you, I see a fire in my heart!

It's useless to regret it now!

Life is a foregone conclusion. Cherish what you have now, and don't bother your current life!

Forehead. All right. I'll admit I came here because I was bored. Of course, your question I started to think it was**. It's too long, right?

How so? Having a lover eventually become a family is actually more like comfort. Don't you think?

Let's first dissect your two loves. In the first paragraph, you resolutely chose to give up because of your mother. But why ignore it if you're not in love?

I'm struggling with this. If you don't be a boyfriend or girlfriend, can't you be an ordinary friend? Holding hands every day shows that you are not a feudal element in the 60s and 70s, but after you don't socialize, you don't say anything, which is really corrupt.

Let's talk about your second love. I just hurt one in elementary school, and I "loved" it again in junior high school. Do you have a hobby? For women, you have to be soft and hard, she ignores you, and you harass her. What are men reserved?

In general, you don't know women, and you don't know yourself. The two women in your life who love you and love you are secretly withering in your indecision. There is no regret medicine in the world, and treating your current partner well is true.

All are married men. What are so many injuries? It's a little awkward with my partner, and I miss the love I used to have, which is not what a man does. Have a good time! As a fellow of the kind, I am optimistic about you. Sentimental and nostalgic Cancer?

Friend, you have the courage to open your heart and expose your inner world, which is worthy of recognition, now that we all have families and children, we can't change it. This is your original words, it shows that you are a reasonable person, you can make today's question, and it also shows that you are not very old, and your understanding of some human accidents is not very deep, and there are lovers who eventually become dependents, and that you can't be dependents means that you can not be a lover, and the love you insist on is just your own wishful thinking, since you have made up for your married life, then your lover, and children will be all yours, blindly fantasizing about the seemingly beautiful things that you have lost, you can only let yourself fall into the burden of boring thoughts, so for you, to the person you "love", to the person who loves you, to your family, to the other party's family is unfair, so you fairy ah is responsible, to be used to bear your responsibility, and one more point. It is the "love" Boone that eats as a meal, and the wife and children are the support of all living beings.

People often cherish it when they lose it. As a child, you took her existence for granted, never thinking that she would leave you.

It's not providential, it's man-made. It was your choices that made the end of the year.

I advise you not to break ties with her again. It's not good for you and her family. You also mentioned that you are all people with children.

There is this sentence that a lover eventually becomes a family. But how many pairs of people in the world are like this? I think you should cherish your current family now and stop allowing yourself to regret it.

What I can say is the causal cycle When you were in elementary school, A admired you very much, and you liked A, but you cut off contact with A for your mother's words, in fact, your mother was worried that your study was not wrong, but you didn't grasp it well at that time, and Auntie just said that she was afraid of delaying your studies, but she didn't say that you couldn't be together in the future, and when you were in junior high school, B didn't contact you for your future, maybe B really liked you, but B didn't say the reason in time, maybe it indirectly delayed you (your studies) Hey, the children at that time were still young and immature enough Marriage is not a task, let alone an obligation, maybe you are blindly married, but since you have all chosen to get married, have a family, please cherish the present, let it pass if you love, please put love in the bottom of your heart, silently bless it, be good to each other!

Look at the tone of your speech--- you Ya Qiongyao** have seen too much, right? The article is full of "I regret it", "I'm sad", "My heart is trembling"...Can you stop talking in a Taiwanese accent? It's weird, are there any girls who like this kind of person now?

Your actions have caused your end, what days do you say? Blame Providence? Why doesn't it belong to you? Don't you reflect on it?

One girl is my ex-girlfriend who has been breaking up for a month, and we both fell in love for the first time and broke up. You really love your ex-girlfriend, right? Like and love are not the same. Maybe you just like (2)...

Cherish what is in front of you. Be kind to your current wife, if you don't put your heart on your current wife, maybe she will be the next one to hate you. You'll still regret it in the end.

I silently bless you two of your most loved ones in my heart! Say "I'm sorry, I love you" to them. But we all have a home.

Cherish each other's eyes!

Ye Tingcheng said that the love of adults is sometimes to know the life and death of the other party, and then live separately. Love doesn't have to be together, don't you think that when you meet such a person, it's enough to remember for a lifetime if you love and hurt? No matter how difficult the years were, I had enough courage to go on.

Is there a limit to liking this kind of feeling? Whether it's hurting the other person, being hurt yourself, or feeling disgusted, just let this wound leave a scar like a burn, so that you won't forget me. It's normal to have such a mood, and it's a helpless thing to have no fate, let it be, there are 20,000 people in the world who are suitable for you, and there can only be one who becomes a partner, so that person may also experience life and death similar to you, the same stumbling, the same because of emotional sadness and despair, all the experiences are just for you to be able to really give each other happiness when you meet, know how to cherish, know how to love.

This is fate, and they are just passers-by in your life and not the one in your life, you will also meet people who want to like each other and hope you are happy.

In fact, it is obvious that you have no autonomy.

I think that since you both have your own families now--then don't contact each other anymore--because since you once loved each other but missed it--missed it--it means that you are not separated--if you contact again it will affect 2 families, then it will not be good--remember that there was once someone who loved you deeply--use that love on your wife--it will be rewarded--

The person you love the most will not become a husband and wife, this is an iron law, I was very moved to see what you wrote, and in retrospect, it was really harmful to study hard.

True love is not love at first sight, but love over time; The real fate is not God's arrangement, but your initiative; The real inferiority complex is not that you are not excellent, but that you think of her too well; The real concern is not that you ask her to change if you think it is good, but that you are the first to discover her change; The real contradiction is not that she doesn't understand you, it's that you won't tolerate her.

We have always felt that we can be happy by compromise, compromise, and tolerance. But the lower your bottom line is, the lower the result you get! Isn't it?

If this girl really loves you and is really sensible, she will support you, no matter where you are, either go back with you to the place where you think you can develop more, or even if you don't leave, it will never change, unless its relationship with you has not reached this point.

Love always makes us expect too much: hope for longevity, hope for no separation, hope for possession and fulfillment. And in the end, I just felt a little tired and didn't know where to go.

The situation you are in now is almost the same, love is like this, at some point people will slowly be left in the dust of the years, or even lose their "original self".

In the real society, there is no one who can make a living by eating with "feelings", and there is no certain foundation, even after marriage? It is also likely to be because of the "only rice, oil, salt......"The daily life of the dispute tangled noisy ......or separated. At that point, it's too late for you to regret it.

It is recommended that you take advantage of the fact that you are young now, and that you are not married and have not really entered the family ....... Communicate with the other party well and explain the facts and reasoning. Look at the other party's reaction, of course, since you have such a "great love" here, if she doesn't listen or accept, separate or be together, you should have a score.......

In fact, the final decision is still up to you. As a man, be mature, have a manly spirit, can afford to take it, and can put it down ....... If you are entangled in "emotion", worry, gain and loss, it is not only your youth and career that will be delayed——, but also her, and it is also .........Hope it helps.

After the marriage is married, it's okay for you to walk far away.