What should I do, the introverted boy help me analyze, am I doing it wrong 5

It's happy for that boy to meet a girl like you, but it's painful for that boy to meet you. It is true that he is a realistic person, and if he likes it, it is not that he does not want to be with you, but simply because he thinks too much about the actual situation. You want to be with him, but what about your family?

Do you know what your family thinks? Do you know what attitude they will have? If it had caused you a lot of trouble from the beginning, and brought a lot of trouble to you and your family, I don't think I would have chosen to start, after all, the relationship that can't come together in the end is very painful.

If he can't be ruthless to you and be ruthless to you, the more he drags on like this, the more painful it will be for you. Please be considerate of the boy's hard work. If you can convince your family to accept him too, take him to meet your parents often, and put everyone on an equal footing, I don't think boys will reject you again.

There is no shameless saying about loving someone!!

Just do as you say!! It feels like he's having an unspeakable problem, and instead of asking him that, let him say it himself

Introverts generally like to suppress their emotions and don't like to share with others Don't ask him about it Talk to him more about other places Work, life, etc. When he is not wary of you Maybe you can know anything The above is on the bright side What if he really doesn't like you? ?

But introverts in general rarely reject others outright!! It's so ruthless, so it's better to grasp it yourself, what others say is estimated, and only you know best

Happiness is in your own hands

Ignore him and find a new one.

If there is no helplessness, then he feels that he is not capable of giving you a good environment, so he lets you go and finds someone who is more suitable for you.

If you love him, make him ordinary friends first. Don't say anything like it feels like he likes you. If you say that, it will make him feel that you like him, so he must like you.

Therefore, maybe your love for him makes him feel that he is giving alms, take pity on him, and the difference in your family environment will indeed cause the inequality of status after two people are together.

Have the landlords ever considered whether your parents could accept a boy with such a family background, I think it's difficult, parents don't want their daughters to suffer in the future. Therefore, it is difficult for the landlord to be with such a boy, and he should feel very unrealistic and unrealistic, so I want to dispel your thoughts as soon as possible and stop pestering him, so that he will not be tempted.

The landlord is still very young, according to the landlord, the landlord should be well protected by the family, and it is very simple, and he has been very bitter since he was a child, so he must be more mature than the landlord, he said that he will never be with the landlord, and there should be a lot of practical reasons to consider.

Therefore, it is recommended that the landlord go home and discuss with his parents, and if the parents agree, then think about what to do next. Now, if you really love him and can't let go of him, just be ordinary friends with him.

Communicate with people more, break through your fears, and no matter what you do, the more you practice, the more confident you will be. It is also possible to change the personality, provided that there is a strong desire and persistence to change. Psychologists' research shows that about 50% of personality is genetically determined, and the rest can be shaped and perfected as oneself grows under the influence of the environment.

If you are not satisfied with your personality, you can try the following methods.

Successful Character Training – Self-Training The specific method is as follows:

Clause. 2. Determine what role you would like to play if you were an actor and why you like it.

Clause. 3. Choose any person you worship and list the traits and qualities in him that make you worship.

Clause. 4. Combine the second and third with a personality of your own choosing.

Clause. 5. Change what you don't like in your image, behavior, and personality, and reinforce what you like.

Clause. 6. Express your new personality. I would like to remind you that you should not expect to develop a character that will be successfully transformed anytime soon, but that you must also build on the core of your character.

You may just not find someone you want to communicate with, not really introverted, but you just haven't had a chance to open your conversational box.

There are not so many restrictions, just be yourself.

Don't go on, don't confess, remember!! Don't confess! Don't confess! Don't confess!

First of all, it depends on whether he has a good impression of you, boldly pursue what you want, after this village, there will be no such shop, how to know the result if you don't try.

Write a note to confess to him that you can give your friend to that girl.

Play more with friends, spend more time with the group, or be.

Talking to friends who are interested, there may be a lot of topics, introversion is not a bad thing or a good thing, there are advantages and disadvantages.

I suggest you eat more with your best friends, read books, talk more, there is nothing bad, and then you can increase your social relationship!

It's hard to say, there are so many reasons.

For example, it feels like there is no future between you.

For example, for the sake of face, you refuse, but regret it.

For example, he thinks that you are a good girl and will have a better person to keep you company. He wants you to find the right match, and he just needs to bless him from afar.

Leaving school feels like it's personal and has nothing to do with you.

I'm guessing that something is going on in his home, negative. So it feels like you don't have a future with him. But he is actually reluctant to let you go, but he is rational and a little awkward, and he doesn't want to be honest with you.

Build self-confidence, and if you can't, give up. No woman would like a man who doesn't have self-confidence.

If you don't know what an introvert is thinking, it's because you didn't ask him, and if you don't know what an extrovert is thinking, it's because you didn't listen...

Introverts have a lot of advantages, but don't take them? Introversion is an excuse, in fact, many people misunderstand the meaning of introversion, introversion is a natural attitude tendency. Here's a model for you to compare introverts and extroverts, and you can understand it yourself.

Introverts have the advantage of being introverts, more than half of them are introverts, many experts, senior consultants... All are introverts.

Don't just look at the charisma of the extroverted activists on stage, I'll admit that the lecturers do look charismatic, but the depth and calmness of the introverts are also out of reach.

Many introverts say that they are too introverted and want to change into extroverts, and even go to find a sales job to do, hoping to change their introverted personality... Introversion has nothing to do with communicative skills and is difficult to change.

If you don't have communicative skills, you can practice, observe, think, learn other people's communication skills, it is recommended to learn a little basic psychology knowledge, know your own personality, understand other people's personalities, and you will become very powerful... Recommended book: Please understand me (upgraded version) translated by Wang Tiantian.

In our society, we always seem to favor extroverts, so many introverts always want to be more extroverted, and secretly hate why they can't deal with extroverts in public like extroverts. However, extroverts have the advantages of being an extrovert, and introverts have the advantages of being an introvert. An introvert does not mean that he is not expressive or shy, while an extrovert does not mean that he is expressive or talkative.

Introverts focus their attention on the inner world, while extroverts focus their energy on the outer world. Introverts think twice before acting, extroverts do it later. But that doesn't mean extroverts are more capable of acting than introverts.

If extroverts are good sprinters, introverts are good long-distance runners, and each has its own merits.

Well, it's not what you feel.

I encourage you to give it a try, or you'll regret it!

A word for you There was once a true love in front of me, but I didn't cherish ———