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I think there are three possibilities:
1. She just treats you as a good friend, cares about you, and understands you It's normal Maybe what you said "always encourage me, understand my hobbies, and do things that make me happy" may not be a big deal to her It's just that she's more enthusiastic or you've helped her
Second, when you didn't confess, she had feelings for you, and after the confession, she felt that it was boring to have a sentence: "If you can't get it, you want to get it by all means, and after you get it, you feel that it doesn't matter" Of course, what I say here is just referring to your good impression and liking of her
3. She once had a love, maybe the male protagonist is very similar to you, such as appearance or personality or something, so she treats you as him, and when you really confess to him, she feels that you are still you after all
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It's okay to love someone and not to love someone for no reason! Then you have to ask why, that is, love is love, and not love is not love!
Do you know her well? You may have scared her by confessing to her like this! Be a little patient and take your time!
In that case, don't tell her if she can be your girlfriend! Still be a good friend! In this, get to know her well, care about her, and give him a sense of security and trust!
Start with a heart-to-heart conversation!
Good luck! ^_
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Before being a lover, she should be a friend first. After she becomes your friend and appears in your life, it is possible to know you, understand you, know your strengths and have a good impression of you, further develop feelings, and become a lover and object. The world's colors are not only white and black, there is still a long gray area between black and white.
As long as you get along more, you can discover the advantages of the other party and have a good feeling, which is the natural process of developing a relationship.
Therefore, there is a reason to love, and there is a reason not to love, but we may not want to say it, we may not want to think about it.
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Feelings come and go quickly, and she is telling you clearly that she doesn't like you, but she doesn't say it because she doesn't want to lose you as a friend. I had the same experience, and the boy ended up being friends with me. What you have to do now is:
Hide your love, don't pressure her, and tell her that you still treat her as a friend. Do what your friends do, say what your friends say, and don't cross the line. Otherwise, she might hate you.
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Agree with the landlord: There will be a reason for loving someone, you can tell what is good about him or her, and there is a reason for not loving someone. You can feel something wrong with him, or something that dislikes you.
Love her well, nothing is impossible, who knows if you don't try, you may not regret it after trying, and you will definitely regret it if you don't try.
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You are good friends, and suddenly this relationship has become very delicate, which makes the girl very confused, not knowing how to face this sudden change, and she does not know how to face you again. She probably never thought that such a thing would happen, she only thinks you are a friend, and she doesn't have that kind of feeling for you that goes beyond friendship. So she will reject you.
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There is no reason for love, but there must be a reason for not loving.
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She just wants to be friends with you, maybe you're scaring her, or maybe you're not his ideal object, Hey, there's no grass anywhere in the world! Figure it out.
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There is no reason not to love.
I just don't feel for you.
Maybe she's a friend of you.
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Because there is a reason to love, but when there is love, there will be no more reason.
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If you really love someone, it's impossible to reflect the reason for love all at once!
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There's no reason for it, but it doesn't matter.
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Loving someone is just a feeling, and you can't love without feeling.
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It just feels like there's no reason for it.
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I guess I don't like you, I'm just bored with you for a while.
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There is no reason to love someone!
That's a wise saying.
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Girls usually don't use their brains to think about emotional issues.
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The feelings of friends and lovers cannot be mixed together!!
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If you like appreciation, it doesn't mean that you have to be your GF!
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It feels. How could there be a reason.
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You're too reckless, how much do you know about that woman, you're too casual...Dizzy.
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You are not people of the world.
Give it up.
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Tailored to the person. There is no definite concept of everything.
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People who are in love have weak IQs!
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The other person will slowly fade out of your life. People who don't love don't happen instantaneously, but they accumulate, and long-term feelings are not released, suppressed, and suddenly explode at a certain moment.
Not loving someone, being even more cold, this feeling, slowly disappears from your life. There will be fewer and fewer intersections in life, and the social circles and friendship circles in life will gradually separate.
Kicking you out indifferently, not caring about you, not visiting you personally, not responding, let him slowly feel that he doesn't love you, and choose to leave automatically. Using cold violence, not taking the initiative to solve the problem, but choosing to use silence, using the most cruel cold violence to force the other party's loved one to leave, and at the same time refusing the other party's initiative to communicate, making the relationship like dead ashes, unable to rekindle, forcing the other party to leave is the purpose of TA.
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First, they don't want to talk to you about anything.
At seven o'clock in the evening, the moment her husband walked into the house, Yueyue obviously noticed that her husband was in an extremely bad mood. Dignified, melancholy, at first glance, it is something that has happened.
Out of concern, Yueyue hurriedly stepped forward to ask, but her husband never said a word, and finally was annoyed by the question, and directly yelled at Yueyue: "Are you annoyed!" I said it's okay, it's okay, what should I do, what should I do, what should I do".
He devoured dinner and sat on the couch watching TV.
Yueyue didn't want him to be unhappy, so she made him happy and coaxed him to be happy. And finally! Not only did he not appreciate it, but he felt that Yueyue was very noisy, could he let himself be quiet for a while?
Yueyue returned to the room aggrievedly, and after a while, his mobile phone rang, and when Yueyue came out of the room, his haze had already been swept away, but he was smiling, and he didn't know who to talk to with with his mobile phone.
At that moment, there seemed to be a voice in Yueyue's heart: "He doesn't love anymore."
Oh, yes! When a person is not in love, he has no common language with you, he is not willing to talk to you about anything, he does not want to talk to you about anything, on the contrary, he can talk to anyone, but he is not willing to say more words to you.
Second, it doesn't please you.
The most obvious manifestation of not being in love is to see that you are not pleasing to the eye, and always want to quarrel with you, as if as long as you see you, you feel very unhappy, as if your existence is a mistake.
Oh, yes! When you love someone, you think it's cute to even make trouble with him, but when you don't love him, it's wrong for you to even breathe the same air with him. is always picky about you, and can always deliberately make you cry because of a little unnecessary thing, and it won't be distressed.
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Dislike a person has the following manifestations.
One, be too lazy to take a look.
Second, I am too lazy to talk to you, and what I say is perfunctory.
Third, they are not concerned about your affairs and are indifferent, that is, they are not interested in what you say and do, and they will be bored and annoyed by what you share.
Fourth, she won't share with you what she encountered, whether she was happy or unhappy.
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Always hot and cold to you, want to ignore you, when the time comes, treat you a thousand kinds, ignore you, when you ignore you, he is annoyed to say a word, when he is with friends, he will always ignore you, while talking and laughing with his friends, he really loves and ignores you, you think he doesn't love anymore, he just doesn't love.
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Don't love someone, no matter how much the other person pursues you. You won't be tempted. Because you don't like him, no matter how much he gives, it's useless.
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